Rash & Justine: Breastfeeding Lies, Zero Drive, Microwave Chicken Surprise | Part 32

[IVFwarrior]

This probably makes me insensitive but I’m really not trying to be. I actually feel more for Justin during that time (not that knowing you’ll have a still birth isn’t..) imagine getting that call from that far away that your unborn child is now gone. The hours it took him to rush home must have been agonizing for him. Then to just be back for a few short days before having to finish his deployment. He had no time to grieve and suffered Bells Palsy because of it. She could have taken that time to really dive into her emotions and get proper therapy but she had to go and start implanting a new baby without him and purchasing an emotional support dog that is anything but.

You would think she’d allow him to have a video where he explained in detail what his thoughts were during that time but she will never let him. She never lets him express anything, ever.


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That's a really good point. In the military, it's normally the other way around. The military member has died or gotten injured, and the spouse is left rushing around to try to get to them wherever they have been flown to, sitting at airports waiting and waiting, all in a very low-intel environment without many details.

So you are so right. This was reversed. He was truly alone trying to get home, not knowing really what was happening. She was the one at home, with all the information and not needing to run around the world.

[Sunshineee9]

So when I watch this two words come to mind. CUDDLE COT. She ends the video mumbling to herself how she has to donate another cuddle cot. This means DONATIONS to HER.
This Means pulling at the heart strings of other parents who have experienced a stillbirth. Can you just picture her future title...
“ I helped hundreds of grieving mothers..” makes me sick. She craves attention from anyone. She needs professional help. This was the most forced grief I have ever seen from adult. It reminded me of my toddlers when I wouldn’t let them drink the dog water.. ohh the drama

I just looked up what a cuddle cot is. Not going to lie, that's kind of creepy

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That’s just rude to call a cuddle cot creepy. I mean I don’t expect someone to understand but when your baby dies and you want to spend as much time with their body as you can those things can be a life saver, I wish the hospital had one for me when I delivered my still born.


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The website says people use them for weeks. I could understand for a few hours or a day but weeks is creepy to me.

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[Boldyy]

So from what I know Justin had always been very close with Lauren. And for awhile it looked like they were always together with the kids (up until twins were born). Like I mentioned before nothing to do with the bathroom... but I have talked to Lauren personally about this and I know she thought that caused a strain on their relationship, but eventually it got worked out and the problem with the tile was something that Lauren had no part of. The company pulled the crew scheduled for their shower & brought in someone else who screwed it up. Lauren went to check the job and saw the install job and called the owner. It was vlogged actually. If you see the vlog where they tell everyone it’s twins, you see Lauren walking into their bathroom and talking to someone and that’s when she saw the problem.

Now something people would only know if they were Facebook friends is that a few months back Rachelle & her sister kind of hanged up on Lauren on something Lauren had posted and they were not friendly at all. Both of them went back and forth saying things to her and then Justin liked their comments.

I haven’t talked to Lauren in 6 months, so I don’t know where they stand right now. But here’s what I assume went down:
Once they found out they were having boys, Rachelle kind of took this boy mom title and ran with it. Lauren obviously has three boys and she’s got her “Lauren and the boys” blog, but she is also a single mom to all three (not to tell all her personal info because I do consider her a friend.... Her oldest sons bio dad is in prison for Domestic violence and he used to beat Lauren up. She had their son & that was her way out. She got a good job and was a kick ass single mom. Then she met Aaron’s dad and they got engaged and she had Aaron. But they weren’t a good match there were problems that couldn’t be worked through so they split and are on good terms mostly. Shortly after their split she got pregnant with Leo but didn’t know until she was more than 20 weeks. She seriously never gained a pound and one morning she woke up with a big ass baby belly). I think Rachelle was jealous of Lauren getting praised for being a single mom to three (whatever she’s got three baby daddies, but she is devoted to the boys and she works hard for them). So Rachelle starts to try and push Justin slowly out of the picture by making it seem like the twins only want her and Justin is useless especially because “make factor infertility”. She wants to be seen as the one who does it all.

. I have nothing against Justin I think he’s always been a good guy and I think he probably just has keep his mouth shut to keep his family dynamics But I think it’s sad mostly how the oldest nephew is missing out on Emma and his uncle and aunt because of family drama. You could tell how much he loves them.

This is just my personal opinion on what’s happening now (bathroom story is accurate, and the Facebook drama is accurate too though. If she has a public profile you could look).

[Ld5]

It makes sense about Rachelle pushing Justin away so it makes her look like the only one who could do it all. We all know she morphs into people she wants to be like and seeing how Lauren is looked up to for being a single Mom, she wants a piece of that.


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[dramallama429]

@Boldyy all of that makes a lot of sense, thanks for sharing. I always knew she over dramatized the whole “the boys ONLY want me, I do EVERYTHING!”

Can I ask what they were arguing about on her Facebook post?

[bennyandthejets]

Yikes

[Mandapanda7890]

I just looked up what a cuddle cot is. Not going to lie, that's kind of creepy

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That’s just rude to call a cuddle cot creepy. I mean I don’t expect someone to understand but when your baby dies and you want to spend as much time with their body as you can those things can be a life saver, I wish the hospital had one for me when I delivered my still born.


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The website says people use them for weeks. I could understand for a few hours or a day but weeks is creepy to me.

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If My baby didn’t start to smell and decompose like she did I would’ve kept her with me for weeks.... some moms need that. I kept her with me for 2 days without one and this would’ve made it completely less traumatic.


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[spicy_dreams]

So from what I know Justin had always been very close with Lauren. And for awhile it looked like they were always together with the kids (up until twins were born). Like I mentioned before nothing to do with the bathroom... but I have talked to Lauren personally about this and I know she thought that caused a strain on their relationship, but eventually it got worked out and the problem with the tile was something that Lauren had no part of. The company pulled the crew scheduled for their shower & brought in someone else who screwed it up. Lauren went to check the job and saw the install job and called the owner. It was vlogged actually. If you see the vlog where they tell everyone it’s twins, you see Lauren walking into their bathroom and talking to someone and that’s when she saw the problem.

Now something people would only know if they were Facebook friends is that a few months back Rachelle & her sister kind of hanged up on Lauren on something Lauren had posted and they were not friendly at all. Both of them went back and forth saying things to her and then Justin liked their comments.

I haven’t talked to Lauren in 6 months, so I don’t know where they stand right now. But here’s what I assume went down:
Once they found out they were having boys, Rachelle kind of took this boy mom title and ran with it. Lauren obviously has three boys and she’s got her “Lauren and the boys” blog, but she is also a single mom to all three (not to tell all her personal info because I do consider her a friend.... Her oldest sons bio dad is in prison for Domestic violence and he used to beat Lauren up. She had their son & that was her way out. She got a good job and was a kick ass single mom. Then she met Aaron’s dad and they got engaged and she had Aaron. But they weren’t a good match there were problems that couldn’t be worked through so they split and are on good terms mostly. Shortly after their split she got pregnant with Leo but didn’t know until she was more than 20 weeks. She seriously never gained a pound and one morning she woke up with a big ass baby belly). I think Rachelle was jealous of Lauren getting praised for being a single mom to three (whatever she’s got three baby daddies, but she is devoted to the boys and she works hard for them). So Rachelle starts to try and push Justin slowly out of the picture by making it seem like the twins only want her and Justin is useless especially because “make factor infertility”. She wants to be seen as the one who does it all.

. I have nothing against Justin I think he’s always been a good guy and I think he probably just has keep his mouth shut to keep his family dynamics But I think it’s sad mostly how the oldest nephew is missing out on Emma and his uncle and aunt because of family drama. You could tell how much he loves them.

This is just my personal opinion on what’s happening now (bathroom story is accurate, and the Facebook drama is accurate too though. If she has a public profile you could look).

Fascinating. Thank you for sharing! And I'm genuinely not saying this to try and annoy Rachelle, but I do really admire Lauren and I hope she has a great fucking life, she deserves a lot of good. She seems like a lovely person and nobody deserves to be abused by their partner. And I can't imagine it's easy to break up with your new baby daddy after getting free of an abusive relationship either. Anyway I hope she has been able to get the help and support she needs.

I'd love to know more about the Facebook drama. And if all possible, do you have any screenshots? That's real shitty of them all to gang up on Lauren like that, I'm super curious to know what it was about.

[mamale]

Rash is unbearable, but it was really nice to see some joy and personality from Emma during the girls night. So sad her mom only gives her that kind of attention for the camera.


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[Tina9900]

The channel is called Rachelle and Justin but the title of the video is My 2 year old really needed this. Not our daughter but my!


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[Tweedles3]

Yikes

The pic won’t show for me on the app, is this the one you’re referring to? Definitely, a big yikes. Who is “them”? The demons that live under the floor? Zero context makes this sound a tad unhinged.




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[bennyandthejets]

That pic was also yikes but the pic I posted was of a comment on her video from yesterday when she went to the cemetery. Simone called her out. The vlog prior at the end she mentioned how she had to get up early and drive 50 minutes to Riverside (the cemetery.) but then in the vlog when she actually did it, she said she woke up and just felt like she had to go. She’s making it seem like is suddenly came upon her. Very fake, she got caught in a lie.

[spicy_dreams]

Oh my god. Rachelle thinks that Emma had been having a tough time not being the centre of attention, do she says she needs some quality one on one time. So Rachelle decides this is a good excuse to go on a shopping spree at Target (by herself) for an hour and buy two big bags of junk they don't need for their "girls night".

A dress for Emma, pyjamas for Rachelle, a headband for Emma, a scrunchie for Rachelle. A bath bomb. Face masks, a set of nail polish, sparkling cider, weird cookies, a game, some other shit I can't remember.

Rachelle says she thinks Emma's love language is gifts, so that's why she's spoiling her with a bunch of presents. Umm. She's a toddler, and you're teaching her to expect sparkly new stuff every week, of course she likes that. She's gonna grow up with a shopping addiction just like her mama. Why don't you just spend some quality time with her, with stuff you have already? You don't need to spend money on useless shit in order to enjoy a night with your fucking daughter. You're just using it as an excuse to satisfy your own addiction.

And to top it all off, this dumb bitch gave Emma a wine glass the size of her head to drink the cider. Seriously. It was one of those ones that has a really large top half, so really easy to tip over. And of course it took Emma about 45 seconds to accidentally smack it and send a glass full of cider spilling over the table (towards the camera too). She's lucky it didn't break! Don't give fucking wine glasses to toddlers, that's so unnecessary and unsafe. Especially those stupid huge ones that could fit most of a bottle of wine in them.

And obviously, Rachelle had to spend the whole night carefully setting up the camera for each activity, posing for the video and talking to the viewers throughout the whole entire thing. Jesus Christ. HOW ABOUT YOU SPEND YOUR "QUALITY TIME" ACTUALLY WITH YOUR DAUGHTER. You don't need to show off for the internet. You don't need to prove that you are a good mother. But if you did actually want to prove that, you could show yourself saying goodnight early to the camera and spending the night just with Emma and not 300k other people.

[Sunshineee9]

Oh my god. Rachelle thinks that Emma had been having a tough time not being the centre of attention, do she says she needs some quality one on one time. So Rachelle decides this is a good excuse to go on a shopping spree at Target (by herself) for an hour and buy two big bags of junk they don't need for their "girls night".

A dress for Emma, pyjamas for Rachelle, a headband for Emma, a scrunchie for Rachelle. A bath bomb. Face masks, a set of nail polish, sparkling cider, weird cookies, a game, some other shit I can't remember.

Rachelle says she thinks Emma's love language is gifts, so that's why she's spoiling her with a bunch of presents. Umm. She's a toddler, and you're teaching her to expect sparkly new stuff every week, of course she likes that. She's gonna grow up with a shopping addiction just like her mama. Why don't you just spend some quality time with her, with stuff you have already? You don't need to spend money on useless shit in order to enjoy a night with your fucking daughter. You're just using it as an excuse to satisfy your own addiction.

And to top it all off, this dumb bitch gave Emma a wine glass the size of her head to drink the cider. Seriously. It was one of those ones that has a really large top half, so really easy to tip over. And of course it took Emma about 45 seconds to accidentally smack it and send a glass full of cider spilling over the table (towards the camera too). She's lucky it didn't break! Don't give fucking wine glasses to toddlers, that's so unnecessary and unsafe. Especially those stupid huge ones that could fit most of a bottle of wine in them.

And obviously, Rachelle had to spend the whole night carefully setting up the camera for each activity, posing for the video and talking to the viewers throughout the whole entire thing. Jesus Christ. HOW ABOUT YOU SPEND YOUR "QUALITY TIME" ACTUALLY WITH YOUR DAUGHTER. You don't need to show off for the internet. You don't need to prove that you are a good mother. But if you did actually want to prove that, you could show yourself saying goodnight early to the camera and spending the night just with Emma and not 300k other people.

Yes to all of this. Also Emma's love language is definitely quality time. She is always trying to get her parents' attention. Having the camera on during that made it seem so fake and it was sad. Not everything needs to be shared on YouTube. It would have been better if she snapped a picture or two and posted on Instagram and then focused on Emma.

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[IVFwarrior]

Oh my god. Rachelle thinks that Emma had been having a tough time not being the centre of attention, do she says she needs some quality one on one time. So Rachelle decides this is a good excuse to go on a shopping spree at Target (by herself) for an hour and buy two big bags of junk they don't need for their "girls night".

A dress for Emma, pyjamas for Rachelle, a headband for Emma, a scrunchie for Rachelle. A bath bomb. Face masks, a set of nail polish, sparkling cider, weird cookies, a game, some other shit I can't remember.

Rachelle says she thinks Emma's love language is gifts, so that's why she's spoiling her with a bunch of presents. Umm. She's a toddler, and you're teaching her to expect sparkly new stuff every week, of course she likes that. She's gonna grow up with a shopping addiction just like her mama. Why don't you just spend some quality time with her, with stuff you have already? You don't need to spend money on useless shit in order to enjoy a night with your fucking daughter. You're just using it as an excuse to satisfy your own addiction.

And to top it all off, this dumb bitch gave Emma a wine glass the size of her head to drink the cider. Seriously. It was one of those ones that has a really large top half, so really easy to tip over. And of course it took Emma about 45 seconds to accidentally smack it and send a glass full of cider spilling over the table (towards the camera too). She's lucky it didn't break! Don't give fucking wine glasses to toddlers, that's so unnecessary and unsafe. Especially those stupid huge ones that could fit most of a bottle of wine in them.

And obviously, Rachelle had to spend the whole night carefully setting up the camera for each activity, posing for the video and talking to the viewers throughout the whole entire thing. Jesus Christ. HOW ABOUT YOU SPEND YOUR "QUALITY TIME" ACTUALLY WITH YOUR DAUGHTER. You don't need to show off for the internet. You don't need to prove that you are a good mother. But if you did actually want to prove that, you could show yourself saying goodnight early to the camera and spending the night just with Emma and not 300k other people.

Yes to all of this. Also Emma's love language is definitely quality time. She is always trying to get her parents' attention. Having the camera on during that made it seem so fake and it was sad. Not everything needs to be shared on YouTube. It would have been better if she snapped a picture or two and posted on Instagram and then focused on Emma.

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Do kids really have love languages? I'm pretty sure they just have needs - a need for secure attachment, warmth, engagement, food etc.... Though I suspect our love languages as adults are strongly influenced by how well our parents met our needs in childhood. Which means Emma is doomed. She's going to have worse attachment issues and a bigger need for validation than her mother. If that's even possible...

[Sunshineee9]

Oh my god. Rachelle thinks that Emma had been having a tough time not being the centre of attention, do she says she needs some quality one on one time. So Rachelle decides this is a good excuse to go on a shopping spree at Target (by herself) for an hour and buy two big bags of junk they don't need for their "girls night".

A dress for Emma, pyjamas for Rachelle, a headband for Emma, a scrunchie for Rachelle. A bath bomb. Face masks, a set of nail polish, sparkling cider, weird cookies, a game, some other shit I can't remember.

Rachelle says she thinks Emma's love language is gifts, so that's why she's spoiling her with a bunch of presents. Umm. She's a toddler, and you're teaching her to expect sparkly new stuff every week, of course she likes that. She's gonna grow up with a shopping addiction just like her mama. Why don't you just spend some quality time with her, with stuff you have already? You don't need to spend money on useless shit in order to enjoy a night with your fucking daughter. You're just using it as an excuse to satisfy your own addiction.

And to top it all off, this dumb bitch gave Emma a wine glass the size of her head to drink the cider. Seriously. It was one of those ones that has a really large top half, so really easy to tip over. And of course it took Emma about 45 seconds to accidentally smack it and send a glass full of cider spilling over the table (towards the camera too). She's lucky it didn't break! Don't give fucking wine glasses to toddlers, that's so unnecessary and unsafe. Especially those stupid huge ones that could fit most of a bottle of wine in them.

And obviously, Rachelle had to spend the whole night carefully setting up the camera for each activity, posing for the video and talking to the viewers throughout the whole entire thing. Jesus Christ. HOW ABOUT YOU SPEND YOUR "QUALITY TIME" ACTUALLY WITH YOUR DAUGHTER. You don't need to show off for the internet. You don't need to prove that you are a good mother. But if you did actually want to prove that, you could show yourself saying goodnight early to the camera and spending the night just with Emma and not 300k other people.

Yes to all of this. Also Emma's love language is definitely quality time. She is always trying to get her parents' attention. Having the camera on during that made it seem so fake and it was sad. Not everything needs to be shared on YouTube. It would have been better if she snapped a picture or two and posted on Instagram and then focused on Emma.

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Do kids really have love languages? I'm pretty sure they just have needs - a need for secure attachment, warmth, engagement, food etc.... Though I suspect our love languages as adults are strongly influenced by how well our parents met our needs in childhood. Which means Emma is doomed. She's going to have worse attachment issues and a bigger need for validation than her mother. If that's even possible...

I don't think they really do but if she did it would definitely be quality time. It's sad watching her try to get her mom's attention while she's talking to a phone or camera

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[discretechristine]

I found Lauren’s Facebook and read if there was anything about this argument. I couldn’t find anything but she does have quite a lot of public posts. There is one very long one about vaccines and vaccine injury. I wonder if that has to do with the argument between her and Rash?

Rash has been pretty opened about her kids getting their shots and one of Lauren’s children got a vaccine injury, so I’m thinking that’s where they butt heads?


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[Boldyy]

The Facebook post was of messages Lauren had been getting calling her racist and privileged and a few other things about her kids because Lauren posted something political (I think about Gavin Newsom but don’t quote me on that). Lauren said something about her being of Mexican decent and her youngest son is half Mexican. People got hateful with her in the messages (which she posted screenshots of) and they were saying she’s too white so people would assume she’s Mexican so she’s privileged. And basically R & her sis went on the defensive about Lauren being privileged and not knowing it etc. there was more to it but that sums it up.

I know Lauren talks about vaccines because her son has a vaccine injury, but what people don’t realize is that she’s not anti Vax she is really pushing that the gov shouldn’t make that decision for us and our kids. It’s definitely possible that had something to do with it too. But it’s interesting that R was very open about them getting their shots and then also quick to say one of the boys was having a reaction. I don’t know what came of that but it was worth mentioning.

[Maite5]

I think Lauren is a great mum and I am sure Rachelle is so jealous of her , because not only she is a single mum, but she does everything without anyones help, and without any fucking ads and clickbaits youtube titles like her.

shame on Justin for pushing away his sister. I am so sick of both of them really !

[spicy_dreams]

The Facebook post was of messages Lauren had been getting calling her racist and privileged and a few other things about her kids because Lauren posted something political (I think about Gavin Newsom but don’t quote me on that). Lauren said something about her being of Mexican decent and her youngest son is half Mexican. People got hateful with her in the messages (which she posted screenshots of) and they were saying she’s too white so people would assume she’s Mexican so she’s privileged. And basically R & her sis went on the defensive about Lauren being privileged and not knowing it etc. there was more to it but that sums it up.

I know Lauren talks about vaccines because her son has a vaccine injury, but what people don’t realize is that she’s not anti Vax she is really pushing that the gov shouldn’t make that decision for us and our kids. It’s definitely possible that had something to do with it too. But it’s interesting that R was very open about them getting their shots and then also quick to say one of the boys was having a reaction. I don’t know what came of that but it was worth mentioning.

Wow that's thick! Calling her privileged when she's a woman of colour, hard working single mother of three young kids and a survivor of domestic violence. Sure maybe she has *some* privilege, but who cares? She's faced enough adversity.

Maybe little things had been building up for a while and this was just the last straw?

If anybody is privileged, it's Rachelle. The fucking least they could've done was had that conversation in private, not publically on Facebook.

I wonder if Rachelle is jealous because Lauren actually has her shit together and is able to work normal jobs. Rachelles income is dependant on YouTube revinue and that's not very secure long term. She also has to make everything look perfect all the time and pretend she's not suffering from mental illness or marital problems. That's gotta be tough to be stuck in that situation and see your sister in law get all the praise because she's got a harder life and is doing it way better than you. Not that she should be botheted by that, but I can see why that might bother Rachelle in particular.