Daily"Oll"AboutOllie (Daily Bumps) - Part 92

[tarastull2012]

I think now that Ollie is 4 and Finn is almost 2, they'll start trying for another baby. Obviously Missy wants a girl. She mentioned them having the same bedroom, obviously to make room for baby #3. My bet is that it will be a girl

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[Ducklings4]

I don't think Ollie is mentally delayed, I think he is mentally under stimulated.


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[storeynyx]

It's been awhile since I've been on.. but this bothers me..

We know Ollie is the favourite but common. So many updates, photos etc of Ollie for his birthday. Statuses about how lucky she is that she trusted herself etc. We don't see half this shit when it's Finn's birthday. So will Ollie get a week of birthday love like princess mithy.. and Finn geys.. well. You know.

Did you notice how the posts about Ollie's birthday are all about Missy though? It's about HER experience with his birth and how awesome she is. Of the 4 Instagam posts she put up about Ollie's birthday, 3 of them are of herself!


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[Shorty02]

Well it looks like his party is going to be pirate themed, according to Bryan's Instagram. Swords for everyone!


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[lurkernomore]

I will say though... Caspian is not the child I would choose for Ollie to be hanging out with. I honestly thought he was the same age or maybe slightly younger than Ollie... imagine my surprise. He's right on par with Shay's nephew Winston on the babyfied scale. And a holy terror at that. I have a feeling there was some type of falling out between the Bumps and Slyfox family, but no idea what.

Word. I have to say -- Caspian and his sister (what is her name?) are by far the worst of this particular clique. I've only sat through a few of the Slyfox vlogs and "Holy terror" is an incredibly generous description of Caspian -- and his older sister (does her name start with a J?) is just an epic crybaby. The first vlog I ever saw was her losing her shit over a bee sting (which appears to be a theme for these people). I wonder if this is where Liv Johnson is picking up her dramatic responses to every bump and bruise?

I felt really sad for Ollie in his 4 year old update on Missy's channel. When asked who is friends are, he immediately responded Bailey, Peyton and Olivia (I'm sorry -- "Pey-yiv") ... and then his mother proceeded to list more YT people. I've always been an introvert, but the year I turned 4, I could certainly rattle off a list of my own friends from school and swim class. I was attending a daily preschool program and had been in nursery for a couple of years before that. It's awesome that Ollie has parents who can stay home with him, but the older he gets it's becoming so clear just how limited his world is.

[storeynyx]

I will say though... Caspian is not the child I would choose for Ollie to be hanging out with. I honestly thought he was the same age or maybe slightly younger than Ollie... imagine my surprise. He's right on par with Shay's nephew Winston on the babyfied scale. And a holy terror at that. I have a feeling there was some type of falling out between the Bumps and Slyfox family, but no idea what.

Word. I have to say -- Caspian and his sister (what is her name?) are by far the worst of this particular clique. I've only sat through a few of the Slyfox vlogs and "Holy terror" is an incredibly generous description of Caspian -- and his older sister (does her name start with a J?) is just an epic crybaby. The first vlog I ever saw was her losing her shit over a bee sting (which appears to be a theme for these people). I wonder if this is where Liv Johnson is picking up her dramatic responses to every bump and bruise?

I felt really sad for Ollie in his 4 year old update on Missy's channel. When asked who is friends are, he immediately responded Bailey, Peyton and Olivia (I'm sorry -- "Pey-yiv") ... and then his mother proceeded to list more YT people. I've always been an introvert, but the year I turned 4, I could certainly rattle off a list of my own friends from school and swim class. I was attending a daily preschool program and had been in nursery for a couple of years before that. It's awesome that Ollie has parents who can stay home with him, but the older he gets it's becoming so clear just how limited his world is.

The saddest part is that they actually used to introduce him to other kids, for example, he was in a group swim class. But I think a combination of his behaviour and their arrogance (thinking they're "famous" and above everyone) has resulted in Ollie's world becoming increasingly small


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[actuallydear]

The saddest part is that they actually used to introduce him to other kids, for example, he was in a group swim class. But I think a combination of his behaviour and their arrogance (thinking they're "famous" and above everyone) has resulted in Ollie's world becoming increasingly small

really? i don't remember that, at all. to my knowledge he has only been shown/spoken of to interact with the children of people his parents had already interacted with.

[HelloSweetie]

I think is simple.... Missy doesn't associate with other people, so Ollie won't. YT has made it necessary for her to pick up YT "friends" but that's it. She isn't attending yoga classes or crafting classes and meeting new people. I'm an introvert myself, but at some point you really do have to at least associate yourself with others, and you have to realize you can't let it affect your children in a negative way.

I disagree about Ollie catching up when he starts school. How? His parents aren't going to suddenly change? They aren't going to help him catch up, and encourage him to learn more things. It isn't a teacher's responsibility to make sure they go back and get him caught up on all the things he's missed by having lazy parents. They have 20 other kids to teach!

Private schools pride themselves on their academics. It's unfortunate, but this means that children with glaring issues are often encouraged to go elsewhere to keep the school average at a certain level. There are standards to be met, and Oliver may be attending a school with the children of professionals like doctors, lawyers, accountants, etc. These children will likely be more advanced, and ahead of an average 4 year old having been in school for most of their lives due to working parents. Oliver has too many social skills to catch up on for the school to even start giving him extra attention developmentally right away. He will stand out as "special" from the start and his peers will likely shy away from him. That's how it has been at my son's school, and there is an "Ollie" in his class that has just never fit in. Nice enough kid at times, but often a bully, who is more aggressive than the other children with pushy tendencies, that the other more mild mannered children find uncomfortable so they shy away from him. On day one when Ollie decides to make friends by hitting at the other kids with "swords" it won't be well received.

Oliver has been raised in a high income home, but with the same very same level of stimulation as a low income one with uninvolved parents. I stand my my opinion that B&M will face criticism from the teacher (and possibly other parents) and Missy will pull him out of school in a heartbeat. If she can't be the best, she isn't playing. Keeping him isolated and homeschooling will be much easier on her anyway.

[lovesthree]

From about the 1.46 mark in Olly's all about me, his eyes start to roll back in his head and he starts blinking rapidly. I dont watch them much so is this something he usually does? It just doesn't look 'normal' to me

[MommaLindsey2]

I think now that Ollie is 4 and Finn is almost 2, they'll start trying for another baby. Obviously Missy wants a girl. She mentioned them having the same bedroom, obviously to make room for baby #3. My bet is that it will be a girl

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I don't think them sharing a room has anything to do with a new baby. It is mostly because Ollie climbs in their bed every single night and missy is hoping if Finn is in there he will snuggle with Finn instead of them.


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[tintin15]

Yeah, I don't think Ollie is delayed because he is slow, or has a disorder, or anything like that. He's delayed because his parents didn't teach him shit. It breaks my heart to see, what should be a bright boy, struggle with things because his lazy parents didn't care to teach him anything. Missy's reasoning still pisses me off...as if kids can't learn numbers, colors, etc. through play idk if anyone here watches LisaMarieTTC but she has a whole home schooling set up for her daughter, who is a little over 2, and she is very smart and seems to have fun doing her learning activities. I don't see why Missy couldn't have ever done something like that...

Ollie IS going to have a difficult time in school, even if it's only at first. He doesn't know how to socialize with strangers/strange kids and he clearly doesn't know half the stuff that will be taught. Even if he learns quickly, it's going to be AT LEAST a rough week or so for him trying to catch up and get used to the environment. And God knows Missy will just pull him right out if he doesn't like his first day.

Also, it doesn't concern me too much that Ollie puts 'Y' in place of 'L', like 'I yuv you'. My niece turned 4 at the end of last year and she still did that up until a few months ago...so it might be something he switches out of in the next year. Most little kids switch out letters. I'm more concerned when he says "Happy 4th of July" and it's such a garbled mess you would have NO IDEA what he's saying if you didn't know the holiday.

[valeryjackson]

they didn't even end today's vlog #lazyyyyy

[lurkernomore]

Yeah, I don't think Ollie is delayed because he is slow, or has a disorder, or anything like that. He's delayed because his parents didn't teach him shit. It breaks my heart to see, what should be a bright boy, struggle with things because his lazy parents didn't care to teach him anything. Missy's reasoning still pisses me off...as if kids can't learn numbers, colors, etc. through play idk if anyone here watches LisaMarieTTC but she has a whole home schooling set up for her daughter, who is a little over 2, and she is very smart and seems to have fun doing her learning activities. I don't see why Missy couldn't have ever done something like that...

I think you really hit the nail on the head there. I've been thinking a lot lately about the 30 million word gap (a nutshell description from a 2010 article: "Children in professionals' homes were exposed to an average of more than fifteen hundred more spoken words per hour than children in welfare homes. Over one year, that amounted to a difference of nearly 8 million words, which, by age four, amounted to a total gap of 32 million words. They also found a substantial gap in tone and in the complexity of words being used."), and I think Ollie really has a similar gap that you might see in a child from some lower income families. I think they just don't TALK to him enough. He's exposed to the same 10 people over and over again -- the same 10 movies, the same shows day after day. He's not seeing the kind of diversity in linguistic communication that someone at such a super spongey phase really needs. The problem is exacerbated by his parents' poor linguistic skills ("so good, huh?" and "literally" being two classic examples on DB). His parents' laziness and "anything goes" attitude have all but eliminated the benefit that their top tier income should have guaranteed.

It will be interesting to see what his behavior is like at school. I would imagine that, as he gets older, generous donations from his parents can probably convince a school to keep him. At least that's how it always was at the private school I attended -- students who were on partial financial aid faced significantly more severe consequences for misdeeds than their rich counterparts.

[Ducklings4]

Yeah, I don't think Ollie is delayed because he is slow, or has a disorder, or anything like that. He's delayed because his parents didn't teach him shit. It breaks my heart to see, what should be a bright boy, struggle with things because his lazy parents didn't care to teach him anything. Missy's reasoning still pisses me off...as if kids can't learn numbers, colors, etc. through play idk if anyone here watches LisaMarieTTC but she has a whole home schooling set up for her daughter, who is a little over 2, and she is very smart and seems to have fun doing her learning activities. I don't see why Missy couldn't have ever done something like that...

Ollie IS going to have a difficult time in school, even if it's only at first. He doesn't know how to socialize with strangers/strange kids and he clearly doesn't know half the stuff that will be taught. Even if he learns quickly, it's going to be AT LEAST a rough week or so for him trying to catch up and get used to the environment. And God knows Missy will just pull him right out if he doesn't like his first day.

Also, it doesn't concern me too much that Ollie puts 'Y' in place of 'L', like 'I yuv you'. My niece turned 4 at the end of last year and she still did that up until a few months ago...so it might be something he switches out of in the next year. Most little kids switch out letters. I'm more concerned when he says "Happy 4th of July" and it's such a garbled mess you would have NO IDEA what he's saying if you didn't know the holiday.

Between 4-5 years a child is able to say the /l/ sound in words.
My youngest went to speech from 4-6. She was the laziest speaker. Her older siblings understood her and so did her friends she had been at school with since she was 2. I kept asking if she needed speech, her teacher would say all her friends understand her. Finally we were able to get her evaluated. Even though I was a teacher , I could not recommend my own child. I required her teacher to sign off on it. She needed two years of therapy. I worked with her every day, something I do not see Bryan and Missy doing with Ollie.


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[HelloSweetie]

Missy can barely give her baby breathing treatments.... she isn't going to help Ollie with his speech every night.

Mimi. Maybe.

[actuallydear]

Missy can barely give her baby breathing treatments.... she isn't going to help Ollie with his speech every night.

Mimi. Maybe.

Maybe, but maybe she's not too concerned with speech considering 2/3 of her kids speak with an impediment. Haven't heard much of Jimmy to say with absolute certainty that he isn't the same.

[marshmallowfluf]

Missy shouldn't be the one helping him with his speech anyway! He will definitely pick up her lisp!

[lmmomSD]

The saddest part is that they actually used to introduce him to other kids, for example, he was in a group swim class. But I think a combination of his behaviour and their arrogance (thinking they're "famous" and above everyone) has resulted in Ollie's world becoming increasingly small

really? i don't remember that, at all. to my knowledge he has only been shown/spoken of to interact with the children of people his parents had already interacted with.

And didn't Missy once say that he didn't need friends? I don't have the quote, but I remember it being discussed here.

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[HelloSweetie]

Missy can barely give her baby breathing treatments.... she isn't going to help Ollie with his speech every night.

Mimi. Maybe.

Maybe, but maybe she's not too concerned with speech considering 2/3 of her kids speak with an impediment. Haven't heard much of Jimmy to say with absolute certainty that he isn't the same.

But her kids were fine until they started school! It was the teacher that taught Missy to talk like that

[lmmomSD]

Unbelievable that Papa built a plank just for Ollie's party, so they can make people walk the plank. Just for the party. His skills are definitely amazing, but that's just ridiculous.

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