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rulatows000 wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2020 10:22 am
Liz_444 wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2020 7:24 am
tebbyvines wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2020 5:24 am Has anyone seen Shari's Instagram comments? Her comment about her parents is the biggest lie I've ever seen!

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What was it?
I think it was this one. In response to someone saying that Ruby is a psycho and that they called cps on them, Shari responded, "maybe you haven’t seen... *cps* showed up and found absolutely nothing wrong. They commended my parents for excellent parenting and wished more people parented the same way. There’s a great article in @8passengers bio if you haven’t seen it:) it’s past time to put these stupid rumors and allegations to bed and rather spread truth. They’ve caused more harm than good." I know that cps didn't find enough evidence to continue, but I highly, highly doubt they commended her parents on their 'excellent' parenting, when the kids are sleeping on mattresses/beanbags on the floor, have no bookcases, no bathroom doors, are living in basements that are prone to flooding, etc. Also, I don't get why they're so proud of that article in business insider, when I thought all it showed was that they're huge liars and none of the stories they told match up. Seems likes Shari's been trained on how to respond to critics like these and to direct them to the article.
She's unbelievable, she needs to stay out of it and stop acting like she's such a mature adult and everyone criticizing her family is a child. She is a child, and she cannot judge her situation logically because she is in the middle of it. I've said it before but yeah, congrats guys, you don't openly starve and beat your children and live in a meth house so CPS couldn't do anything. That means nothing about your parenting being good. And that article seemed to be trying to paint them in a good light, but include any quotes from Ruby and Kevin and they sabotage themselves through their blatant lies and gross arrogance.

It's funny to me as well that Shari said something about laptops and college... I absolutely needed one for homework and essays, but I had one MAYBE two classes that allowed us to actually use one in class (and I didn't anyway). Once again she doesn't know what she's talking about but acts like she knows all. Obviously all schools and classes are different!
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rulatows000 wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2020 10:22 am Also, I don't get why they're so proud of that article in business insider, when I thought all it showed was that they're huge liars and none of the stories they told match up. Seems likes Shari's been trained on how to respond to critics like these and to direct them to the article.
Pretty much everything in that article that Ruby said in response to the situation with Eve's lunch was 100% lies and contradicted what she said in the original video. I don't know why she hasn't been called out more for that, or maybe she would have been if she didn't block comments on everything.
imoverit wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2020 1:15 pm It's funny to me as well that Shari said something about laptops and college... I absolutely needed one for homework and essays, but I had one MAYBE two classes that allowed us to actually use one in class (and I didn't anyway). Once again she doesn't know what she's talking about but acts like she knows all. Obviously all schools and classes are different!
I'm guessing this depends a lot on the culture of the college. Where I went most all classes allowed laptops (except during exams) and the professors that didn't allow them were the crazy ones everyone dropped after syllabus day.
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Shouldn't Shari go to high school for another year?

If my memory is correct, she was 12 when she got her first laptop and in the meantime she has already broke 4 to 5. That's about a laptop a year. This laptop that she now has will therefore almost have to be replaced when she goes to university. Shari's laptop past is not one of care and caution. Kevin should have waited a year before buying a laptop for college.

Shari was always the only one who had a laptop, so personally I suspect that this more expensive laptop was only given because all other children needed a laptop because of corona. As a result, her laptop would have been older and she wouldn't be the only one anymore.
I always found it strange that Chad was not allowed to have a mobile at the age of 12 for the reason that the "responsibility" for Shari was already too much. Shari messed up with the mobile when she was 12, but Chad was also punished for it. He only got a mobile much later. Shari is number 1 in evrything for het parents and she is entitled to the better stuff in advance. I would not be surprised if, for example, if one of the other children bought an even more expensive laptop from their own money, Shari would get a new one that is even more expensive. Purely because no one in that house should have more or better than Shari. Pretty unhealty in my eyes.
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imoverit wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2020 1:15 pm
rulatows000 wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2020 10:22 am
Liz_444 wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2020 7:24 am

What was it?
I think it was this one. In response to someone saying that Ruby is a psycho and that they called cps on them, Shari responded, "maybe you haven’t seen... *cps* showed up and found absolutely nothing wrong. They commended my parents for excellent parenting and wished more people parented the same way. There’s a great article in @8passengers bio if you haven’t seen it:) it’s past time to put these stupid rumors and allegations to bed and rather spread truth. They’ve caused more harm than good." I know that cps didn't find enough evidence to continue, but I highly, highly doubt they commended her parents on their 'excellent' parenting, when the kids are sleeping on mattresses/beanbags on the floor, have no bookcases, no bathroom doors, are living in basements that are prone to flooding, etc. Also, I don't get why they're so proud of that article in business insider, when I thought all it showed was that they're huge liars and none of the stories they told match up. Seems likes Shari's been trained on how to respond to critics like these and to direct them to the article.
She's unbelievable, she needs to stay out of it and stop acting like she's such a mature adult and everyone criticizing her family is a child. She is a child, and she cannot judge her situation logically because she is in the middle of it. I've said it before but yeah, congrats guys, you don't openly starve and beat your children and live in a meth house so CPS couldn't do anything. That means nothing about your parenting being good. And that article seemed to be trying to paint them in a good light, but include any quotes from Ruby and Kevin and they sabotage themselves through their blatant lies and gross arrogance.

It's funny to me as well that Shari said something about laptops and college... I absolutely needed one for homework and essays, but I had one MAYBE two classes that allowed us to actually use one in class (and I didn't anyway). Once again she doesn't know what she's talking about but acts like she knows all. Obviously all schools and classes are different!
I don't follow them closely enough to have seen where Shari is going to school but I have family members connected to a university near them and the fall semester at that school, at least, is all going to be online/distance learning, so that may be the case for Shari's as well.
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nesland300 wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2020 1:27 pm
I'm guessing this depends a lot on the culture of the college. Where I went most all classes allowed laptops (except during exams) and the professors that didn't allow them were the crazy ones everyone dropped after syllabus day.
Yes I don't mean to generalize, some of my friends at other schools used laptops in class and some did not, like me. We all went to recognizable-name schools, so you can't assume a school will be one way or the other before you go to it (or ask a current/recent student). That's funny that they were the crazy ones, we were all so used to no laptops that hearing someone typing in a class would bother everyone else haha! Either way, Shari is going to get some big shocks when she goes to college and this could be one of many if she's making assumptions.
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jle0906 wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2020 2:16 pm
imoverit wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2020 1:15 pm
rulatows000 wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2020 10:22 am

I think it was this one. In response to someone saying that Ruby is a psycho and that they called cps on them, Shari responded, "maybe you haven’t seen... *cps* showed up and found absolutely nothing wrong. They commended my parents for excellent parenting and wished more people parented the same way. There’s a great article in @8passengers bio if you haven’t seen it:) it’s past time to put these stupid rumors and allegations to bed and rather spread truth. They’ve caused more harm than good." I know that cps didn't find enough evidence to continue, but I highly, highly doubt they commended her parents on their 'excellent' parenting, when the kids are sleeping on mattresses/beanbags on the floor, have no bookcases, no bathroom doors, are living in basements that are prone to flooding, etc. Also, I don't get why they're so proud of that article in business insider, when I thought all it showed was that they're huge liars and none of the stories they told match up. Seems likes Shari's been trained on how to respond to critics like these and to direct them to the article.
She's unbelievable, she needs to stay out of it and stop acting like she's such a mature adult and everyone criticizing her family is a child. She is a child, and she cannot judge her situation logically because she is in the middle of it. I've said it before but yeah, congrats guys, you don't openly starve and beat your children and live in a meth house so CPS couldn't do anything. That means nothing about your parenting being good. And that article seemed to be trying to paint them in a good light, but include any quotes from Ruby and Kevin and they sabotage themselves through their blatant lies and gross arrogance.

It's funny to me as well that Shari said something about laptops and college... I absolutely needed one for homework and essays, but I had one MAYBE two classes that allowed us to actually use one in class (and I didn't anyway). Once again she doesn't know what she's talking about but acts like she knows all. Obviously all schools and classes are different!
I don't follow them closely enough to have seen where Shari is going to school but I have family members connected to a university near them and the fall semester at that school, at least, is all going to be online/distance learning, so that may be the case for Shari's as well.
Shari is going to be a senior in high school this year. She plans on going to BYU when she graduates. Her dad is a professor there.
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ba1006 wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2020 4:41 pm
jle0906 wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2020 2:16 pm
imoverit wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2020 1:15 pm

She's unbelievable, she needs to stay out of it and stop acting like she's such a mature adult and everyone criticizing her family is a child. She is a child, and she cannot judge her situation logically because she is in the middle of it. I've said it before but yeah, congrats guys, you don't openly starve and beat your children and live in a meth house so CPS couldn't do anything. That means nothing about your parenting being good. And that article seemed to be trying to paint them in a good light, but include any quotes from Ruby and Kevin and they sabotage themselves through their blatant lies and gross arrogance.

It's funny to me as well that Shari said something about laptops and college... I absolutely needed one for homework and essays, but I had one MAYBE two classes that allowed us to actually use one in class (and I didn't anyway). Once again she doesn't know what she's talking about but acts like she knows all. Obviously all schools and classes are different!
I don't follow them closely enough to have seen where Shari is going to school but I have family members connected to a university near them and the fall semester at that school, at least, is all going to be online/distance learning, so that may be the case for Shari's as well.
Shari is going to be a senior in high school this year. She plans on going to BYU when she graduates. Her dad is a professor there.
Gotcha! For some reason I thought she was a senior last school year.
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I literally cannot deal with Shari anymore. She makes fun of the cake on Instagram and makes Chad feel bad and yet she's the one who "fixed" the cake.

From the start she was determined to get involved, if the cake had worked out well she would have claimed it was because she frosted the most important layer or something stupid.

At least Ruby tried to give Chad a chance and asked him if he wanted to try and fix it after her domineering eldest took it upon herself to take over.
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ILoveLondon wrote: Tue Jul 28, 2020 5:30 am I literally cannot deal with Shari anymore. She makes fun of the cake on Instagram and makes Chad feel bad and yet she's the one who "fixed" the cake.

From the start she was determined to get involved, if the cake had worked out well she would have claimed it was because she frosted the most important layer or something stupid.

At least Ruby tried to give Chad a chance and asked him if he wanted to try and fix it after her domineering eldest took it upon herself to take over.
Posted before the end of the video - Ruby then gives Shari all the credit what the heck??
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Didn't their van used to advertise 8Passengers? Wonder why it was removed.

I saw that one coming with Shari. You could see her expression and thinking, "I can do better," and she eventually expressed it, "I've done more cakes." She's done so many more cakes than Chad, maybe she would have realized by now, when you are carving a cake, it is best to freeze the layers so you can carve it easier, and when you put the icing on, you first do a "Crumb" layer and then the top layer. This is basic stuff Miss Know It All can learn from 1 minute of watching a YT video. She is unbelievable. Probably why she has no friends (that we ever see), she is a fair weather friend/person. If all is well, Shari is on board, but when things are down, Shari is not around. She is soon to be a young adult, the sooner she learns she is not the knows it all and is all, she will get along alot better with others.
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Happy+Charlie wrote: Tue Jul 28, 2020 5:42 am Didn't their van used to advertise 8Passengers? Wonder why it was removed.
I'm sure they received threats when everything blew up.
Happy+Charlie wrote: Tue Jul 28, 2020 5:42 am Probably why she has no friends (that we ever see), she is a fair weather friend/person. If all is well, Shari is on board, but when things are down, Shari is not around. She is soon to be a young adult, the sooner she learns she is not the knows it all and is all, she will get along alot better with others.
This got me thinking, how many times has Shari had a boyfriend that quietly disappeared and wasn't mentioned again (presumably because she can't hold onto them)? I can just see her treating them like trash and then talking to Ruby afterwards about how all the "jerk" boys don't like her.
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Happy+Charlie wrote: Tue Jul 28, 2020 5:42 am Didn't their van used to advertise 8Passengers? Wonder why it was removed.

I saw that one coming with Shari. You could see her expression and thinking, "I can do better," and she eventually expressed it, "I've done more cakes." She's done so many more cakes than Chad, maybe she would have realized by now, when you are carving a cake, it is best to freeze the layers so you can carve it easier, and when you put the icing on, you first do a "Crumb" layer and then the top layer. This is basic stuff Miss Know It All can learn from 1 minute of watching a YT video. She is unbelievable. Probably why she has no friends (that we ever see), she is a fair weather friend/person. If all is well, Shari is on board, but when things are down, Shari is not around. She is soon to be a young adult, the sooner she learns she is not the knows it all and is all, she will get along alot better with others.
I've made a lot of cakes and failed at the icing part, what you say here actually makes a lot of sense and hopefully will help me next time lol!

I actually thought baking the cake looked like a great success, icing it and making it look nice was the hard part for them. But like the kids made a good cake and still got made fun of by Mom 1 and Mom 2 for it, that's not a good way to encourage your kids to try things. So Shari literally made the final product what it ended up looking like, and yet she and Ruby were still ripping into CHAD for it on instagram?? It looked fine she did a fine job all things considered, but no they had to say Chad made it ugly.
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I think the hair color for her highlights is all wrong for her. Shari now looks like a 40 year old housewife.
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imoverit wrote: Tue Jul 28, 2020 7:31 am
Happy+Charlie wrote: Tue Jul 28, 2020 5:42 am Didn't their van used to advertise 8Passengers? Wonder why it was removed.

I saw that one coming with Shari. You could see her expression and thinking, "I can do better," and she eventually expressed it, "I've done more cakes." She's done so many more cakes than Chad, maybe she would have realized by now, when you are carving a cake, it is best to freeze the layers so you can carve it easier, and when you put the icing on, you first do a "Crumb" layer and then the top layer. This is basic stuff Miss Know It All can learn from 1 minute of watching a YT video. She is unbelievable. Probably why she has no friends (that we ever see), she is a fair weather friend/person. If all is well, Shari is on board, but when things are down, Shari is not around. She is soon to be a young adult, the sooner she learns she is not the knows it all and is all, she will get along alot better with others.
I've made a lot of cakes and failed at the icing part, what you say here actually makes a lot of sense and hopefully will help me next time lol!

I actually thought baking the cake looked like a great success, icing it and making it look nice was the hard part for them. But like the kids made a good cake and still got made fun of by Mom 1 and Mom 2 for it, that's not a good way to encourage your kids to try things. So Shari literally made the final product what it ended up looking like, and yet she and Ruby were still ripping into CHAD for it on instagram?? It looked fine she did a fine job all things considered, but no they had to say Chad made it ugly.
Good luck! Once you cut the outer layer off of the cake, it is especially hard to put icing on without the crumbs mixing in to the icing, you have to do a crumb layer, stick it in the freezer again, then you can have success with putting the top layer on without having the crumbs mixed in. Also, box cake mix is more difficult anyway because they come out so fluffy (the correct term is escaping me at the moment). If you want a cake that will be easier to shape, icing, and stand up to being worked on, find a recipe that has sour cream in it. I think I've used one that you add sour cream and instant pudding and more oil to. It comes out so moist, but not as fluffy as a box mix. You can also add ingredients to a box mix that give the same results.
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Omg I don’t watch these guys much anymore but I just saw one of Shari’s Instagram posts. Not a fan of her blonde hair, but my goodness, Julie is beautiful! I’ve always thought she was pretty but wow she is really growing into her own skin. She looks great! I’m sure Shari is jealous. And maybe that’s even why she tried to go blonde?


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Catface2 wrote: Tue Jul 28, 2020 7:37 am I think the hair color for her highlights is all wrong for her. Shari now looks like a 40 year old housewife.
To me it makes her look like she's going grey. Of course since she acts like a second mother, maybe looking older is what she's going for.
If I can say one positive thing about Shari though, it's that I really like what she's done with her bedroom wall. If I owned my place I would probably do a wall like that in a bedroom or bathroom or something.
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Wow, I'm even more pissed about the cake incident after watching this vlog. So basically, Shari is the one who ruined the cake when decorating it, but then her and Ruby are making fun of Chad? But then somehow Shari gets credit for doing a good job and Chad gets made fun of? Makes no sense at all. Chad is the one who did the really hard part of structuring the cake and then he was kind enough to let Shari decorate it and somehow it turns into him getting made fun of on social media for the cake that Shari decorated. What the heck?

Ugh, and Shari really just needs back off and let her siblings do their thing without trying to take control constantly. The entire time she's just hovering over Chad and going on and on about how she has made more cakes and she wants to do this and blah, blah, blah. Seriously, she's almost 18 and she acts like she's 5. Like a little toddler, she wants to take away and butt into whatever her siblings are trying to enjoy. Her younger brother wants to make and decorate his first cake? Shari has to crowd him in the kitchen and bug him until he lets her finish it. Julie wants to show off her rubix cube skills? Shari has to call her a cheater. Ruby buys clothes for all the girls to pick out? Shari tramples her younger sisters to snatch the stuff she wants. She pretends to be so mature but really she just acts like an annoying little sister that doesn't have any hobbies or friends of her own so she just wants to be into whatever her siblings are into.
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Can somebody post the picture from instagram?
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131618 wrote: Tue Jul 28, 2020 12:25 pm
mikaydean wrote:Can somebody post the picture from instagram?
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