Jesssfam: Extreme Makeover (Modesto Edition) Part 89

[Mamafirst]

No one said that it was the same, though. Some of you really have poor reading comprehension. All they said was that they thought Ashley stated that she was "trying to keep the boys off of all social media". Her instagram and her boyfriend's twitter fall under social media no matter the follower count.

Yeah and it's probably safe to assume Ashley asked to keep them off all social media to be fair. If Chris and Jess couldn't post them, she wouldn't either, that's not unusual to do. After the courts shot that down was Ashley supposed to never post about her kids again to prove she had a problem with Jess posting about them?
I see no reading comprehension issue. Someone said Ashley clearly doesn't care about social media cuz she posts them herself. No, I think she cared a lot, especially in the beginning mainly because of Jess' following which is not comparable to her own. Jess posting them and Ashley posting them are way different, that was the point. I bet if Ashley's request was granted, she'd honor it and not post them either. At the very least she's keeping most of her stuff private, so that's something.


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[LilaLavender]

EDIT: It was Logan's birthday today, and he had a seemingly quite elaborate and fun birthday party with go-carts and bumper cars, and Lilia was there. So Lilia can come back from the camping trip to go to her step-brother's birthday but Landen can't go to his half-sister's birthday? :/

[MRES83]

EDIT: It was Logan's birthday today, and he had a seemingly quite elaborate and fun birthday party with go-carts and bumper cars, and Lilia was there. So Lilia can come back from the camping trip to go to her step-brother's birthday but Landen can't go to his half-sister's birthday? :/

[blackroses]

EDIT: It was Logan's birthday today, and he had a seemingly quite elaborate and fun birthday party with go-carts and bumper cars, and Lilia was there. So Lilia can come back from the camping trip to go to her step-brother's birthday but Landen can't go to his half-sister's birthday? :/

That's upsetting, but you know someone's gonna jump down and say that Drake probably didn't want him there.

[smom12]

Can anyone point me in the direction of the screenshots thread please?


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http://ytmommadrama.com/viewtopic.php?f=181&t=8524

Here you go!

Omg. I love you for this. My morning is tied up now.

ETA: reading all this reinforces my belief that people should have maturity and stupidity tests before conceiving. Omg so much cuteness immaturity.


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[smom12]

Cuteness?? Go home phone you're drunk.


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[cjl123]

EDIT: It was Logan's birthday today, and he had a seemingly quite elaborate and fun birthday party with go-carts and bumper cars, and Lilia was there. So Lilia can come back from the camping trip to go to her step-brother's birthday but Landen can't go to his half-sister's birthday? :/

Do you really think Landen would have gone to Drakes house without his brothers? Lol please. He hardly knows Drake. Which is completely Drakes fault because he sees them for a max 8 hours a month or something stupid like that. I'm sure he would have been crying to stay with Mimi and according to most people here once a child cries to go home then the custodial parent has to take them home.


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[Aboogabooga]

EDIT: It was Logan's birthday today, and he had a seemingly quite elaborate and fun birthday party with go-carts and bumper cars, and Lilia was there. So Lilia can come back from the camping trip to go to her step-brother's birthday but Landen can't go to his half-sister's birthday? :/

Lol yea when it's spelled out like that that is pretty shitty. I'm assuming it wasn't his weekend with them so it was up to jess discretion and we all know how that probably went (pot meet kettle?). If that's the case then I can see why she took them to Legoland this weekend, since next weekend they'll be with him. But landen didn't even go so I don't see why he couldn't have gone to the party. Maybe it was because Mimi took them camping and she couldn't just drop him off and pick him up because they were far away or something like that. But Then he could've just stayed the weekend with his dad for once, but then again I doubt landen had that kind of relationship with him where he would feel comfortable enough to do so.


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[courtney_benjamin]

As for the Ashley situation I don't know how it works there but here the knife incident would not slide...so maybe there's more to the story then we know? No defending Chris but I find it weird after that he doesn't have supervised or that he has visits at all.

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[LilaLavender]

EDIT: It was Logan's birthday today, and he had a seemingly quite elaborate and fun birthday party with go-carts and bumper cars, and Lilia was there. So Lilia can come back from the camping trip to go to her step-brother's birthday but Landen can't go to his half-sister's birthday? :/

Do you really think Landen would have gone to Drakes house without his brothers? Lol please. He hardly knows Drake. Which is completely Drakes fault because he sees them for a max 8 hours a month or something stupid like that. I'm sure he would have been crying to stay with Mimi and according to most people here once a child cries to go home then the custodial parent has to take them home.

I think Landen will logically sometimes be in a situation where he can visit his father's house when, for whatever reason, (one of) his brothers cannot go. Going regardless of that is a simple step in improving his relationship with Drake. We can only judge based on pictures and stories but I feel he doesn't mind Drake that much, and would sure love to see Airabella and be at a birthday party.

It's important to not get stuck in a circle of "Boys do not visit Drake because they have a bad relationship with him" x "Boys have a bad relationship with Drake because they don't visit him".

[whattheactual]

I thought Jess was at Logan's party, she posted a pic with him on snapchat, so maybe they came home before it? It looks like in her ine snap on the go carts, gabe js 2 behind her.

[D33f]

What's Ashley's twitter ?


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[Captain Smooth]

I wouldn't put too much thought into Jess' comment. So far it seemed like the schedule for T&C worked out ok (2ish years). If it doesn't for once, it's not so problematic, unless it happens frequently, I don't see a pattern yet. I hope Jess is just overdramatizing. I'd be surprised if there is something going on between Chris and Jess and that's the reason T&C are not allowed over, because she has a schedule of filming every other day except the weekends, which doesn't make it so easy to hide stuff anymore. My guess is, if there is something off, it's between Chris and Ashley.

[notapnutmommy]

I thought Jess was at Logan's party, she posted a pic with him on snapchat, so maybe they came home before it? It looks like in her ine snap on the go carts, gabe js 2 behind her.

She also posted a photo of herself and Logan on Snapchat, so I do think she went.


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[Ripley]

Still a couple pages back. I wanted to comment on the Disney thing about Ashley "not allowing " T and C to go to Disney. That is not the case. All she said was they (Ashley and boys) had a season pass to Disney. She said not going would not affect them as they went frequently. It is not like someone who lives somewhere far from California, where Disney would be a huge deal, big family trip etc... Maybe the kids did not want to go. Maybe they had another activity planned. Point is, she did not say they could not go. She did not encourage them to go because they went many times a year and Disney Land is not a huge deal to them

[smom12]

Reading that screenshot thread... omg. Her life is a fucking shut show.


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[Mel1011]

Finally finished her stupid bad doctor experience vlog. What is her reason for delayed vaccination exactly? It's the trendy hip thing to do? I don't blame the doctor for rolling her eyes at her. Wasn't there a pertussis epidemic going on in California recently.. because that could be fatal for babies.

[wasteoftime]

Some parents and doctors delay vax because antibodies are transmitted through pregnancy and breastmilk for some of the diseases and some like TB or Hep B wouldn't be a possibility. Another reason is because vaccines don't go into the body in the normal manner and so the body doesn't process them like it usually would, and a human body wouldn't normally be exposed to multiple diseases at the exact same time, and for some this really overstimulates the wrong part of the immune system and can causes reactions from toxin and allergen based conditions to seizures and worse. As it's not a normal immune response, it's a reaction to artificial delivery, there's no way of knowing how the individual will react. Humans have an underdeveloped immune system until approx 7 years old, but particularly so for the first 2 years. There's no guaranteed immunity either hence multiple deliveries to cover the population. If you have allergies and/or vax reactions in the family then it could be wise to space them out to not overload them, and see how they handle each vaccine individually. I don't know if jessss immunity and but at least the baby is exclusively breastfed. I'm not sure that Jesss knows anything about vaccines though. For someone so supportive of "cast it not casket" she sure turned her kids around quickly once she had more than she could handle and given her unhealthy lifestyle i don't think the health of her children is at the heart of her choices.

[Midia]

Reading that screenshot thread... omg. Her life is a fucking shut show.


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Damn, I just finished reading this screenshot thread, what a fucking mess!!! I would be so depressed if 10% of this was my life, how can someone so "young" (I think she only 4 months younger than me or something like that) managed to create so much crap in her and other people's life I am so happy with my much more boring life... when I watch her I feel like I deserve a trophy for being as old as her without managing to get pregnant even once (I thanks my pills for that ) OMFG...

I haven't posted a comment yet about C&J going to legoland (or Dysney? Didn't watch the video) without seeing C&T on the way. 2 possibilies for me:
1 -J&C didn't even think to ask Ashley if they could see C&T:
option A because Chris is a crappy dad (which is possible)
option B Ashley and Chris don't have a great relationship and it was not his time with the boys and he prefered not to ask (which is possible but in his place I would have tried even just to see my children for 2 min)
2- they asked and Ashley refused
Option A Ashley may have planned something already with the boys and a meeting was not possible (it sucks but it happens)
Option B Ashley just say no even if a meeting was possible because she doesn't want to see Chris or Jess which would be kind of selfish of her but at the same time understandable, if that was what happens, well it's not really C&J's fault.
Option C Ashley just say no even if a meeting was possible to avoid her children appearing in a new vlog which I would find very understandabl, if I were Ashley, I wouldn't want my ex and his new wife to post video of my children on the internet. Actually I don't get how she didn't manage to forbid C&J from posting videos with her children in them...

I read some here pretty much saying that it was hypocratical to consider that in the Jess and Drake situation, Jess is at fault for Drake not seeing the boys a lot but in the Ashley and Chris' sitiation, chris was the guilty one. I think that they are ALL at fault personally, they are the parents, they separated, true, but they should put their children first instead of continuing to be petty toward each other and also each situation is different, Drake doen't live that far from the boys, he could see them more if he dedicated more time to them (even if it would be easier without Jess bashing him) while Chris lives 6 hours away BUT chris choose to live 6 hours away so... I avoid normally comparing both situation.
About Ashley and Chris in particular, I don't know Ashley (well I don't know Jess, Chris or Drake either xD) but Ashley is not doing youtube video so I don't really have a good or bad opinion of her like I have with Jess that's why I tries to be as objective as possible. The fact is maybe Ashley is a really good mom who chose to marry, have children then divorce Chris but it's also possible that she is not that great of a mother, after all maybe Chris considers Jess is a great mother because he compare her with Ashley, who knows? Reason why, I think all the options I wrote above to explain why Chris didn't see C&T are for me possible.

Damn I wrote so much stuff

[Ceirsten8676]

For as much as she hyped up Legoland, she only posted one picture on Instagram. When Princess Lilia went to Disneyland however, that's a whole different story. You could put together a book with all the pictures she posted.


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