OkBabiesRaisingBabies: Part 12

[greeneyes21]

Me and my mother dont have a toxic relationship, but in general if i spoke to her and didnt ignore alot of things we wouldnt have a good relationship. I think mostly everyone speaking on this topic is allowed to speak about it. GEEZ why is everyone getting so fucking butt hurt assuming everyone doesnt "get it"

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[greeneyes21]

Anyone want to bring up another topic since, since this mother topic is "controversial" apparently ? Lol this forum went really fucking gloomy real quick, damn lmao


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[Highlighter]

Anyone want to bring up another topic since, since this mother topic is "controversial" apparently ? Lol this forum went really fucking gloomy real quick, damn lmao


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Cry me a river

[greeneyes21]

Anyone want to bring up another topic since, since this mother topic is "controversial" apparently ? Lol this forum went really fucking gloomy real quick, damn lmao


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Cry me a river

Whats with your attitude? Damn, girl lol


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[sasperillo]

I honestly think it's more of a money issue then anything when it comes to Kyras mom. I don't know if any of you have ever lived month to month, but it's super stressful. They make it obvious her mother isn't well off, she probably can't afford to miss more then one shift of work. I think with all the travelling oscar and kyra have done, they should have at least made the effort to make a trip to Montana to see grandma Kathy, and maybe go to her moms for a day or two. i will never understand why they moved to Utah, they wouldn't need to travel all the time to see family and friends and hang out with anyone beyond themselves.

Why do you think its a money issue? Ive never seen a vlog where they make it obvious that her mom has money issues. Even when they lived in Montana she was never around. You cant tell me she cant afford to visit them while only living a cpl hrs away. Now the Utah thing I agree with. Totally blows my mind. Its like they bought a map, closed their eyes and pointed. lol so random!

1- They didn't have any money growing up. Kyra and her brother were part of a program where the police collected donated toys for kids on Christmas. She said she was very grateful for this.
2 - Her mom just recently became a CNA. Though this may differ from place to place, this is not generally a high paying job. She works shifts and may not be able to take off. The fact that she recently got her degree to be a CNA implies that whatever she was doing before brought in even less money, or lost her previous job.
3- She lives in a modest home in a part of the country where real estate is on the cheap side.

We don't know whether she lives paycheck to paycheck, is paying off credit card debt or the likes, but we can see that her lifestyle is more modest than the rest of the family.

Having a poor relationship with ones parents can be a very painful topic- let's be nice to each other. There are many ways in which a family can be disfunctional and many ways to go about it.

[Pineapples]

Cry me a river[/quote]

Jesus stop fucking moaning!! If I want to talk about Kyra's mom I will. If I want to give my opinion on something I will. If you don't like that then piss off. I'm really not the one.


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[webbygurl626]

Can we stop with all the personal stories this is about OKbaby!


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[ACarATorchAJess]

This thread has gone to hell in a hand basket.

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[Rkp65i]

Can we stop with all the personal stories this is about OKbaby!


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Thank you! Everyone has to involve themselves andntheir own personal situations. Not to sound completely heartless but ppl dont come here to read about strangers relationships with their Moms. We come to read about O&K

[greeneyes21]

Well it started out about OK Baby then everyone had to get offended and personally involved about the topic, and assume shit about everyone therefore it turned into an emotional wad of shit.

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[RottieMama]

Change of subject??

Why do they think it's okay to cover their 3 month old baby with a heavy down comforter??

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It's okay though, I'm sure she looks super cute!


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[greeneyes21]

I dont understand why kyra got invited to beautycon.. she doesnt ever wear make up! Lmao she has so many eyeshadow pallets and alot of great make up and she never uses any of it i just dont get it. If i was im newyork i would be glamming myself up! Lol

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[webbygurl626]

Change of subject??

Why do they think it's okay to cover their 3 month old baby with a heavy down comforter??



It's okay though, I'm sure she looks super cute!


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That is so scary, I want to say they do it because they don't know any better and are just young but I think the reality is they are just plain too stupid to understand the dangers!


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[girl_please]

I saw Grandma Kathy at Costco today. It took me a minute to realize how I knew her and felt awkward about it once I realized that I don't know her, I've just seen her on youtube.

[kgiff77]

I saw Grandma Kathy at Costco today. It took me a minute to realize how I knew her and felt awkward about it once I realized that I don't know her, I've just seen her on youtube.

Should've gone up to her and said Howdy Doody


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[majorgossiper34]

I think it's obvious that Kyra's mom was neglectful when she was a child seeing as they even had to deal with CPS, had little to no money (not that that means she's neglectful but it does affect a child and put a strain on that relationship), and the fact that Kyra wanted to go live with her dad and has admitted to not having a good relationship with her mom. She's even said how as a child she had to share a room with multiple kids and yet the only sibling she's ever mentioned is his brother so it makes me wonder whether her mom had boyfriends living with her and going in/out of their lives or if maybe she has other siblings who don't want to be a part of that family either. Kyra obviously had a tough upbringing and to assume that she doesn't care about her mom for no reason and that its shitty that she hasn't made an effort to introduce Alaya to her is pretty low. She's even said that her mom is working and going to school so that's another excuse right there.
Point out Kyra's problematic parenting and her attitude but acting like she's terrible for not being close to her mother is uncalled for. Why are children always expected to look past their parents' mistakes and forgive them for contributing to their suffering? Parents have a huge impact on children and it's not wrong of Kyra to want to distance herself from all that. We don't know what's going on and it really shouldn't matter. Faulting her for this seems really extra and rude.

I completely agree. If I ever have a child and I didn't have a good upbringing because of my mom or we don't have a good relationship (which isn't the case), I wouldn't nessecarily want my mom to be all over my kid and/or his/her life, because I wouldn't want my child to be involved in a bad relationship, and I wouldn't want my child to go through what I had gone through, and I wouldn't want the bad energy surrounding my child. Yes, I would want my mom to meet her grandchild eventually, but I'm sure that Kyra's mom will meet Alaya sometime. Also it isn't up to us (or fair to Kyra) to bash her on something we don't really are very educated and don't know a whole lot about.

[Unknowngirly]

I dont understand why kyra got invited to beautycon.. she doesnt ever wear make up! Lmao she has so many eyeshadow pallets and alot of great make up and she never uses any of it i just dont get it. If i was im newyork i would be glamming myself up! Lol

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Seriously she looks so outta place standing next to those other girls. It wouldn't be so bad if she actually liked makeup, even though she's not good at it, it wouldn't matter because it's something she's interested in. But she's said so many times that she doesn't care about wearing it anymore. But now suddenly she's in New York and has sparkly eyeshadow on. Give me a break!

[majorgossiper34]

I dont understand why kyra got invited to beautycon.. she doesnt ever wear make up! Lmao she has so many eyeshadow pallets and alot of great make up and she never uses any of it i just dont get it. If i was im newyork i would be glamming myself up! Lol

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Seriously she looks so outta place standing next to those other girls. It wouldn't be so bad if she actually liked makeup, even though she's not good at it, it wouldn't matter because it's something she's interested in. But she's said so many times that she doesn't care about wearing it anymore. But now suddenly she's in New York and has sparkly eyeshadow on. Give me a break!

Haha. A lot of my friends went to beauty con because we all live pretty close to Manhattan, and from all their Instagram pics and Snapchat stories everyone at beauty con seems all dolled out and is wearing a heavy face of bold makeup, which totally isn't Kyra's makeup style. I think she might have felt just a little bit strange being surrounded with all these bold-makeup-faced celebrities that are all SUPER well known, while she isn't as well known and her look is "natural". I think another reason she went, though, was to meet fans, because on her personal yt channel she does do some beauty videos, and I'm sure plenty of bug buddies are interested in makeup and other celebrities that were there.

[Pineapples]

She didn't even style her hair lmao. Messy bun for the win


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[js2013]

Plot twist... O and K are actually geniuses and planed all these ways to look like incompetent parents for the views....

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