DailyMyLittlePony (Part 101)

[lmmomSD]

Ok, I keep seeing people make comments on Ollies speech/he needs to learn more etc., honestly he's only 4 years old. He's been on this earth FOUR years. Other countries that EXCEL in education (News flash: America is 17th!! On the ranking system) delay their child from going to school til 7!! Because before 7 they focus on the child learning about THEMSELVES, as well as how to clean up, prepare foods, garden, explore, more child led learning.

So please, as a mother of a 4 year old, no one is perfect, especially in this country (America, and some of you probably don't live here.)
Everyone learns on there own, which is why the public school systems fail so many children, because they EXPECT everyone to learn a certain way and milestones according to textbooks, missing the true human behind the "grades/tests" we are all different and learn differently....

But i will add, excessive screen time WILL hinder a child's speech overtime. Living somewhere sunny, personally I'd take advantage and have my son outside for the majority of the day (in shade, during the hotter months.)

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But they don't do any of the child- led learning either. They don't have him learning about how to take care of himself. He still drinks from a sippy cup. And even in foreign countries where they keep the kids out of regular school, the parents teach them colors, right? Play games with them that stimulate them? Do imaginative play with them that _doesn't_ involve killing someone?
And if a child is 4 1/2, which Ollie is, and can't express himself intelligibly, they get help for him, don't they? They don't just pretend he's perfect and that everything is fine.
I don't think anyone expects him to read War and Peace, or speak perfectly. But we expect his parents to give a damn about his learning process.

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[ewitsme]

Ok, I keep seeing people make comments on Ollies speech/he needs to learn more etc., honestly he's only 4 years old. He's been on this earth FOUR years. Other countries that EXCEL in education (News flash: America is 17th!! On the ranking system) delay their child from going to school til 7!! Because before 7 they focus on the child learning about THEMSELVES, as well as how to clean up, prepare foods, garden, explore, more child led learning.

So please, as a mother of a 4 year old, no one is perfect, especially in this country (America, and some of you probably don't live here.)
Everyone learns on there own, which is why the public school systems fail so many children, because they EXPECT everyone to learn a certain way and milestones according to textbooks, missing the true human behind the "grades/tests" we are all different and learn differently....

But i will add, excessive screen time WILL hinder a child's speech overtime. Living somewhere sunny, personally I'd take advantage and have my son outside for the majority of the day (in shade, during the hotter months.)

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Nah he needs to learn how to speak. It’s an essential part of life, being able to communicate... he has obviously speech delay which is NOTHING to be ashamed of. You’re making it sound like it’s shameful when it’s not! Most people here just want M&B to seek help for Ollie so the poor kid can catch up and be able to communicate more efficiently. And honestly this is the age when you start picking up on that and reaching out for help! He can’t go his entire school career not being able to speak correctly, that will truly hinder his development.

i had a speech impediment (couldnt pronounce my Rs and Ths) but when i went to elementary school they offered a FREE speech class once a week for about 30 minutes, I was in the class till 5th grade and started in 1st grade so hopefully the school they put him in will offer that.

[ewitsme]

also, has ollie gone to a single non youtuber birthday party this year?? Like ive never seen them mention taking ollie to a school friends birthday party.

He doesn’t have friends he has classmates (legit missy’s words LOL) so no, school is not for making friends or for “play time” its so that he can go for 6 hours a week and learn things Missy could’ve taught him at home.

THAT IS SUCH BULLSHIT IM SO - school isnt just a place for learning its also a place to learn socializing skills and to make friends. thats so sad im so flabbergasted. Ollie obviously wants to be friend his "classmates" (if what they said about him learning names is true)

[asthecrowflies]

Ok, I keep seeing people make comments on Ollies speech/he needs to learn more etc., honestly he's only 4 years old. He's been on this earth FOUR years. Other countries that EXCEL in education (News flash: America is 17th!! On the ranking system) delay their child from going to school til 7!! Because before 7 they focus on the child learning about THEMSELVES, as well as how to clean up, prepare foods, garden, explore, more child led learning.

So please, as a mother of a 4 year old, no one is perfect, especially in this country (America, and some of you probably don't live here.)
Everyone learns on there own, which is why the public school systems fail so many children, because they EXPECT everyone to learn a certain way and milestones according to textbooks, missing the true human behind the "grades/tests" we are all different and learn differently....

But i will add, excessive screen time WILL hinder a child's speech overtime. Living somewhere sunny, personally I'd take advantage and have my son outside for the majority of the day (in shade, during the hotter months.)

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Nah he needs to learn how to speak. It’s an essential part of life, being able to communicate... he has obviously speech delay which is NOTHING to be ashamed of. You’re making it sound like it’s shameful when it’s not! Most people here just want M&B to seek help for Ollie so the poor kid can catch up and be able to communicate more efficiently. And honestly this is the age when you start picking up on that and reaching out for help! He can’t go his entire school career not being able to speak correctly, that will truly hinder his development.

Right, well it just sounded like everyone was coming across aggressively at the kid

I believe if he does have a speech delay (they really don't show pure moments of Ollie, mostly scripted monotone repetitive things) and I'm no speech therapist it would likely be due to constant television and lack of other children in varying ages playing with him kids learn better from there peers.

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[asthecrowflies]

Ok, I keep seeing people make comments on Ollies speech/he needs to learn more etc., honestly he's only 4 years old. He's been on this earth FOUR years. Other countries that EXCEL in education (News flash: America is 17th!! On the ranking system) delay their child from going to school til 7!! Because before 7 they focus on the child learning about THEMSELVES, as well as how to clean up, prepare foods, garden, explore, more child led learning.

So please, as a mother of a 4 year old, no one is perfect, especially in this country (America, and some of you probably don't live here.)
Everyone learns on there own, which is why the public school systems fail so many children, because they EXPECT everyone to learn a certain way and milestones according to textbooks, missing the true human behind the "grades/tests" we are all different and learn differently....

But i will add, excessive screen time WILL hinder a child's speech overtime. Living somewhere sunny, personally I'd take advantage and have my son outside for the majority of the day (in shade, during the hotter months.)

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But they don't do any of the child- led learning either. They don't have him learning about how to take care of himself. He still drinks from a sippy cup. And even in foreign countries where they keep the kids out of regular school, the parents teach them colors, right? Play games with them that stimulate them? Do imaginative play with them that _doesn't_ involve killing someone?
And if a child is 4 1/2, which Ollie is, and can't express himself intelligibly, they get help for him, don't they? They don't just pretend he's perfect and that everything is fine.
I don't think anyone expects him to read War and Peace, or speak perfectly. But we expect his parents to give a damn about his learning process.

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Yes totally, I must had misinterpreted the tone when everyone would talk about his speech. Usually with parental guidance these things work out (if it's just an age quirk). Though I'm not sure what approach M&B are taking.

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[ewitsme]

i love that ollies getting to have some fun time without M&B and with someone around his age.

[onbreak]

Ollie is only in preschool because Pey-ton is. Plain and simple.

They "interviewed" with several other preschools. They do everything last minute and half-assed. I just knew they'd go to Olivia and Pey-ton's school.

Lots of children have speech issues. Raised on tv and screens, sure. Missy has speech issues, no surprise the kid(s) are effected.

Pinterest is full of speech therapy ideas and mini lessons.

Even teacherspayteachers.com has some lessons




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[lmmomSD]

And everyone here (as far as I know) blames Bryan and Missy for any shortcomings of Ollie's, and do want the best for him. I know it can sound harsh here sometimes. I think it's just that we all assume an agreement that if Bryan and Missy were better, more engaged parents, a lot of the things we notice about Ollie would likely be a non-issue. So we say things without preface. And it's looking like Finn is going to have a speech delay as well. But if you say anything, you will be blocked. Missy even went on a Snapchat rant about how "advanced" Ollie's speech is. Apparently, he chatters perfectly all day long, and they have just never been able to catch it on camera!

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[coolusername1236]

If Ollie's speech was bad, and they were TRYING to help him, or TRYING to get him speech classes, sure, that would be fine. But they'd much rather give him a toy for acting like a normal child than helping him.

I've seen kids with speech impediments progress SO MUCH in such a short amount of time with classes. If Ollie is a fast learner, I'm sure he could be 10x better if they put him in classes at the age of 2!
Bryan and Missy are not TRYING to help Ollie, and the same is happening with Finn. Yes, nobody is perfect, but they're never letting these boys live up to their full potential. I hear Ollie making analyzations in the background a lot, and they just ignore him! I would have much more respect if they weren't sitting on their lazy behinds and trying to help!

[asthecrowflies]

Thank you everyone for clearing it up!
I'm glad we're all on the same page for helping the kids.

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[alyssadt]

So I just watched Cassie's video - she took both of the elder nephews to Disneyland with her fiancee and let me tell you guys one thing - this girl is clearly SMART when it comes to her videos! She knew right away people would ask why she didn't bring Finn along and she made a good decision in taking 2 kids at one time. Also - she made a hilarious comment saying that Ollie is used to being in the stroller and wanted to be held at Disneyland and she told him "no way - you're walking buddy" hahaha I mean it's a slight dig at Missy's parenting but I loved it! Ollie was behaving normally and didn't have stupid staged lines or his zombie expressions like he usually does on the Daily Bumps channel. I'm not sure if Ollie and her fiancees nephew are the same age, but you could clearly tell Ollie's speech issues are still there - I mean he said "Disney-Yand" All I know is that Cassie is living a "normal" life and not doing anything crazy like her big (useless) sister! If this was Missy and Bryan - we all know they would get a huge suite at the Disneyland hotel the night before and show off eating in the breakfast buffet restaurants - while spoiling Ollie with another popcorn bucket and toys - all Cassie bought them was churro's and they brought their own snacks from home!

Ollie is a different child around Cassie. She is going to be a much better mom than Missy. It's really sad for Ollie that his idiot parents seem to think that the scripted lines are "cuter" than Ollie being himself. Cassie lets him be himself and talks to him, not at him, and you can see the difference!

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There was even a clip of Ollie eating an apple. AN APPLE. It’s amazing!


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[HelloSweetie]

Sorry for posting so much but I post as I watch (bad habit) anyways:

I realized that mimi is nothing like missy and it confuses me. Mimi cares about the kids’ safety, mimi cares about health which is why she cooks and made fresh juice. Mimi wants a LIBRARY in her home. Ok so what went wrong with missy?? People always say missy’s upbringing must be why she is the way she is but mimi seems to be a good well rounded mom or grandma I guess in this situation.

Btw annoying af when missy said WE while talking about mimi and papas home improvements “WE need to decide what this space will be...” um no, mimi and papa do, that’s their home. Idc if missy helps finance them she needs to stop being so damn controlling, I noticed she controls A LOT of what everyone does...

Beard on things we’ve heard, I think the world Missy grew up in revolved around her grandmother and Missy was groomed (by said Grandma) to be the heir to that thrown. She was clearly treated as the golden child, to the point where she has said that listening to her play the piano was her grandmothers dying wish at one point (Missy’s music gave her the will to live). They lived in a cult setting until the grandmother died, and then all of a sudden everything changed because they had free will back. The cult wasn’t the problem, because they had no problem leaving.... grandma was.

Missy is just grandma 2.0. Thank heavens they decided they wanted more for Cassie so she at least seems like a decent person and contributing member of society.

Missy has said before that she would love for to live on a piece of property with her parents. They have the property, and yet it hasn’t happened. My guess it’s because Mimi and Papa want nothing to do with they set up. They’ve been there before!


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[YellowSweater1950]

Sorry for posting so much but I post as I watch (bad habit) anyways:

I realized that mimi is nothing like missy and it confuses me. Mimi cares about the kids’ safety, mimi cares about health which is why she cooks and made fresh juice. Mimi wants a LIBRARY in her home. Ok so what went wrong with missy?? People always say missy’s upbringing must be why she is the way she is but mimi seems to be a good well rounded mom or grandma I guess in this situation.

Btw annoying af when missy said WE while talking about mimi and papas home improvements “WE need to decide what this space will be...” um no, mimi and papa do, that’s their home. Idc if missy helps finance them she needs to stop being so damn controlling, I noticed she controls A LOT of what everyone does...

Missy is enmeshed with her family, and I think her family goes along with it for the peace. They enable it by allowing it.

Anyone who knows much about behavior, narcissism, enmeshment, etc. might know better but I have noticed with the second generation the parents seem to do better? I think Jennifer and Chad from E&J are like that. I definitely think they had a toxic family growing up, but seem normal with their grandkids. What’s up with that?

HelloSweetie has a pretty good theory!

[ewitsme]

And everyone here (as far as I know) blames Bryan and Missy for any shortcomings of Ollie's, and do want the best for him. I know it can sound harsh here sometimes. I think it's just that we all assume an agreement that if Bryan and Missy were better, more engaged parents, a lot of the things we notice about Ollie would likely be a non-issue. So we say things without preface. And it's looking like Finn is going to have a speech delay as well. But if you say anything, you will be blocked. Missy even went on a Snapchat rant about how "advanced" Ollie's speech is. Apparently, he chatters perfectly all day long, and they have just never been able to catch it on camera!

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also speech delays can be genetically inherited, my father had the same speech delay i had when a child but he had completely "normal" speech when i was born. somethings can be blamed on their parenting, sometimes things are just inherited genetically.

[lmmomSD]

And everyone here (as far as I know) blames Bryan and Missy for any shortcomings of Ollie's, and do want the best for him. I know it can sound harsh here sometimes. I think it's just that we all assume an agreement that if Bryan and Missy were better, more engaged parents, a lot of the things we notice about Ollie would likely be a non-issue. So we say things without preface. And it's looking like Finn is going to have a speech delay as well. But if you say anything, you will be blocked. Missy even went on a Snapchat rant about how "advanced" Ollie's speech is. Apparently, he chatters perfectly all day long, and they have just never been able to catch it on camera!

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also speech delays can be genetically inherited, my father had the same speech delay i had when a child but he had completely "normal" speech when i was born. somethings can be blamed on their parenting, sometimes things are just inherited genetically.

That is true. My daughter has a micro deletion of a part of one chromosome that affects a lot of functions, and speech is one of them. When I say "blame the parents" I mean that they aren't trying to help him. Not that it's their fault necessarily that he has a speech delay. I knew my daughter needed help, and talked to her doctor about it at her 18 month check-up because she wasn't meeting her speech milestones. We actually didn't know about the other defects until much later because she met her early milestones.
There are behavior issues with Ollie that I do blame Bryan and Missy for-- because they don't discipline him. But that's another story.

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[janem]

FYI... the preK parent/teacher conferences at Ollie’s school were the week of January 22-26. That’s a huge delay when you consider that they could have shown it while they were gone. There really wasn’t much content to it. They’re getting so lazy. Really hope their laziness catches up with them. One thing I noticed is that they’re very careful not to post on IG about stuff like that. It would be too obvious (the delay). I just thought it seemed a little late for conference and Wondered if that was why they had such a short hawaii trip.


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[tintin15]

When I see Missy with her typical vodka cranberry, I just want to slap it out of her hand! I've only ever seen her drink other stuff TWICE. If it's her favorite, I get it, but she could branch out more. Why is she so closed off and limited with EVERYTHING she does? It's so odd. She rarely tries new things.

[cat9480]

FYI... the preK parent/teacher conferences at Ollie’s school were the week of January 22-26. That’s a huge delay when you consider that they could have shown it while they were gone. There really wasn’t much content to it. They’re getting so lazy. Really hope their laziness catches up with them. One thing I noticed is that they’re very careful not to post on IG about stuff like that. It would be too obvious (the delay). I just thought it seemed a little late for conference and Wondered if that was why they had such a short hawaii trip.


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Also it’s sunday, meaning there’s no way that conference happened yesterday lol... they’re no longer the daily bumps maybe they should switch their name to the deceiving bumps. Isn’t their break over why are they still using pre recorded film? And also when are they going to clarify what their schedule is. They can’t carry on like this forever

It’s going to catch up with them fast. We aren’t the only ones noticing.




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[natalka81]

Daily Deceiving Bumps, Every Now and Then Bumps--- both excellent thread titles!

[cat9480]

DailyishBumps....


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