Brittani Boren Leach: Part Three

[Frootloops3]

I was going through her Instagram comments, and she replied to someone saying something like (not verbatim),“I definitely don’t read gossip sites, I don’t have time for that.”

She probably does though, because of how she always wants to address the hate.

[honestT]

It will all unravel sooner or later. It’s classic deflection when someone feels guilt. It’s easier to accuse, in this case, the folks commenting on their pictures, to make the accused feel bad about it and try to make the accusers second guess the guilty one.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

It makes sense. She may not even realize she's doing it. In her subconscious even, focusing on the haters is a way for her to think about the things she really doesn't want to think about that are far worse than people on the internet. Her mind would much rather spend all day stewing thinking about how people are criticizing the way she's grieving than think about far worse things like the fact that her son is never coming back or that she caused his death if that's case.

[fingusername]

I was going through her Instagram comments, and she replied to someone saying something like (not verbatim),“I definitely don’t read gossip sites, I don’t have time for that.”

She probably does though, because of how she always wants to address the hate.

She reads every single word on this forum.

[kabuki]

The more time passes since his death the more strange this whole situation is becoming. I’m not understanding how her IG followers keep increasing either... steadily making her way to 1M.

[Onchao16]

Was looking for something on her IG and noticed she deleted all comments off the bathroom photo. Also took the word Nordstrom out.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

[Courtneyshayne]

Was looking for something on her IG and noticed she deleted all comments off the bathroom photo. Also took the word Nordstrom out.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Wow. Yah good call taking Nordstrom out you fing dingbat. Should have never been written to begin with. Probably has a PR person editing for her now. Sickening.

[vonniebeth]

Was looking for something on her IG and noticed she deleted all comments off the bathroom photo. Also took the word Nordstrom out.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

She also took comments off the one where she's laying in the bed with Crew, but still left her shoutouts to Kari Jobe and Hillary Scott. I don't get her.

[Myfirsttimeout]

Was looking for something on her IG and noticed she deleted all comments off the bathroom photo. Also took the word Nordstrom out.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Honestly i think that proves our point.

[MyNameIsHope34]

From the Daily Mail website:

"YouTube star Brittani Boren Leach and her husband Jeff say the grieving over the loss of their son Crew was made worse by critics.
Critics online blasted the couple for posting pictures of the three-month-old infant's final days before donating his organs.
Leach began her posts when she announced on Instagram how Crew stopped breathing on Christmas day, was later resuscitated, but ended up brain dead.
Leach said the negative remarks that followed her decision to post images of Crew did not matter. 'However, they have made it more difficult for me to grieve'.
She made her remarks in a YouTube video she posted on her channel Sunday, which could not be commented on by viewers to spare her more grief."

WAIMENT. Hold the fuck up. So...the opinions of STRANGERS, given in response to things YOU posted....have made it "DIFFICULT" for you to grieve the death of YOUR CHILD.

WHAT. THE. HELL. IS. WRONG. WITH. THIS. BITCH??

She's money hungry.Ugh...

[Missmaggie]

At 27:26 in the "Hardest Video ....."
She says that noting about the whole situation has made her more upset than the Go Fund Me accusations. Am I not hearing that clearly or does she really mean that the few comments from people questioning the GFM intentions are more upsetting than anything? ANYTHING? What about Crew?!??!

I hope I'm misinterpreting that!

27:26

Ed'd to add: she does clarify after that obviously she'd give everything and anything to have Crew back. IMHO she needs to get OFF social media, find a support group, and start processing and hopefully begin healing...

[Deesker]

At 27:26 in the "Hardest Video ....."
She says that noting about the whole situation has made her more upset than the Go Fund Me accusations. Am I not hearing that clearly or does she really mean that the few comments from people questioning the GFM intentions are more upsetting than anything? ANYTHING? What about Crew?!??!

I hope I'm misinterpreting that!

27:26

Ed'd to add: she does clarify after that obviously she'd give everything and anything to have Crew back. IMHO she needs to get OFF social media, find a support group, and start processing and hopefully begin healing...

Do you honestly think this idiot will get off of social media? 2 weeks after her baby died, she was back on again and now full force. She's addicted to the attention. Her marriage will never last. She looks like high maintenance anyway.

[Momma2three]

She won’t take a break from social media. Even to this day she’s taking proceeds from items people are selling. Bracelets, seriously? When will it end? Lil Crew gave the ultimate gift to others so that they may live, his life ended....to me, it seems his moms is just getting started. The way she’s “grieving” is unlike anything I’ve ever seen.

Personally, I don’t know how she sleeps at night knowing she’s continuing to accept money from strangers. Greed is a powerful thing. It’s shameful.

[PhreePanda]

She won’t take a break from social media. Even to this day she’s taking proceeds from items people are selling. Bracelets, seriously? When will it end? Lil Crew gave the ultimate gift to others so that they may live, his life ended....to me, it seems his moms is just getting started. The way she’s “grieving” is unlike anything I’ve ever seen.

Personally, I don’t know how she sleeps at night knowing she’s continuing to accept money from strangers. Greed is a powerful thing. It’s shameful.

I guess she sleeps fine knowing she will wake up to the Starbucks Jeff brings her paid for by her faithful followers. Egh. Those post are so cringe.

[Chambermaid69]

I think the worst part about it is how much denial she’s in. Not denial that he died because we all know she’s already accepted that since he stopped breathing on Christmas but I mean denial in the fact that she’s acting ludicrous. What kind of mom does what Brittani has done? One that’s greedy, shallow, and detached. She pretty much thought oh well my baby is gone I may as well make the best of it let’s see how much attention and validation and financial gain I can get from sharing his story. What makes her so special? Nothing. She’s boring, she only had 90k subs on YT and 30-50k followers on Instagram before this happened. Now she’s at 200k on YT and 925k on Instagram almost. She’s $122k richer, she has gift cards for grub hub, Starbucks, and HEB and Target I’m sure. She’s gotten free merch, and other gifts we haven’t even seen yet. Who knows how much she’s gained from losing her son. It’s sad when Jeff looks so torn up and she’s just mad at the haters. Shows where her intentions are. She only cares about herself. She didn’t even mention of the other boys and Sydney were ok. She is totally disregarding Jeff’s emotions and grief and only focusing on what SHE went through. The entire family went through this, not just her. Idk how much validation she will need but lord she’s gonna lose her marriage over it. She’s something else.

[law1117]

From the Daily Mail website:

"YouTube star Brittani Boren Leach and her husband Jeff say the grieving over the loss of their son Crew was made worse by critics.
Critics online blasted the couple for posting pictures of the three-month-old infant's final days before donating his organs.
Leach began her posts when she announced on Instagram how Crew stopped breathing on Christmas day, was later resuscitated, but ended up brain dead.
Leach said the negative remarks that followed her decision to post images of Crew did not matter. 'However, they have made it more difficult for me to grieve'.
She made her remarks in a YouTube video she posted on her channel Sunday, which could not be commented on by viewers to spare her more grief."

WAIMENT. Hold the fuck up. So...the opinions of STRANGERS, given in response to things YOU posted....have made it "DIFFICULT" for you to grieve the death of YOUR CHILD.

WHAT. THE. HELL. IS. WRONG. WITH. THIS. BITCH??

She's money hungry.Ugh...

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

[Connell1992]

I was looking thru Amber Smith’s IG last night ... she never addresses haters, just keeps the focus on her son and promoting drowning awareness . What a stark difference


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

[honestT]

I was looking thru Amber Smith’s IG last night ... she never addresses haters, just keeps the focus on her son and promoting drowning awareness . What a stark difference


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

It is! It would have been one thing to have ONE post saying "respect our privacy and be considerate with your comments" and then turn off commenting or make account private if needed. But the majority of her many, many posts have been about the haters or defending herself in some way. And it's likely because of the monster of guilt she's hiding over this secret of what happened to Crew.

[Ima]

I think the worst part about it is how much denial she’s in. Not denial that he died because we all know she’s already accepted that since he stopped breathing on Christmas but I mean denial in the fact that she’s acting ludicrous. What kind of mom does what Brittani has done? One that’s greedy, shallow, and detached. She pretty much thought oh well my baby is gone I may as well make the best of it let’s see how much attention and validation and financial gain I can get from sharing his story. What makes her so special? Nothing. She’s boring, she only had 90k subs on YT and 30-50k followers on Instagram before this happened. Now she’s at 200k on YT and 925k on Instagram almost. She’s $122k richer, she has gift cards for grub hub, Starbucks, and HEB and Target I’m sure. She’s gotten free merch, and other gifts we haven’t even seen yet. Who knows how much she’s gained from losing her son. It’s sad when Jeff looks so torn up and she’s just mad at the haters. Shows where her intentions are. She only cares about herself. She didn’t even mention of the other boys and Sydney were ok. She is totally disregarding Jeff’s emotions and grief and only focusing on what SHE went through. The entire family went through this, not just her. Idk how much validation she will need but lord she’s gonna lose her marriage over it. She’s something else.

I saw and heard the same, what about the grandparents, the other children? Not one word about the other children and the impact this has on the entire family.
I have a few thoughts (theories) about all of it now that I have viewed the recent video. I feel like Jeff was sitting there thinking, just be honest and open up to your viewers, knowing she is never going to be fully honest. The lack of him touching her, or her him, tells me there is a deep rift right now. So many possible reasons, as to why. And I know there is a specific thread for that. I do think they better repair whatever disagreement there is. Research tells us 80% of marriages fail after the death of a child.
As someone else said, you do not want the attention, turn your social media off! SMH What a mess, such a mess.

[SouthernBella]

The fact that she said at one point "Why did this have to happen on Christmas?" really irked me. Like she is making it about herself. Like poor Britney, now her Christmas is always going to suck. I mean would she rather it have happened on another day? Like I dunno, I found it to be a strange comment. Saying she can't understand why it happens at all is one thing, but she seems so bugged it happened on Christmas specifically. Like bitch, please.

Does anyone else wonder the reason why the baby died? I keep thinking back to that video of her older kid spilling freaking powdered sugar candy all over that baby's head and her laughing about it. He could have breathed that In and aspirated. Why aren't they discussing cause of death?

[kmarie]

The fact that she said at one point "Why did this have to happen on Christmas?" really irked me. Like she is making it about herself. Like poor Britney, now her Christmas is always going to suck. I mean would she rather it have happened on another day? Like I dunno, I found it to be a strange comment. Saying she can't understand why it happens at all is one thing, but she seems so bugged it happened on Christmas specifically. Like bitch, please.

I get what you’re saying but Christmas is going to be tough for her entire family, her kids, etc... I think she may have been speaking about more than just herself. I have several friends who lost family members on this past Christmas Day, and that memory will be with them every Christmas, Christmas will never just be Christmas again for them, it will always have a sad cloud hanging above it.