JesssFam: Slutty Splits & Golden Tits (Part 88)

[Got2beGhost]

In Kallys video Jesssss kids, (specifically Kyson) was acting like a maniac at the childrens museum. Climbing on things, jumping off, running around ... i get it hes a "boy" but where the hell is Jess to correct him??!

[notapnutmommy]

I feel like sometimes how kids turn out has nothing to do with stable but instead a loving family life.

My older sister was raised by her dad in a stable home with a mom and step siblings and such from the outside their family looked great. But there wasn't much family time and their definition of love was buying things for her.

Meanwhile, me and my two younger siblings were raised by my parents. We moved every 2-3 years, never had money, my sister and I shared a bedroom most of our lives, but we never doubted our parents love. We did things together as a family all the time. From the outside, our family looked not so great.

As adults, my younger siblings and I have a much better life than my older sister, who jumped the bones of any man who would buy her things.


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[Yogabbagabbat]

Stability is important for kids. And jess and chris don't love each other lol

[dancingfireflame]

They were totally "in lust" in the beginning of their relationship. Now that everything is said and done, reality has set in and their stuck with each other. We all know Jess will never end the relationship and it will probably take something serious to make Chris end it. Even then, he will probably be too afraid to seeing as how bitter Jess is when a relationship ends.
I have no proof but she definitely seems like she is really controlling when it comes to her partners. Maybe that's why we never see Chris hanging out with friends.

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[Mel1011]

I agree I never see him do anything other than hang around her and the kids. I get the feeling that if he ever just wanted to spend a weekend with tommy and Caden where they are Jess wouldn't allow it.

[blackroses]

She's waiting for him to make a mistake so she can bash him on social media and then leave him

[ArielLipstick]

Jess casually telling the world what her ex boyfriends' penises looked like and which felt better was so gross. It's not like she was just talking with friends. She put it in a video to her thousands of subscribers. Also, I get that anti-circ people are proud of their decision, but the fact that her sons now have to deal with everyone knowing the state of their penises is so invasive of their privacy.

[Captain Smooth]

Jess casually telling the world what her ex boyfriends' penises looked like and which felt better was so gross. It's not like she was just talking with friends. She put it in a video to her thousands of subscribers. Also, I get that anti-circ people are proud of their decision, but the fact that her sons now have to deal with everyone knowing the state of their penises is so invasive of their privacy.

It's definitely invading privacy, I mean who cares whether someone is circumcised or not? I'm also surprised that she was willing to share something so personal of herself on the internet. I get that sex is something that you shouldn't be ashamed of talking, but honestly talking to a 1000 strangers about what and why it feels better is a bit too much.

[Captain Smooth]

But a little girl needs her mother (even tho Jess is kinda crazy) and I think Gabe understands that. People shouldn't compare Gabe and Drake that's just crazy Gabe never abandoned Lilia.


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According to Jessss he did all but abandon Lilia. She told the world that he paid no child support and he was more of an uncle figure that would see her occassionally as it was all Gabes family that used to take her. She bashed Gabe like this until Drake left, so it supposedly took 4 years for Gabe to step up and start being a father to Lilia.

This is going to be very unpopular now, but honestly, I believe her on that. I think it was really difficult for Gabe to suddenly be a father and take on all the responsibilities that come with that. Everybody would give Drake and Gabe a pass on that, because they were both way too young and had no real control over the whole scenario. With the childsupport I'm not surprised he didn't pay instantly, I mean he was no older than her, she had barely graduated high school and wasn't yet really able to get a job, but he was supposed to pay her a good amount of money every month? I mean, I don't know what she expected, just because he left her doesn't mean he earns enough money yet to pay childsupport. Gabe seemed to understand at some point that he wanted to be a father to his daughter (I doubt he stayed as long away as Jess said, but he probably didn't meet her criteria of a good Dad, since he left her).

Drake on the other hand...I don't know, he is the only person out of all of them, to have real trouble getting his life together in general, even without Jess meddling with his future. Gabe found his ground pretty fast for a then-20-year-old, even Chris has so far not repeated any of his freakish behaviours (knife) and at least makes an effort to be a Dad to all of his biological children. People might not be ok with the schedule, or the distance, but T&C are definitley not abandonned children. The only person getting called out by both his former wife/girlfirend was Drake and they both repeated the same accusations, cheating and abandonning the children. That's no coincidence, I really think he is no fan of carrying responsibitly for a long time.
Last Christmas when Kyson missed his Mom so bad, that he wanted to go home, that also says a lot about how much time they spend with their father. It's not like the twins are particular Mamas boys, they spent time away from her very often, being with grandma and Gigi (I think that's her name), but never had one of them such a strong reaction that Jess had to terminate plans to get them.

[wasteoftime]

It's speculation, we mostly just know what Jesss chooses to share in order to paint the picture she wants.

FWIW from a psychological and wellbeing POV it was better for the boys to go home after an overnight at Drakes and becoming upset. Overnights are hard on young children no matter how close they are to the non resident parent, and who knows what Jessss says and does in regards to Drake and how that might affect the twins. Drake being aware of their needs and getting them home is more conducive to building long term relationships and trust than forcing them to stay there. It still took Jesss 4 hours to get to her distressed child which is hardly reassuring for them. With the fights between Jesss and Drake the kids will feel that anxiety and tension, whereas Jesss controls mimi and her family and the boys lived by mimi so naturally the boys would feel more comfortable with her.

I don't see why it was ok for Gabe to take 4 years to get a grip. Isn't Drake just a year older than Gabe? Yet Gabe apparantly did nothing for those 4 years that Drake stepped in, stayed up with the kids at night, provided for and cared for lilia who called him dad, and didn't he do housework and worked? Drake had an unstable upbringing, but has a job and a home. He had a short seperation from his girlfriend but has continued to work, provide for them and evidently see's the boys (how much we don't know). The common problem in both these situations was Jessss who chose to use these men for their sperm and to play happily families when neither of them wanted it.

[wasteoftime]

For all we know Jesss only offers custody time with the boys when Drake is at work and he can't afford to not work as he doesn't have family to support him like Jessss and Gabe do. He has Nat but she's at work aswel and Jesss may not allow contact with just Nat. (OT but at least the twins had a bed at their house which is more than Jessss was providing for T&C for over a year)! Single parents work and take care of their kids, so i don't think it's ok these dads are excused just because they work. It's up to the dads to get childcare from schools, daycare, family etc just like it is up to a mom to do that when it's her custody time but we can't ignore the logistics of it all. Lilia might have a more rounded healthier life living with Gabe and maybe she will want to live there when she's older. She's doing her best to get all the attention on her in Jessss household that's for sure. If G&A manage to take care of Logan then they could do the same with Lilia so i don't think working is the reason in their situation. I can't see Jessss allowing 50/50 because she likes to be able to claim 7 kids in 7 years and drag them around town and get comments, and of course Lilia is such a good little mommy and helper Jessss probably needs/wants Lilia as her helper too!

[JustBeingCurious]

But a little girl needs her mother (even tho Jess is kinda crazy) and I think Gabe understands that. People shouldn't compare Gabe and Drake that's just crazy Gabe never abandoned Lilia.


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According to Jessss he did all but abandon Lilia. She told the world that he paid no child support and he was more of an uncle figure that would see her occassionally as it was all Gabes family that used to take her. She bashed Gabe like this until Drake left, so it supposedly took 4 years for Gabe to step up and start being a father to Lilia.

This is going to be very unpopular now, but honestly, I believe her on that. I think it was really difficult for Gabe to suddenly be a father and take on all the responsibilities that come with that. Everybody would give Drake and Gabe a pass on that, because they were both way too young and had no real control over the whole scenario. With the childsupport I'm not surprised he didn't pay instantly, I mean he was no older than her, she had barely graduated high school and wasn't yet really able to get a job, but he was supposed to pay her a good amount of money every month? I mean, I don't know what she expected, just because he left her doesn't mean he earns enough money yet to pay childsupport. Gabe seemed to understand at some point that he wanted to be a father to his daughter (I doubt he stayed as long away as Jess said, but he probably didn't meet her criteria of a good Dad, since he left her).

Drake on the other hand...I don't know, he is the only person out of all of them, to have real trouble getting his life together in general, even without Jess meddling with his future. Gabe found his ground pretty fast for a then-20-year-old, even Chris has so far not repeated any of his freakish behaviours (knife) and at least makes an effort to be a Dad to all of his biological children. People might not be ok with the schedule, or the distance, but T&C are definitley not abandonned children. The only person getting called out by both his former wife/girlfirend was Drake and they both repeated the same accusations, cheating and abandonning the children. That's no coincidence, I really think he is no fan of carrying responsibitly for a long time.
Last Christmas when Kyson missed his Mom so bad, that he wanted to go home, that also says a lot about how much time they spend with their father. It's not like the twins are particular Mamas boys, they spent time away from her very often, being with grandma and Gigi (I think that's her name), but never had one of them such a strong reaction that Jess had to terminate plans to get them.

Exactly, I agree.

[Britxo]

This is so random but does anyone else secretly hope Addie turns out to be just as obnoxious as Jessssss when she was a kid? Remember those Christmas video clips? *shrugs


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[gemmie]

This is so random but does anyone else secretly hope Addie turns out to be just as obnoxious as Jessssss when she was a kid? Remember those Christmas video clips? *shrugs


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Isn't Lilia just a miniature Jess though?


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[Britxo]

This is so random but does anyone else secretly hope Addie turns out to be just as obnoxious as Jessssss when she was a kid? Remember those Christmas video clips? *shrugs


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Isn't Lilia just a miniature Jess though?


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Oh yeah... you got me there ¯\_(ツ)_/¯


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[JayJayOkay]

Lord knows what custody would be like with Addie if Chris & Jess ever split. I bet Chris would reallllly give it to her in court.


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[blackroses]

Lord knows what custody would be like with Addie if Chris & Jess ever split. I bet Chris would reallllly give it to her in court.


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I'm waiting for his video just like Drake did

[babyfox]

But a little girl needs her mother (even tho Jess is kinda crazy) and I think Gabe understands that. People shouldn't compare Gabe and Drake that's just crazy Gabe never abandoned Lilia.


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According to Jessss he did all but abandon Lilia. She told the world that he paid no child support and he was more of an uncle figure that would see her occassionally as it was all Gabes family that used to take her. She bashed Gabe like this until Drake left, so it supposedly took 4 years for Gabe to step up and start being a father to Lilia.

This is going to be very unpopular now, but honestly, I believe her on that. I think it was really difficult for Gabe to suddenly be a father and take on all the responsibilities that come with that. Everybody would give Drake and Gabe a pass on that, because they were both way too young and had no real control over the whole scenario. With the childsupport I'm not surprised he didn't pay instantly, I mean he was no older than her, she had barely graduated high school and wasn't yet really able to get a job, but he was supposed to pay her a good amount of money every month? I mean, I don't know what she expected, just because he left her doesn't mean he earns enough money yet to pay childsupport. Gabe seemed to understand at some point that he wanted to be a father to his daughter (I doubt he stayed as long away as Jess said, but he probably didn't meet her criteria of a good Dad, since he left her).

Drake on the other hand...I don't know, he is the only person out of all of them, to have real trouble getting his life together in general, even without Jess meddling with his future. Gabe found his ground pretty fast for a then-20-year-old, even Chris has so far not repeated any of his freakish behaviours (knife) and at least makes an effort to be a Dad to all of his biological children. People might not be ok with the schedule, or the distance, but T&C are definitley not abandonned children. The only person getting called out by both his former wife/girlfirend was Drake and they both repeated the same accusations, cheating and abandonning the children. That's no coincidence, I really think he is no fan of carrying responsibitly for a long time.
Last Christmas when Kyson missed his Mom so bad, that he wanted to go home, that also says a lot about how much time they spend with their father. It's not like the twins are particular Mamas boys, they spent time away from her very often, being with grandma and Gigi (I think that's her name), but never had one of them such a strong reaction that Jess had to terminate plans to get them.

I agree with this. I know Jess has a track record of lying about various things so I understand why people are skeptical, but I think there may have been truth to what she was saying about Gabe at the time. I tried to find the original video where she talked about how Gabe rarely sees Lilia, but it actually looks like it has been deleted. I did find this video about Gabe's custody of Lilia from 2012: and she paints Gabe as a pretty good father there. Knowing Jess, she wouldn't have said positive things about his parenting if they weren't true. So, especially considering she deleted the original video, it is definitely possible that he wasn't seeing her as much as he should have been at first, but ended up turning things around.

I'm also confused as to why people here will praise Drake for seeing the boys like once every 6 weeks, but also say that Gabe, who consistently sees Lilia several times per week, isn't an involved enough father.

[cjl123]

For all we know Jesss only offers custody time with the boys when Drake is at work and he can't afford to not work as he doesn't have family to support him like Jessss and Gabe do. He has Nat but she's at work aswel and Jesss may not allow contact with just Nat. (OT but at least the twins had a bed at their house which is more than Jessss was providing for T&C for over a year)! Single parents work and take care of their kids, so i don't think it's ok these dads are excused just because they work. It's up to the dads to get childcare from schools, daycare, family etc just like it is up to a mom to do that when it's her custody time but we can't ignore the logistics of it all. Lilia might have a more rounded healthier life living with Gabe and maybe she will want to live there when she's older. She's doing her best to get all the attention on her in Jessss household that's for sure. If G&A manage to take care of Logan then they could do the same with Lilia so i don't think working is the reason in their situation. I can't see Jessss allowing 50/50 because she likes to be able to claim 7 kids in 7 years and drag them around town and get comments, and of course Lilia is such a good little mommy and helper Jessss probably needs/wants Lilia as her helper too!

I'm sure Jessica doesn't get to "offer" time on her on own schedule. That is determined by the courts. And if his time is scheduled during a work shift, he needs to pay for childcare or switch shifts like every other responsible parent. My sons dad works weekends and his visits are scheduled for weekends. What does he do? Pay a babysitter. lol simple. And my son has never once called me to come home and my son is a mamas boy.


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[Yue195]

I wonder if Chris and Jess get divorced if The Ex's will team up like a holy trinity... Maybe they will make a tag like Corey and Jeremy from TeenMom2 #BlissAfterJesss