DailyLiars&Spenders -Part 33

[PostyMcPosterston]

Agreed. The Hollisters don't have him locked up in a basement. He chooses to be part of that family either because he loves Missy. Or is at least comfortable with her after 7 years. Or he's got $$$ in his eyes and sees his portrayal of a family is successful on YouTube. Why fuck with that?

I don't think Bryan has any want or desires to leave Missy. I think he probably does realize she's lazy and bratty. Not to the extent we feel she is. But I don't think he wants to leave her for it.

In a world where they do ever split up (I don't see it), Missy is capable of continuing YouTube, for sure. She edited for a hot second there for the daily channel and I liked it. And her "hobby channel" used to be really planned and consistent. If she were being forced to actually make the effort or risk low income, she has the potential to survive on YT. She's just been allowed to be so incredibly lazy.


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Unless you've been treated this way by someone that's supposed to love you, you just aren't going to understand. Every word, every action, every glance is calculated to control and manipulate. They've already divorced once and end up back together, I no longer think it's possible for him to leave her (though I hope this is not the case).

On the Karma thing, I am SHOCKED with all the money they blow on random garbage they haven't paid the $80 for a doggie DNA test...

I was actually in a 3+ year relationship with a diagnosed narcissist paired with severe anxiety. One who was dropped from a handful of psychiatrists due to his over the top manipulative ways. When I tried to end things, he tried to commit suicide and ended up in a psychiatric hospital. The next month I finally left him. Talk about someone trying to drain all sense of independence, self-worth and desirability from someone. Luckily, I'm now married to a freaking saint now lol. Missy has issues, yes. But she's no where near calculated and sick in the head as some think. She mainly has a bratty, lazy, self-entitled personality which screams Suzanne.


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[jameson_]

Gnocchi is pronounced like nnnYock-i and missy pronounces it as no-key.


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Ah I see!


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And I know it's pretty and nit-picky of me to be so snarky about it, but they eat it enough, she should learn to pronounce it! It's not that hard. I'd love to see them go to Little Italy and order "nokey" and see the quizzical look on the server's face.

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It's not nit-picky! People have the small things that REALLY irritate them, mine is how my bf puts on the hand break in the car super slow, why? I dont even know!
The way some people say words is really annoying and irritating sometimes! Haha


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[littleb0586]

Very random on totally off topic, sorry. But I was thinking....Missy brags about how Oliver is so good and stays in his bed until she comes to get him. She talks about how proud she is. But, didn't they say he likes to sleep in a pitch black room? Missy, that's probably why he's not getting down, the poor child can't see a thing...lol. Leave a little light on for him and I bet he's down on his own.


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Also, I love how vocal she is about how proud she is when he does something that benefits her, lol. He's eating with a fork... Screw that, I have to clean him up. He stays in bed an extra half hour so I can pick my ass and "relax"... Ollie!!! You're such a good boy!!!!!

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[westwuff]

I was actually in a 3+ year relationship with a diagnosed narcissist paired with severe anxiety. One who was dropped from a handful of psychiatrists due to his over the top manipulative ways. When I tried to end things, he tried to commit suicide and ended up in a psychiatric hospital. The next month I finally left him. Talk about someone trying to drain all sense of independence, self-worth and desirability from someone. Luckily, I'm now married to a freaking saint now lol. Missy has issues, yes. But she's no where near calculated and sick in the head as some think. She mainly has a bratty, lazy, self-entitled personality which screams Suzanne.

Glad your out of that relationship. I won't go into my own issues with my mother. But as people repeatedly point out on here, we see the BEST 12 minutes of their daily life...I don't want to know what's being said off camera

[FJ_Lanning]

I don't feel bad for Bryan. If he's unhappy with Missy as his spouse, he can leave her. Not even kids should keep two people together if they can't stand one another. But Bryan seems to actually love and appreciate Missy for some reason. He chose to make another child with her. He chose to remain married to her and I just can't feel bad for him.

Agreed. The Hollisters don't have him locked up in a basement. He chooses to be part of that family either because he loves Missy. Or is at least comfortable with her after 7 years. Or he's got $$$ in his eyes and sees his portrayal of a family is successful on YouTube. Why fuck with that?

I don't think Bryan has any want or desires to leave Missy. I think he probably does realize she's lazy and bratty. Not to the extent we feel she is. But I don't think he wants to leave her for it.

In a world where they do ever split up (I don't see it), Missy is capable of continuing YouTube, for sure. She edited for a hot second there for the daily channel and I liked it. And her "hobby channel" used to be really planned and consistent. If she were being forced to actually make the effort or risk low income, she has the potential to survive on YT. She's just been allowed to be so incredibly lazy.


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Unless you've been treated this way by someone that's supposed to love you, you just aren't going to understand. Every word, every action, every glance is calculated to control and manipulate. They've already divorced once and end up back together, I no longer think it's possible for him to leave her (though I hope this is not the case).

On the Karma thing, I am SHOCKED with all the money they blow on random garbage they haven't paid the $80 for a doggie DNA test...

Someone should pose as a minion and suggest it!! Comment or tweet it to Bryan!! It's like finding his dad, but for Karma!! Hahaha

[Sapphire]

There are reasons why I do feel bad for Bryan. One reason is because let's not forget what the Christian values for marriage are. You don't ever have a reason to divorce your spouse unless adultery.
Bryan wasn't a total Christian until he met Missy and Missy's family. He's said that in one of the vlogs (or maybe on his or Missy's channel, I can't remember) but when Bryan left home because of his mom's abusive boyfriend, he moved on with Missy and the Hollister's and he said himself that they showed him God and " saved him " and now he's a Christian.
Divorce is highly frowned upon unless your spouse committed adultery.

Another reason is, he probably has very low self esteem. It may not seem like it because he can be egotistical but someone with low self-esteem can have quite an ego. There are many reasons why Bryan may have low self esteem and one of them may be Missy never shows affection, love, attention, admiration, support or praise. Let's not forget the person who was Bryan's biggest fan (even in Jareds words) when Bryan released This Is Home. Ellie. Ellie was Bryan's biggest fan. Jared even said so (seemed almost like he was throwing shade at Missy but probably not). It's sad when your biggest fan is your best friend's wife. Missy did say she liked the song, but she kept going on about how it was about her. She even posted on her channel " A Song About Me! "

Another reason is Bryan might be afraid of what Missy and the Hollister's will do. If Bryan left Missy, what happens to custody? Who will have Ollie and Finn? Yes, they may have joint custody 50/50 but we don't know if Bryan is afraid of Missy and the Hollister's screwing him up and possibly trying to keep the kids away from him.

Divorce is seriously HIGHLY frowned upon when you're a Christian, unless adultery is involved and Bryan may be afraid. We don't know what or how he feels.

And another reason, is as someone who has been in an emotionally and physically abusive relationship, there's a lot of fear. Something not many people could understand unless they've lived it. If Bryan is afraid, I can understand why. Missy isn't physically abusive, but emotionally and mentally? Yes.
She's also controlling. She makes Bryan feel bad about himself when she puts him down, doesn't trust him with Ollie on his own (even though he does do a better job), says he doesn't or can't clean, and makes everything about her, and there are so many factors that I can't even count them all.

So for me personally, as someone who has met Bryan and has met Missy, I can feel for Bryan. I don't mean to seem like an annoying minion of Bryan's as I despise Missy and do talk trash about what they do, but I do feel for Bryan. That's just my opinion though and since this is a discussion board, I felt it would have been right for me to mention what Bryan is actually like.
And in person, he's wonderful. When Missy doesn't have a leash on him, he's great. There's such a big difference.

[HelloSweetie]

I was actually in a 3+ year relationship with a diagnosed narcissist paired with severe anxiety. One who was dropped from a handful of psychiatrists due to his over the top manipulative ways. When I tried to end things, he tried to commit suicide and ended up in a psychiatric hospital. The next month I finally left him. Talk about someone trying to drain all sense of independence, self-worth and desirability from someone. Luckily, I'm now married to a freaking saint now lol. Missy has issues, yes. But she's no where near calculated and sick in the head as some think. She mainly has a bratty, lazy, self-entitled personality which screams Suzanne.

Glad your out of that relationship. I won't go into my own issues with my mother. But as people repeatedly point out on here, we see the BEST 12 minutes of their daily life...I don't want to know what's being said off camera

I agree.

Bryan is Missy's PR person. On Twitter he's always trying to make her look like the best mom, wife, etc.

I think he shows the best of Missy in the vlogs too. She is incredibly passive aggressive (watch any of the vlogs where Bryan is away recording).

Sorry, she may not match your Narcissist ex Lurky, but I see it strongly. They know when they need to behave a certain way (Ted Bundy) and Missy's Bumpdates clearly show she can turn the charm on when she wants to .

To me it's far more than just laziness. Have we seen her show empathy, love, joy, affection for anyone/thing other than Missy herself?


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[lmmomSD]

I don't buy that "Christian" bit. I'm sorry. They never go to church, and even at Christmas, they don't seem to mention Jesus. They seem to only be "Christian" when it gives them an excuse to judge someone else. Except for the trip to Cambodia, and the horse farm (where they had to be shamed into giving the money) they don't do anything for anyone else. I was brought up by devout Christians, who saw the meaning of being "Christian" as trying to be Christ-like. They helped other people every chance they got, they judged no one, and I grew up with openly gay family friends. When one of them was dying of AIDS, my dad took care of him and cleaned up his diarrhea. _That_ is Christian. Using the Bible to judge someone else or say you're better then them isn't. So I don't buy using Christianity as a reason for them to stay together. I think Bryan has been so emotionally abused by Missy that he doesn't think he deserves better. I wouldn't say I feel sorry for him. I just think he's a very mixed up guy with a bitch of a wife, who needs to grow a pair.

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[spacekitty]

I was in English and we took a "would you rather" and she called out someone for coming off narcissist and I swear this guy sounded JUST LIKE MISSY!
One question was would you rather be forgotten, or hatefully remembered. He said remembered because "everyone should know".


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[PostyMcPosterston]

I think a few of you are reaching, honestly. On the poor Bryan shtick acting like he's "BRYAN TRAPPED IN A HOLLISTER CLAN" and diagnosing Missy with narcissism. Even have lived with a narcissist and having a degree in psychology, I wouldn't begin to online diagnose her lol. You all could be very much right. I just think she may have some tendencies, but I wouldn't say she is.

When I read a post that I think is digging/reaching, I imagine Bryan or Missy reading hear and our opinions losing ALL credibility.


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[PostyMcPosterston]

And I'm not saying I haven't posted something that sounded like I was reaching. I'm sure I'm guilty of it. But really, some of these posts sound wacky.


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[HelloSweetie]

I think a few of you are reaching, honestly. On the poor Bryan shtick acting like he's "BRYAN TRAPPED IN A HOLLISTER CLAN" and diagnosing Missy with narcissism. Even have lived with a narcissist and having a degree in psychology, I wouldn't begin to online diagnose her lol. You all could be very much right. I just think she may have some tendencies, but I wouldn't say she is.

When I read a post that I think is digging/reaching, I imagine Bryan or Missy reading hear and our opinions losing ALL credibility.


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Missy doesn't listen to professional opinions like doctors.

I highly doubt she's going to listen to anything we say here so I'm not exactly worried about my credibility.

This isn't their comment section. They don't even read here right?


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[PostyMcPosterston]

True.


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[RootBeerFloatie]

I agree though, I hate people trying to diagnose using their google degree off twelve minutes of the day. Yeah Missy is shitty but we're not qualified to diagnose her, so let's stop throwing "narcissist" around in every single post like it's fact. And Bryan isn't some poor man trapped in a cult, this is his life and if he wasn't happy with it he wouldn't be marketing it so hard. Bryan and Missy used to be a LOT better, these are habits they've fallen into together, over time, and because of their choices.

[lmmomSD]

Yeah, I am not worried about credibility with those two. They immediately delete any comments that are remotely negative. Anything we say here is going to be dismissed as "haters" commentary. I can't imagine them reading here and saying "Oh my gosh, they're right! We do need to color with Ollie!" just as an example. However, I do shy away from giving psychiatric diagnoses for people I see in vlogs. I think it takes some narcissistic tendency to vlog in the first place. My life is so fascinating! Let me film it and post it on YouTube!

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[HelloSweetie]

Interesting argument between Scott Sandler and another minion yesterday about the left handed thing. Bryan and Missy stepped in to defuse. I get the impression that he's a minion they just don't want to lose!

News flash... Missy made Ollie write with his right hand because she was helping him, and she's right handed. Nicer way of saying "Oliver has to be right handed like me".


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[MamaJoAnna]

Wow. What a piss poor worker he is. Had that been a 9-5 job and he was late/didn't get a chance to do something he would be fired. Stick to your plan or quit dude.

[ghostgrrl]

Big surprise, the vlog is late. Vlogging is a real job guise!!! Except when people ask for accountability (like you would have at an actual job). Then it's just for them!!! Not for you, ungrateful viewers! Lol. I remember their title card used to have "every day at (insert time here)", now it's just "um... #soon..."

[cats-or-die]

Oh give me a break. Christianity does not "frown" upon divorce like you're claiming. And Bryan and missy are the farthest things from devote Christians. If Bryan wanted to leave, he would. Missy isn't some super dictator threatening him to keep him.
Honestly I've never really noticed your username before recently, sapphire trinity, and that could be because I'm oblivious, but all I've been seeing from you is defense of the Lannings. If you're still into them somewhat then this forum ain't for you.
Bryan isn't a 4 year old child. He has the capability of speaking up for himself and creating a life he is happy with. The culty Hollister's won't stop him from that. Are you kidding?

And I get that you met them, but how long ago was that? And it isn't that hard for Bryan to see missy acting antisocial and step up to the plate at that meet up. If you think Bryan is some prince then you haven't been watching the same vlogs we have. He makes insensitive comments ALL the time on Twitter. The dude isn't a saint and he deserves Missy. He chose he not once, but TWICE. He had an out. They were divorced. Kid free. And he crawled back to her. Sorry but they're perfect together because they're both shitty humans.
So sick of these essays praising Bryan and feeling sorry for him. It's laughable.


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[ghostgrrl]

As for how can Finn have a "Liddle" (god, I loathe that word)... I mean, it's a cartoon baby. Unless he comes out with a second head, they pretty much know what he's gonna look like. Besides, none of their cartoons look like them anyway.