LexiRae wrote:leeiacoccapuffs wrote:I also know that a child needs their own place to sleep whether you Co sleep or not, issac definitely has a lot to use against this girl
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That just says parents have been charged with a death in a co-sleeping case in some states and the specifics of the cases are not cited in the article. It isn't illegal, but a parent can be charged if a death occurs because of an unsafe situation, like alcohol or substance abuse was involved as they should be.
I've said multiple times that she needs to get her shit together and provide safer and cleaner spaces for Everly to play in. But I don't think Everly should be taken away from her.
Let me make it clear that I am NOT saying Ev should be taken from her. I do think Isaac should eventually have 50/50 custody but not that Ev should be literally taken. You can research into it if you want, but in a few states the parents can be charged because it is against the law there, i don’t believe it is in Maddie’s state though.
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I have done my research, for many years. Co-sleeping isn't illegal in any state and when done correctly and safely is a great option in my opinion.
I'm not trying to be nit picky, I just hate to see incorrect information shared because it can cause parents to feel scared or ashamed of their decisions. So please do your research before you tell people what is illegal and what isn't.
If Isaac proves himself to be a stable, responsible parent and he wants shared custody of Everly, I hope that happens for him, too. It felt as if you were suggesting she should be taken from Maddie because you said more than once that he has "so much on her", so thanks for clarifying that you don't think Everly should be taken away.
Maddie is very young and immature and has a lot to learn about being a parent, this is why we shouldn't have a baby at 14. But I do think she is trying, while also
navigating this online growing "popularity", and is struggling. I wish her Mom would guide her rather than jump in on comments and add fuel to the fire.
I hope for all of them that the drama settles and they can choose what is best for the baby and get along maturely.