Ah that makes more sense. When she first mentioned Vasectomy with Drake when she was pregnant with Landen the first thing I said about it was how it shows she has issues with her dad having more kids with someone else.Captain Smooth wrote:Oh, I didn't make my point very clear, I didn't mean she doesn't resent him. I meant she doesn't know she does, you know what I mean? If you'd ask her, she probably would say no, she loves him and the past is the past, but deep down she's unhappy with her childhood, so she tries to compansate by her actions (vasectomy must-haves included).Yue195 wrote:I politely disagree. In both relationships she has brought up Vasectomy. She wanted Drake to get one done after Landen (which he obviously didn't ) and now she's talking about Chris getting one. So personally I believe she does hold some resentment towards her dad having 'another' family especially since she wasn't so hunky dory about her half siblings/blended family until Chris showed up and suddenly it was great. Another example is that her Dad has a J name (Jeffery I think) , Lilia has her and Wendy middle name, Kyson has his paternal grandfathers name, Landen has Jess's step dads, but John is just a name in the family and Kaden has that.Captain Smooth wrote:
I don't think she resentes him in that sense, but I think she can relate to her Mother a little more, after also experiencing a life with a cheating husband that leaves while your children are still little.
I think she also carries a lot of subconscious baggage with her, which she doesn't fully realize. Her driven desire for a happy ever after, with a husband that's going to love her forever is one result of that. I could be totally off, but considering that marriage still is a big issue in the US, she might have seen a lot of classmates with both their parents still together, while she always had to explain that her Dad, was actually her stepdad and that her parents are divorced. So she tries to recreate what she missed as a child, by always making her current husband/boyfriend not only a fatherfigure, but a Daddyfigure, as if there is no other Dad, you just have one, like everybody else.
Allright I'm very philosophical today, but I'm sick at the moment and have lots of time to think
I don't believe Drake had any intentions to get Natalie pregnant since she was on the bar which is probably one of the best BC's you can get nor did she.
))" and there's like 10 confused minions comments asking who he is. She might try to hold up that she is close to him on his birthday but she doesn't mention him any of the other 365 days of the year. Let alone her dad!
