Lucy Eades: Part 10

[PinkGlitter82]

Those seats need the Diono angle adjusters under them and to not be pushed up against the back of the front seats.

Was it you that suggested that to her in a past video? Someone did and she totally brushed it off and said something like oh it's fine until we go to the car seat clinic. She hates to think she doesn't know it all~

No that wasn't me. I didn't see that comment (I usually don't read the comments because she usually only approves the ass kissing comments. ). Of course it's "fine" because I truly believe she isn't doing it because it is what is safest for her kids but for the attention she gets for doing ERFing. She is an effing idiot. I'm sure they still haven't gone and had them inspected either. That could seriously hurt her kids if in an accident. When I chose to ERF, I made sure I knew EVERYTHING that I could absolutely know about keeping my kids safe and properly using my seats in my vehicle.

[KittyKax]

Well remember this is the same woman who left her windshield CRACKED for weeks because she would rather spend money on silly Etsy dresses than keep her family safe

[LovePotion009]

If Lucy is so about the right to breastfeed uncover in public then I wonder why she covered herself while feeding at The Chefs Academy??? This was in the recent video VEDA Day 17. Once, again she didn't plan ahead. Not only that, instead of finding a place to sit quietly and nurse she was up walking around, but this time she had what looked like to be a receiving blanket folded and covering herself up. I wish someone would ask her that.

[lahilson12]

What I don't understand is why she thinks a five year would be completely grateful for things. She's a child, you can't expect kids to understand the concept of being grateful at such a young age especially if you don't teach them and I doubt Lucy teaches her kids anything about being grateful. I just hate how Lucy thinks kids are going to teach themselves then she complains about her children not acting the way she wants. All Lucy sees these kids as people to dress up and parade around in cute outfits. That's not what being a parent is about! That's what a lot of these moms thinks, that they can just have kids to play dress up, and not teach then discipline. I.e Jess

[ladybug]

I really don't think it's an issue of jacelyn being grateful at all. Lucy was being such a bitch about it. My son is the same way, kids get in the mode of having fun when they are out and about and don't want it to end. They don't understand the concept of schedules and other things. We will take my son out and do things w him then it's "where are we going next?". Fully understanding gratefulness at 5 years old is a hard concept to grasp.

[orangeflower]

The Diono angle adjuster comment was from Veda day 1 - Our car seat arrangement.

laurenstand 2 weeks ago
Have you tried using the diono angle adjuster? It can be used to make the rear facing seat sit more upright so it fits in smaller spaces. It's safe to use after the child is one. It can be purchased on amazon and is unlike $11
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Lucy Eades 2 weeks ago
No b/c we have a car seat appt coming up and the techs will let us know exactly what we need to do to keep her at the safest option possible. They said for now to leave her at what we knew was a proper install till appt time.
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[yeahbuddy]

If Lucy is so about the right to breastfeed uncover in public then I wonder why she covered herself while feeding at The Chefs Academy??? This was in the recent video VEDA Day 17. Once, again she didn't plan ahead. Not only that, instead of finding a place to sit quietly and nurse she was up walking around, but this time she had what looked like to be a receiving blanket folded and covering herself up. I wish someone would ask her that.

what do you mean by that? how many children have you breastfed? with a newborn you cannot plan when they will eat, they can eat every 20 minutes one day and then go hours between feedings the next day. there is no planning or scheduling involved. the breastfeeding comments on this website drive me bonkers.

if i misinterpreted your comment entirely then ignore this.

[Snow White]

If Lucy is so about the right to breastfeed uncover in public then I wonder why she covered herself while feeding at The Chefs Academy??? This was in the recent video VEDA Day 17. Once, again she didn't plan ahead. Not only that, instead of finding a place to sit quietly and nurse she was up walking around, but this time she had what looked like to be a receiving blanket folded and covering herself up. I wish someone would ask her that.

what do you mean by that? how many children have you breastfed? with a newborn you cannot plan when they will eat, they can eat every 20 minutes one day and then go hours between feedings the next day. there is no planning or scheduling involved. the breastfeeding comments on this website drive me bonkers.

if i misinterpreted your comment entirely then ignore this.

Ew, double post!! See below!!

[Snow White]

I respectfully disagree. Babies can and should be on some sort of schedule by 4 wks old.
I have three children, all very close in age and while I agree a newborn* can be all over the place, most moms have them sorted out by 4 wks.

Also if a baby is nursing is every 20 mins, would it be safe to *assume they are not getting a sufficient amount of milk the first time around?

Edited : because I didn't actually write anything the first time around!

[FLOSSY77]

^^No. With breastfed babies it is different. Could be lots of reasons why they eat more often. And putting a baby on a schedule is personal choice. Not at all needed. They change it up on you regardless. With 3 kids you should know that. By 2 months they are more predictable. But all they need is to know you come when they cry and fix it.

[BlazeMercy]

^^No. With breastfed babies it is different. Could be lots of reasons why they eat more often. And putting a baby on a schedule is personal choice. Not at all needed. They change it up on you regardless. With 3 kids you should know that. By 2 months they are more predictable. But all they need is to know you come when they cry and fix it.

Agreed! Babies are only placed on a schedule for the convenience of the parent. Babies should never be scheduled to be fed, never no matter what. If they are hungry feed them, even if it was 20 minutes ago. It really saddens me reading the lack of breastfeeding education on here. Having a baby cluster feed or feed often is completely normal. I will assume those who say it's not has normal has NEVER breastfed a baby.

[GlitterFish]

^^ agreed also.
Breast fed babies feed frequently. Also a 4 week old baby only has a small stomach so they tend to feed every couple hours and frequently 'cluster feed' so the body knows to produce more milk as their need increases.
Breast feeding your baby basically means giving up your life for about 6 or so months. Lol

[daisyisabella1]

stilll no dog update....

[ladybug]

^^^ you will never get a dog update. She will brush it under the rug and pretend Lola never existed and hope everyone forgets....

[Snow White]

^^No. With breastfed babies it is different. Could be lots of reasons why they eat more often. And putting a baby on a schedule is personal choice. Not at all needed. They change it up on you regardless. With 3 kids you should know that. By 2 months they are more predictable. But all they need is to know you come when they cry and fix it.

Well what I DO KNOW is I was Respectful in disagreeing with YOU. I feel you did not show the same respect?
(Though it is hard to gauge tone over the Internet )

While I agree scheduling is more for the parents, my children still ate on demand, while on a flexible schedule (that yes changed as they grew) My point was and is, Lucy should know by now her child's habits, she could, for the sake of her family plan her day as best she could around that schedule. Make sense?

For example, dailybumps fed Oliver Before leaving the house. She's quoted as saying "he's fed , we should have an hour?"
Also are their not studies proving schedules are good for children? (Though please know I UNDERSTAND, for every statistic there is another to challenge the validity of the first)

Anyways, Can Lucy not do the same thing? Can she not feed the baby before they get in the vehicle, to avoid 3 hour trips home that in reality take 20 minutes?
I know we see only snip it's of her day, I'm just commenting on the fact that she seems to lack any preplanning ?

Also ONE reason BF babies can appear to eat often is that they are simply looking for the comfort of the nipple. They are not actually hungry. This is a FACT. This is where a pacifier would be handy. They make pacifiers that support BF!
Also my initial statement is also a fact. The baby may be feeding more often, due to insufficient milk supply. NOT saying that is the case, but it is a possibility!

Look I don't want any hard feelings, we can RESPECTFULLY AGREE TO DISAGREE. But if you question my parenting, knowing nothing about me, I'm gonna take offence.

[TaylorKnows]

^^^ you will never get a dog update. She will brush it under the rug and pretend Lola never existed and hope everyone forgets....

I hope at least one person keeps up the comments so she eventually has to own up to it.

[Snow White]

I also want to say , I know all children are different . No two will do things the same. What works for me and mine, won't necessarily work for you and yours.
I also know none of us were given an instruction manual on how to raise our children. I'm not trying to be judgey (that's not a word)
But when you come across preachy (like Lucy and Jess) your kind of asking for others input?


And I have to ask.... What's the deal with the dog? I'm new, forgive me! I get the impression there was a dog, but now there isn't?

[TaylorKnows]

I also want to say , I know all children are different . No two will do things the same. What works for me and mine, won't necessarily work for you and yours.
I also know none of us were given an instruction manual on how to raise our children. I'm not trying to be judgey (that's not a word)
But I also don't put my life out there via YouTube. I'm doing my best and while I disagree strongly with a lot these YT moms do, I try to take it with a grain of salt.


Ad I gave to ask.... What's the deal with the dog? I'm new, forgive me! I get the impression there was a dog, but now there isn't?

Yeah they got a dog. Suddenly she stopped appearing in videos. I guess Lucy made a private post somewhere about her being missing but now it's removed. She won't answer any questions regarding it and will delete them...

[dfwmom]

So here's another thing that I still dislike about Lucy - "here's a video of what my front door looks like and also what my side yard looks like"

Does she not think that there are idiots who will try to find you and your children in person?

Also, in that video she shows her kids running around while she is paying attention to the camera. They are very young and totally out of her sight while she is talking to herself on the camera. I would never let that happen especially in a busy place like the metroplex. Now granted she is in a more rural area than I am but it's still not THAT rural that you shouldn't be watching your children while they are playing in the front yard.

[Peacebewithyou]

^^No. With breastfed babies it is different. Could be lots of reasons why they eat more often. And putting a baby on a schedule is personal choice. Not at all needed. They change it up on you regardless. With 3 kids you should know that. By 2 months they are more predictable. But all they need is to know you come when they cry and fix it.

Well what I DO KNOW is I was Respectful in disagreeing with YOU. I feel you did not show the same respect?
(Though it is hard to gauge tone over the Internet )

While I agree scheduling is more for the parents, my children still ate on demand, while on a flexible schedule (that yes changed as they grew) My point was and is, Lucy should know by now her child's habits, she could, for the sake of her family plan her day as best she could around that schedule. Make sense?

For example, dailybumps fed Oliver Before leaving the house. She's quoted as saying "he's fed , we should have an hour?"
Also are their not studies proving schedules are good for children? (Though please know I UNDERSTAND, for every statistic there is another to challenge the validity of the first)

Anyways, Can Lucy not do the same thing? Can she not feed the baby before they get in the vehicle, to avoid 3 hour trips home that in reality take 20 minutes?
I know we see only snip it's of her day, I'm just commenting on the fact that she seems to lack any preplanning ?

Also ONE reason BF babies can appear to eat often is that they are simply looking for the comfort of the nipple. They are not actually hungry. This is a FACT. This is where a pacifier would be handy. They make pacifiers that support BF!
Also my initial statement is also a fact. The baby may be feeding more often, due to insufficient milk supply. NOT saying that is the case, but it is a possibility!

Look I don't want any hard feelings, we can RESPECTFULLY AGREE TO DISAGREE. But if you question my parenting, knowing nothing about me, I'm gonna take offence.

I'm going to "respectfully disagree" with you here. Breastfed babies NEED to eat more often because breastmilk is digested easily and RAPIDLY. It is completely digested in 2hrs on average. Breastmilk is also produced on a supply and demand basis- sucking at the breast isn't for the babies "comfort" as a pacifier is- it is a breastfed babies demand for the mothers breast to continue to make enough milk to meet the babies nutritional NEEDS.

Eta: I apologize. I realize I am way off topic :\