DailyBumps100ThreadsOfClickbait (Part 100!)

[HelloSweetie]

The last time they drove to Vegas, they instagrammed the whole trip. It's pretty standard for them to post while travelling. They like to tease where they're going. Your whole argument that they wouldn't be posting anyway doesn't really apply.

They don’t always IG when travelling You can’t say someone’s argument doesn’t apply. Seems pretty weird to just HAVE to post about yourself partying at the bar. What happened to the break they were taking? The respectful break ended fairly quickly once the party started. It’s ok for some of us to side-eye that, you don’t have to ((shrugs))

I agree that the footage may have been days ago. Missy’s hair and makeup are the same from a few days ago. Plus something feels odd about it. No last name for Henry, no picture, no responses or posts from his family or friends anywhere in the comments or social media.....


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How many times have we known where they were going based on that something they posted on social media? I don't think it's weird they kept the boy's information private. I doubt the family wants to be bombarded by DB fans right now. I don't think they would run to social media to comment on the video. They're grieving.

So then why talk about it at all? Kanye West recently had a similar situation go on, but he didn’t Tweet or talk about it. There are over ways for them to show in their day to day vlogs that life isn’t perfect. I think the Make A Wish visit was planned for later, and they were absolutely going to vlog around it. When that looked like it wasn’t going to happen, and that the boy was no longer in a vloggable state, they chose to talk about it so their gracious sacrifice could be documented. It really didn’t need to be, and like Theirmom said, they are just grandstanding at this point.

Bryan was in no state to make a video. He wouldn’t have been the Bryan Lanning the kid wanted to see. Many of us have said from the start that Bryan has a heart. I don’t eel that Missy does through, and nothin can truly change Bryan if Missy doesn’t experience that need for change as well. Posting Vegas party footage is unnecessary, and it’s possible it was seen by Henry’s parents, who would absolutely be checking in to see how their child’s name and memory was handled. How would seeing that make them feel? It didn’t NEED to be posted, especially given the previously announced break.


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[Lovethesnark]

I don’t get the praise for them. They showed human emotions. That doesn’t change anything about them.

I stand by my feelings that instead of sobbing and talking about their feelings, Bryan should have collected his emotions and sang in the vlog for his family to have. Make it a tribute to the little boy, don’t make it about your pain.

I don't think anyone is praising them. This reach to make them into liars over the situation is insensitive.

[HelloSweetie]

I don’t get the praise for them. They showed human emotions. That doesn’t change anything about them.

I stand by my feelings that instead of sobbing and talking about their feelings, Bryan should have collected his emotions and sang in the vlog for his family to have. Make it a tribute to the little boy, don’t make it about your pain.

I don't think anyone is praising them. This reach to make them into liars over the situation is insensitive.

Not liars, disengenuous.

But sure, we are the ones who are insensitive after they post party pics from Vegas hours after saying they are taking a break and accepting sympathy from their audience. Like Theirmom said, they could have just taken the break without announcing it. It wouldn’t have even been weird.

Let’s say a regular poster here decides to take a break for a few hours, do they need to announce they won’t be posting for a bit because [insert sad story]? It would seek attention seeking, no? Especially if that story wasn’t even their own.



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[Lovethesnark]

How many times have we known where they were going based on that something they posted on social media? I don't think it's weird they kept the boy's information private. I doubt the family wants to be bombarded by DB fans right now. I don't think they would run to social media to comment on the video. They're grieving.

So then why talk about it at all? Kanye West recently had a similar situation go on, but he didn’t Tweet or talk about it. There are over ways for them to show in their day to day vlogs that life isn’t perfect. I think the Make A Wish visit was planned for later, and they were absolutely going to vlog around it. When that looked like it wasn’t going to happen, and that the boy was no longer in a vloggable state, they chose to talk about it so their gracious sacrifice could be documented. It really didn’t need to be, and like Theirmom said, they are just grandstanding at this point.

Bryan was in no state to make a video. He wouldn’t have been the Bryan Lanning the kid wanted to see. Many of us have said from the start that Bryan has a heart. I don’t eel that Missy does through, and nothin can truly change Bryan if Missy doesn’t experience that need for change as well. Posting Vegas party footage is unnecessary, and it’s possible it was seen by Henry’s parents, who would absolutely be checking in to see how their child’s name and memory was handled. How would seeing that make them feel? It didn’t NEED to be posted, especially given the previously announced break.


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Kayne West doesn't make a video everyday and upload it to the internet. They didn't do anything wrong by making the video. It would have been difficult to vlog around that type of emotion without it being weird. I highly doubt Henry's parents would be offended by B&M getting crepes and having drinks at a piano bar. I'm not even sure I would call that partying.

[HelloSweetie]

How many times have we known where they were going based on that something they posted on social media? I don't think it's weird they kept the boy's information private. I doubt the family wants to be bombarded by DB fans right now. I don't think they would run to social media to comment on the video. They're grieving.

So then why talk about it at all? Kanye West recently had a similar situation go on, but he didn’t Tweet or talk about it. There are over ways for them to show in their day to day vlogs that life isn’t perfect. I think the Make A Wish visit was planned for later, and they were absolutely going to vlog around it. When that looked like it wasn’t going to happen, and that the boy was no longer in a vloggable state, they chose to talk about it so their gracious sacrifice could be documented. It really didn’t need to be, and like Theirmom said, they are just grandstanding at this point.

Bryan was in no state to make a video. He wouldn’t have been the Bryan Lanning the kid wanted to see. Many of us have said from the start that Bryan has a heart. I don’t eel that Missy does through, and nothin can truly change Bryan if Missy doesn’t experience that need for change as well. Posting Vegas party footage is unnecessary, and it’s possible it was seen by Henry’s parents, who would absolutely be checking in to see how their child’s name and memory was handled. How would seeing that make them feel? It didn’t NEED to be posted, especially given the previously announced break.


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Kayne West doesn't make a video everyday and upload it to the internet. They didn't do anything wrong by making the video. It would have been difficult to vlog around that type of emotion without it being weird. I highly doubt Henry's parents would be offended by B&M getting crepes and having drinks at a piano bar. I'm not even sure I would call that partying.

They make PLENTY of things private. Let’s not pretend they vlog everything

Henry’s family may not be offended, but don’t announce a break for the day if you don’t int bs to take one.

I have my opinion, you have yours. I think the Children’s Hospital donation tweet could have just stayed the post for the day. Bryan didn’t need to announce a break just to point out he was hurting.


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[lmmomSD]

But someone was saying that the little boy loved their vlogs, right? And that they should keep vlogging and having fun because he loved that. So their reaction to a little boy who loved their vlogs dying, is to show themselves drinking in a bar in Vegas? I doubt those are the vlogs the little guy loved. He probably loved watching them with Finn and Ollie.
Everyone was saying yesterday that "they are going to appreciate their healthy sons". So what they do is go off and leave those boys? And go to Vegas to schmooze and have fun?
Yeah, it really changed them.

And the social media break seems disingenuous to me too. Yeah, Bryan usually posts a few boring instastories when they drive to Vegas, showing what songs they're rocking out to. Not doing that is hardly a big tribute to Henry. I agree that it was a "look at us, taking a break, aren't we wonderful?" kind of thing.

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[janem]

So there won’t be a vlog today?


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[Playsinrain]

So there won’t be a vlog today?


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I was thinking the same thing.. so heartbroken they can't vlog, but can party it up at a convention in Vegas...

[brownprincess93]

Finn looking for Ollie was super cute! I find it so weird that Missy was sitting all by herself in the restaurant face-timing her mom instead of being with Bryan in the room. She needs to learn how to be there for him - we always see him going out of his way for her. We all saw that yesterday's vlog was far worse for Bryan then it was for Missy. It almost felt like they filmed that after they heard about Henry's death - I think maybe they hadn't left and he passed away before hand. I could be wrong - but we all know Missy is super disorganized and takes forever getting out the door. Also, some of the story isn't adding up. They said the Make A Wish people said the boy was in serious critical condition - and they had planned this Vegas trip already so they obviously could have left a day or so before to go see him - just saying!! Also - Missy didn't even say anything to reflect on what happened the day before, she was just going on about her day like nothing happened. I find that super weird!

[Playsinrain]

So... nothing has changed. Same shit, different day.. Other than a 30 second "we are so sad, watch yesterday's vlog to find out why, but we are so sad.. we had such a hard day so we are now in Vegas. We thought about what we should do and can do, but we took a break from all the work we have to do to have some fun bc we are so sad.." here watch us buy tons of junk food and not look sad at all. Oh and they were so distraught and upset about yesterday's events that they went straight to vegas and went to a show.
Do i think they should be crying in every vlog now or that can be the only thing they talk about? No, not at all. But posting a vlog like that yesterday, then taking a "social media break" bc they are just so upset... and then turn around and make it look like you left home the same day all that happened, only to wind up in Vegas watching shows the same night. buying massive amounts of candy and "having fun" makes you look insanely disingenuous. You were so sad and upset that you had to cancel work plans but could still go see a show? You sat around and talked about what you should and can do for the family, but talk about none of it on the vlog? And this while time that Bryan is in the room talking about how sad they were? Missy is in the hotel restaurant by herself facetiming MiMi and eating pasta...

[Playsinrain]

Finn looking for Ollie was super cute! I find it so weird that Missy was sitting all by herself in the restaurant face-timing her mom instead of being with Bryan in the room. She needs to learn how to be there for him - we always see him going out of his way for her. We all saw that yesterday's vlog was far worse for Bryan then it was for Missy. It almost felt like they filmed that after they heard about Henry's death - I think maybe they hadn't left and he passed away before hand. I could be wrong - but we all know Missy is super disorganized and takes forever getting out the door. Also, some of the story isn't adding up. They said the Make A Wish people said the boy was in serious critical condition - and they had planned this Vegas trip already so they obviously could have left a day or so before to go see him - just saying!! Also - Missy didn't even say anything to reflect on what happened the day before, she was just going on about her day like nothing happened. I find that super weird!

Of course she was!! They didn't have to go visit with this sick and dying child bc he died before they could get there, meaning it no longer effects her!! Once that stress was lifted she was fine! She had nothing more to say about it..

[onbreak]

Id hate them for eternity if this was all made up. The little guy I know who passed away was critical and he wasn't allowed to have his make A wish. He wanted to ride in a yellow school bus. But the germs .. Even being on it alone with family were too risky.

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[HelloSweetie]

Just watched the vid and I totally think it was filed after the boy had already passed. Bryan is just too upset for having just heard about the little guy, and they talk about him like he’s already lost.

Plus it’s pretty weird for them to arrange a meet up for later in the day if he boy has little time left. I mean, B&M had time to sit down and film their little talk before hitting the road


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[natalka81]

I agree. I thought the video was filmed after the child had died, as well. I don't think their reaction was disingenuous; I truly believe they were sad about the boy. At least Bryan was for sure. I also don't think they made the whole story up; however, as I'm reflecting on it more, I do question why they needed to make a whole sit-down vlog about it in the first place. I suppose their argument would be that it helps raise awareness of pediatric illness, and generate donations? If true, then okay... But still, now that I think more about it, it really was all about them. It feels a bit exploitative to be honest.
Also, this whole 'we're taking a break because we're grieving' thing has a lot of red flags. Just sayin'

[MamaJoAnna]

Some part of me knew this whole thing was just them playing a part. I wondered how long it had been since B&M had heard about this kid, and how "convenient" it was that he just happened to die as they were "on the way to see him." I bet the "heartbreaking" video was made after the kid died and they just made up some spiel to cover their asses when in reality they weren't going to see him at all (similar to the girl with the tumor who campaigned to see them on IG). Same shit different day. If that makes me sound heartless, oh well...definitely not my intention. My heart goes out to the family having experienced a loss, no mother should ever have to bury her child.

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[Playsinrain]

So many.. "OMG you guys are so strong.." "stay strong Missy and Bryan, i know it's so hard to be so strong.." comments today.. How brainwashed by these fools do you have to be to think going to Vegas shows, buying massive amounts of Hershey's, eating pasta and facetiming mimi requires such strength? The only strength they have is the strength it takes to pull one over so well on these kid fans.

[HelloSweetie]

Some part of me knew this whole thing was just them playing a part. I wondered how long it had been since B&M had heard about this kid, and how "convenient" it was that he just happened to die as they were "on the way to see him." I bet the "heartbreaking" video was made after the kid died and they just made up some spiel to cover their asses when in reality they weren't going to see him at all (similar to the girl with the tumor who campaigned to see them on IG). Same shit different day. If that makes me sound heartless, oh well...definitely not my intention. My heart goes out to the family having experienced a loss, no mother should ever have to bury her child.

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I also have to question the bit not getting his wish until the last minute. How long were the Wish people trying to co tact B&M? How many times did he boy or his parents try to reach out to them and get ignored? It’s not like they aren’t accessible.

The fact that they are acting like it was a loss if theirs disgusts me. Of what they are saying is true they had just heard of him that morning. It’s sad and tragic for sure, but not a loss of B&M’s. They have nothing to be strong about.


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[coolusername1236]

I'm glad that they didn't pretend like nothing happened yesterday.

Finn saying hi was adorable!

Based off of the vlog, I could definitely see Ollie suffocation Finn. Whether it be in his sleep or not. It's one thing when he's kicking him, but doing something that people actually do to kill others, is totally different.

Oh come on! Mimi and Papa picking on Finn too!?! Give him a break!

Oooooooooh

They left the crib in Finn's room!

Jk. The next baby will be gender selected, so it HAS to have a new crib Also, I'm sure nobody wanted to disassemble the crib.

I remember the book Love You Forever. I read it as a kid, and tbh, it kind of gave me feels.

[lmmomSD]

I know everyone grieves differently. But "oh we're so sad we have to go to Vegas", just rubs me the wrong way.
I just don't understand being so touched by this and then leaving my children who supposedly mean so much to me. I would want to be with my kids and let them know how much I love them, and count their toes and soak up all the giggles. Not go off to Vegas without them.

And I also have to wonder how long Make a Wish was trying to get hold of them. They generally try to get things done before kids deteriorate, for lots of reasons. They like to _avoid_ deathbed "wishes". So I am definitely curious about that.

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[HelloSweetie]

Some part of me knew this whole thing was just them playing a part. I wondered how long it had been since B&M had heard about this kid, and how "convenient" it was that he just happened to die as they were "on the way to see him." I bet the "heartbreaking" video was made after the kid died and they just made up some spiel to cover their asses when in reality they weren't going to see him at all (similar to the girl with the tumor who campaigned to see them on IG). Same shit different day. If that makes me sound heartless, oh well...definitely not my intention. My heart goes out to the family having experienced a loss, no mother should ever have to bury her child.

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I also have to question the bit not getting his wish until the last minute. How long were the Wish people trying to co tact B&M? How many times did he boy or his parents try to reach out to them and get ignored? It’s not like they aren’t accessible.

The fact that they are acting like it was a loss if theirs disgusts me. Of what they are saying is true they had just heard of him that morning. It’s sad and tragic for sure, but not a loss of B&M’s. They have nothing to be strong about.


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So it’s not their loss? Yet everyone here is mad that they went to a bar last night? I don’t understand that logic lol

The logic is that they shouldn’t act like it’s a loss on one hand, but then behave as though it’s business as usual. It’s disingenuous.


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