The Lindquists

[Tiger27]

I def think its a girl. To me it looked like she was beaming in the video today and though she says she doesnt care... come on now, we know Elle. Think of all the new videos and clothing hauls she will do for a girl.

I am so annoyed that she is waiting so long on the gender reveal. Yes it is her life and her choice... but why dangle in front of our noses like that. She had an insta story poll for us to vote if we want the gender on christmas eve. Now suddenly she claims she wants to tell Bumpa in person because thats what she likes to do. Um, anyone remeber the phone call she made to Bumpa on YouTube a couple months ago to annuouce her pregnancy to him... didnt wait for that in person. This is clearly so she geta the most views she can... which is dumb because everyone is dying ti know so I'm sure shell get them either way.

Also... shes complaining that she put all this work into her vlogmas but no one is watching... specifically her spa video. Yea, i clicked on it and turned it off.. BORING. I like the family vlog videos better, so thats why I didnt watch. Tiffany Beaston did an amazing job with her vlogmas! I watched daily.

And interesting notes in her insta post about her tribe, def seems very catty and not surprising for her to post something like that. She gives us too much to talk about, lol.. i love Amanda Muse and Johanna... they are professional, on point and I feel like they truly love what they do whether they get the view or not.

Anyone think Elle still reads this site? I bet she does

She came here and asked posters to email her and they could chat about what we thought were her downfalls. No one did.
She also made an insta live about it too. She was pretty butt hurt but at the time, no one here hated her that much. It was kinda after that they we noticed a huge shift in her.


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I actually emailed her a very long and well thought out piece responding to “why” we use this site. She basically wanted insider info on how we could all be so cruel and blah blah blah. I explained a majority of us are totally normal people who found this site when we got fed up with something small, but noticed no one in the comments seems to have similar opinions and googled something like “daily bumps spoiled” to see if other people out there agree...that’s how I ended up here. I told her most you tubers scrub their comment sections and don’t allow for open and honest discussion, this is a place where we can talk freely without how to worry about having things deleted or being jumped on by minions for the slightest offense. I brought up some of her issues we’ve discussed in a polite way, like when she accidentally uploaded that footage of her with Forde and reminded her she’s cleansed her channel of that moment. I talked about the exploitation of children and how we tend to see that as an issue, the bath time videos linked to pedophiles (which was a very hot topic here at the time) and that sort of thing). I mean...this was a long email. I generally liked and respected Elle at the time and wanted her to know we weren’t a bunch of crazies and I also thought most of the criticism here was pretty mild and fair. She responded back with a short reply asking me to be on an episode of her show, told me I’d receive money for it, and she’d hide my identity. No way in hell was I doing that, so I never answered. I had hoped she would use all the info I gave her in some other way or would respond to some of the points I made but nope...she’s only gotten worse sense.


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[Notablogger]

Interesting how instead of responding to your email she wanted to make it into a video that would get a lot of views and in turn have a ton of comments from her fans bashing you and your opinions. Not an even playing field at all.

I think we all liked or like Elle on some level before coming here. And I still do like some of her videos. There’s just something false about her and its obvious she does many things to get views.

I think I’m still a little burned by her fertility journey. I honestly don’t believe she struggled as long as she says and she was just pissed it didn’t happen as fast as the first two times. This is obviously personal because I’m currently struggling and I have been been 2.5 years. And I don’t even share it because I know I’m much better off than many other women who don’t have any children. There is a bit of a sensitivity chip missing there.

[Nacholife]

OMG did Elle seriously rant on a YouTube post about her own Vlogmas She bitched about having to spend money on an editor and how she doesn’t make any money off of Vlogmas so that’s why she’s handing out prizes she got for free. And she basically told people to shut up if they want to complain about sponsor ad vlogs. She is so unprofessional and wonders why no one takes her seriously and her view count has been horrible this month. She must have stopped going to counselling because her personal issues are coming back again, sounds like she needs to make some New Years resolutions and stick with them!


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[fossilfinger]

OMG did Elle seriously rant on a YouTube post about her own Vlogmas She bitched about having to spend money on an editor and how she doesn’t make any money off of Vlogmas so that’s why she’s handing out prizes she got for free. And she basically told people to shut up if they want to complain about sponsor ad vlogs.
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Nobody cares, Elle. Viewers don't care if YouTubers make money or not. There are viewers who want to support their favorite YouTubers, but I don't think are generally concerned about their financial state; they're just watching for entertainment. It's extremely unprofessional to whine about not making any money. If Vlogmas isn't profitable, then don't do it. She can put whatever content she wants on her channel and shouldn't feel obligated to do anything. No one is going to feel sorry for her about her financial situation.

[TeachIT]

So I cannot watch her content. I just had a miscarriage and her insensitive posts are too much.

As far as her complaining about financials - nobody cares. She’s still doing better financially than most of her followers. She complains SO MUCH. Complains about not getting pregnant fast enough, complains about her pregnancy symptoms, complains about view count, complains about having to spent money to do YT, youd think as such a godly woman she’d have a little more grace and gratitude.

[Tiger27]

OMG did Elle seriously rant on a YouTube post about her own Vlogmas She bitched about having to spend money on an editor and how she doesn’t make any money off of Vlogmas so that’s why she’s handing out prizes she got for free. And she basically told people to shut up if they want to complain about sponsor ad vlogs. She is so unprofessional and wonders why no one takes her seriously and her view count has been horrible this month. She must have stopped going to counselling because her personal issues are coming back again, sounds like she needs to make some New Years resolutions and stick with them!


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HAH where can I see this? Have a screenshot?


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[chloe6124]

OMG did Elle seriously rant on a YouTube post about her own Vlogmas She bitched about having to spend money on an editor and how she doesn’t make any money off of Vlogmas so that’s why she’s handing out prizes she got for free. And she basically told people to shut up if they want to complain about sponsor ad vlogs. She is so unprofessional and wonders why no one takes her seriously and her view count has been horrible this month. She must have stopped going to counselling because her personal issues are coming back again, sounds like she needs to make some New Years resolutions and stick with them!


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I don’t think she was rude. I thought she explained herself very well and answered everyone’s concerns.


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[Notablogger]

Yeah I don’t think we’re worried about whether or not she makes money. She’s obviously doing okay. Multiple trips to St Ann’s spa. Multiple spa treatments. She shops at expensive stores. For clothes and food. And let’s not forget her husband is a veterinarian $$$$ she doesn’t want for anything. Whatever she wants, she gets. Whether it’s free from a Sponsor or they pay themselves. I understand her wanting to make money but we don’t care whether she does or not because as far as we the audience can see, she’s swimming in money. Literally.

[TeachIT]

Right. You can’t simulateously need to make income and expect people to believe that, while also showing off your extravagant lifestyle.

I think that’s the root of her problems. She wants to be everything. Perfect, but relatable. Messy mom, but a parenting guru. Minimalist, but has all the things. Hustling income maker, but also look how well off I am.

It doesn’t vibe with viewers. Pick a brand and stick with it.

[Notablogger]

Right. You can’t simulateously need to make income and expect people to believe that, while also showing off your extravagant lifestyle.

I think that’s the root of her problems. She wants to be everything. Perfect, but relatable. Messy mom, but a parenting guru. Minimalist, but has all the things. Hustling income maker, but also look how well off I am.

It doesn’t vibe with viewers. Pick a brand and stick with it.

I’m sorry to hear about your miscarriage. This is where I’ve fallen off with her as well (her “infertility struggle”). First of all, I’m struggling with secondary infertility as well but I’m not dense enough to blast that everywhere when I have two healthy children already. Yes we have a right to this struggle and to Feel sad but know Your audience. There are women who are trying for their first or can’t have children. And then her struggle was so over exaggerated. She was pregnant before her youngest turned two. There’s no way she tried immediately After giving birth so let’s not cry about being infertile for less than a year or trying. She just had to complain because it didn’t happen immediately like the other times. Excuse me for Not crying along with you.

I think you’re right. She’s trying to reach a certain audience and be relatable but at the same time she wants to show off and have other people jealous of her lifestyle. You can’t be both and not expect people to side eye you.

[Notablogger]

I’m watching her year end review and I cannot contain the amount of eye rolls. This was the most triggering.

Apparently God wouldn’t allow her to get pregnant with her third until they worked on their marriage.

Okay, well I have a great marriage Elle. Why isn’t God rewarding me? Know your audience!

[TeachIT]

Oh yikes. She expects us to believe her marriage is “fixed” lol just because she’s delusional enough to believe it doesn’t mean we will. She has become such a narcissist and toxic person. Now that I see her true colors, every little thing she does seems so fake.

[TeachIT]

Are we thinking boy or girl? Or has she already announced?

[chloe6124]

Oh yikes. She expects us to believe her marriage is “fixed” lol just because she’s delusional enough to believe it doesn’t mean we will. She has become such a narcissist and toxic person. Now that I see her true colors, every little thing she does seems so fake.

I don’t think she thinks it’s all perfect now. She has mentioned they both go to therapy alone and as a couple.


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[TeachIT]

Ohh ok. So just fixed enough that god has decided she’s worthy of a baby.

[chloe6124]

Ohh ok. So just fixed enough that god has decided she’s worthy of a baby.

She is a Christian. A lot of people say stuff like that when god is important in their lives. But I do understand why people who aren’t Christian or have god in their lives feels that way.


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[TeachIT]

Thank god the Christians I know aren’t that way. Because regardless of religion it’s extremely rude to imply that families only get blessed with children when their marriage is strong. I know plenty of great couples with strong marriages who can’t conceive.

[fossilfinger]

Why would her marriage have to be strong for their third child but not their first or second? They have admitted that they started their marriage out pretty rocky and Forde was conceived right away, and it wasn't much better when they conceived Cohen. Elle wanted her children to have the same father and that's the only reason she wanted to have another child with Dan. So her logic doesn't make a ton of sense. She's probably just trying to make herself feel better about her marriage.

[miasmomma]

Why would her marriage have to be strong for their third child but not their first or second? They have admitted that they started their marriage out pretty rocky and Forde was conceived right away, and it wasn't much better when they conceived Cohen. Elle wanted her children to have the same father and that's the only reason she wanted to have another child with Dan. So her logic doesn't make a ton of sense. She's probably just trying to make herself feel better about her marriage.

I see your view on it, but I kind of get what she is saying. My relationship with my SO has hit some rough patches, but we have a solid foundation of friendship. Even if at times I’m not sure we will stay together as a couple, I know I want to have another baby with him as the father. I want my daughter to have a fully biological sibling, not to mention holidays get super complicated when you start having more than one father of your child. I know some people make it work, but my SO is a great, loving father, and I’d like to coparent with one person. If eventually we aren’t together, I’d probably want to be on my own for a while anyway.
I’m going to do everything I can to make it work with him, but I also don’t want to settle. It’s complicated and she’s probably confused and conflicted, especially when you feel pressured by religious beliefs.


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[Pamomma8422]

Did anybody see this today?