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judgeybuggie wrote:I don't think that dog is getting enough exercise for his breed. He's high energy and I'm sure she's letting him out to go potty while Justin is home, not playing with him. He's definitely not trained enough to be outside my himself either. Personally I don't think that's the dog for them at this point. I doubt he's getting what he needs now Emma is born. She already said she can't walk him during the day and push the stroller because he's too active. Rachelle needs to rehome him because it's not fair to him.
I am sorry but this is ridiculous. They seem to be getting along fine. Her IG story they took him to the park. Young dogs and babies and toddlers can be tough. That doesn’t mean your dog needs to be rehomed. Yes she needs to stop putting Emma on the couch. He could knock her off. He has a fenced yard. My dog would of been rehomed if that was the attitude we had. Oh and yes my dog is allowed on the couch.
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I think her point was that Rachelle uses it all as an excuse just so she doesn't have to. Which I'm assuming you don't do that with yours. So in that sense, he should be rehomed if she isn't even trying to meet his needs.
judgeybuggie wrote:I don't think that dog is getting enough exercise for his breed. He's high energy and I'm sure she's letting him out to go potty while Justin is home, not playing with him. He's definitely not trained enough to be outside my himself either. Personally I don't think that's the dog for them at this point. I doubt he's getting what he needs now Emma is born. She already said she can't walk him during the day and push the stroller because he's too active. Rachelle needs to rehome him because it's not fair to him.
I am sorry but this is ridiculous. They seem to be getting along fine. Her IG story they took him to the park. Young dogs and babies and toddlers can be tough. That doesn’t mean your dog needs to be rehomed. Yes she needs to stop putting Emma on the couch. He could knock her off. He has a fenced yard. My dog would of been rehomed if that was the attitude we had. Oh and yes my dog is allowed on the couch.
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Unless they take him every day, which clearly they don’t, he’s not getting the exercise he needs. He’s that hyper because he has built up energy. Beau’s breed is a herding dog. It’s what they’re genetically predisposed to do; run and herd for hours. 20 minutes at a park isn’t him getting enough.
judgeybuggie wrote:I don't think that dog is getting enough exercise for his breed. He's high energy and I'm sure she's letting him out to go potty while Justin is home, not playing with him. He's definitely not trained enough to be outside my himself either. Personally I don't think that's the dog for them at this point. I doubt he's getting what he needs now Emma is born. She already said she can't walk him during the day and push the stroller because he's too active. Rachelle needs to rehome him because it's not fair to him.
I am sorry but this is ridiculous. They seem to be getting along fine. Her IG story they took him to the park. Young dogs and babies and toddlers can be tough. That doesn’t mean your dog needs to be rehomed. Yes she needs to stop putting Emma on the couch. He could knock her off. He has a fenced yard. My dog would of been rehomed if that was the attitude we had. Oh and yes my dog is allowed on the couch.
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I brought this up based on the dogs needs. I'm not saying people with babies can't have dogs, I'm saying people with babies and crappy yards shouldn't have hearding dogs expecting them to live their best lives in those conditions. Had she adopted him he'd have home prerequisites like a certain sized yard, certain fence.. Etc and they'd probably ask about how many children in the home as well. Instead, she purchased him in a puppy breeder situation. Saw a cute dog and assumed he'd adapt, which he apparently isn't if she can't walk with a stroller AND keep him trained enough to walk on a leash.
If leash walking without hassle is an issue, he's not properly trained. End of story.
Leash walking is BASIC TRAINING! If he can't walk on a leash without pulling or hassle, he's not trained. I have two pits when we walk each of them pick a side and keep my pace the entire way until we're able to unleash at the dog park. We have a huge yard with proper doggy doors and a well built fence. Our dogs let themselves out and handle their energy without our supervision and then return inside when done. They're able to do full laps around our yard, I walk them before, after work and husband takes them on a run every night.
Those are proper conditions for a high energy breed that spends a lot of time near infants. Those are the idea conditions and Rachelle doesn't even mean half of them. He's not living his best life if she's slacking in ANY of those conditions. Why not get a smaller dog.
judgeybuggie wrote:Leash walking is BASIC TRAINING! If he can't walk on a leash without pulling or hassle, he's not trained. I have two pits when we walk each of them pick a side and keep my pace the entire way until we're able to unleash at the dog park. We have a huge yard with proper doggy doors and a well built fence. Our dogs let themselves out and handle their energy without our supervision and then return inside when done. They're able to do full laps around our yard, I walk them before, after work and husband takes them on a run every night.
Those are proper conditions for a high energy breed that spends a lot of time near infants. Those are the idea conditions and Rachelle doesn't even mean half of them. He's not living his best life if she's slacking in ANY of those conditions. Why not get a smaller dog.
Sometimes it's not about how cute the dog is or if you're able to meet SOME of the requirements, sometimes you have to keep in mind that certain dog breeds have certain needs to live their best lives. It's a living creature that deserves to have its needs met and then some and you have to be fair to them. If she's slacking the humane thing would be rehoming him. He's not a small dog. Pretty sure he bit Justin in the crotch in one video (on accident) but because he was excited. What if instead if a crotch, it's one of Emma's legs or something. She needs to be smart and put her baby first and find someone who's able to put Beau first. He deserves that imo
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Haulnarse wrote:Beaus reaction when emma cried was normal, he was concerned. Id certainly not be pushing him away like that when he wasnt actually doing anything wrong! Let him have a sniff, lick and check shes okay.
This poor dog is just a bandaid for loosing Brynn, now she has Emma; im surprised Beau hasnt been shown the door!
Oh he will soon don’t worry. It’s just too soon to dump him. Just like she did her other dog, to her mom.
I'm convinced the cat is already dead haven't seen him in a while. Either she gave him away or he ran away when he found out she would leave him to die if there's carbon monoxide. LOL.
Rachelle, calmly gather Emma, put her in the car and gather Beau and Mister next? Emma is obviously the priority but you don't need to leave the cat to die lol I mean damn. Place Emma in the care of a nice neighbor while you get the other living creatures you're responsible for?
I mean maybe Mister should go too if she can't gather him in an emergency. I mean... The living creature you told the state you'd be responsible (and if you're unable to, you'd safely return the animal to them ALIVE via surrender) fwhen you adopted him? Does anyone follow that anymore?
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Haulnarse wrote:Beaus reaction when emma cried was normal, he was concerned. Id certainly not be pushing him away like that when he wasnt actually doing anything wrong! Let him have a sniff, lick and check shes okay.
This poor dog is just a bandaid for loosing Brynn, now she has Emma; im surprised Beau hasnt been shown the door!
Oh he will soon don’t worry. It’s just too soon to dump him. Just like she did her other dog, to her mom.
Man, how perfect can her life be? It’s okay to be vulnerable Rachelle!! Emma doesn’t have to be the perfect baby and the perfect sleeper and the perfect eater. Justin doesn’t have to be the perfect husband and the perfect father. NOT EVERYTHING IS PERFECT. As a Mom viewer and other Mom to be viewers they don’t need to be blinded by how “perfect” her life is. Mom struggle is real!
NaNaBrianna wrote:Man, how perfect can her life be? It’s okay to be vulnerable Rachelle!! Emma doesn’t have to be the perfect baby and the perfect sleeper and the perfect eater. Justin doesn’t have to be the perfect husband and the perfect father. NOT EVERYTHING IS PERFECT. As a Mom viewer and other Mom to be viewers they don’t need to be blinded by how “perfect” her life is. Mom struggle is real!
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Question she has to live with: How great would everything seem if she weren't able to share it online and make it aesthetically pleasing? If someone deleted her social media accounts and she didn't have anyone to share these over edited pictures with.
Last time I checked the last time these were less than perfect for her was Brynn dying (Because stillbirth isn't really instagram trendy) and they stopped vlogging (understandable) and almost broke up right?
Now I guess things are perfect again now they have a baby. "Complete" I think she said. Because when one child dies and you have that wound, having another one apparently heals it according to Rachelle. Didn't know that honestly
Anyone else see that post where she says she feels "complete" with Emma here?
I'm sorry but since when does losing one baby and having another one, make someone complete? No offense but if you have a kid that died, you will always be incomplete. You can't just put another one in their stead and be complete. What the hell. Poor choice of words maybe? It seems like life subtracted one child (which is sad) but adding another child shouldn't make someone "complete" maybe help the pain and bring you further into motherhood but COMPLETE? What about Brynn? I understand not hurting anymore and moving on but you have a daughter in heaven. How is having another child mending that pain to the point where you feel compete.
judgeybuggie wrote:Anyone else see that post where she says she feels "complete" with Emma here?
I'm sorry but since when does losing one baby and having another one, make someone complete? No offense but if you have a kid that died, you will always be incomplete. You can't just put another one in their stead and be complete. What the hell. Poor choice of words maybe? It seems like life subtracted one child (which is sad) but adding another child shouldn't make someone "complete" maybe help the pain and bring you further into motherhood but COMPLETE? What about Brynn? I understand not hurting anymore and moving on but you have a daughter in heaven. How is having another child mending that pain to the point where you feel compete.
Sorry I'm feeling rant-y today. Just an opinion
I think it was just a poor choice of words. Very poor.
judgeybuggie wrote:Anyone else see that post where she says she feels "complete" with Emma here?
I'm sorry but since when does losing one baby and having another one, make someone complete? No offense but if you have a kid that died, you will always be incomplete. You can't just put another one in their stead and be complete. What the hell. Poor choice of words maybe? It seems like life subtracted one child (which is sad) but adding another child shouldn't make someone "complete" maybe help the pain and bring you further into motherhood but COMPLETE? What about Brynn? I understand not hurting anymore and moving on but you have a daughter in heaven. How is having another child mending that pain to the point where you feel compete.
Sorry I'm feeling rant-y today. Just an opinion
I think it was just a poor choice of words. Very poor.
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I don’t see anything wrong with what she said. She feels complete as a mother. Having a stillborn baby is nothing like parenting an actual living child, I understand what she means. (Talking as a loss mum myself)
judgeybuggie wrote:Anyone else see that post where she says she feels "complete" with Emma here?
I'm sorry but since when does losing one baby and having another one, make someone complete? No offense but if you have a kid that died, you will always be incomplete. You can't just put another one in their stead and be complete. What the hell. Poor choice of words maybe? It seems like life subtracted one child (which is sad) but adding another child shouldn't make someone "complete" maybe help the pain and bring you further into motherhood but COMPLETE? What about Brynn? I understand not hurting anymore and moving on but you have a daughter in heaven. How is having another child mending that pain to the point where you feel compete.
Sorry I'm feeling rant-y today. Just an opinion
Let her enjoy it. She shouldn't have to dial down her joy because she lost her previous daughter. It's a big thing that should be met with celebration. She probably didn't mean it in that way.
She feels complete as a mother or as a woman? Because let's face it, she hasn't been trying to improve herself as a person, she was just focused on having a baby no matter what, and that is the reason why she acts as a teen mom when she is an adult. She could've at least read some books about maternity and parenting.
Blinding1dne wrote:Wait, I totally missed that hashtag thing. What happened with a hashtag and what was it? Sorry this is late.
She made a hashtag for the weekly updates on IG and said ‘please let us have this’ .. and someone trolled it so she made another, and someone trolled that too... so she just gave up and threw a fit and made an account for it.
I think that’s right.
judgeybuggie wrote:Anyone else see that post where she says she feels "complete" with Emma here?
I'm sorry but since when does losing one baby and having another one, make someone complete? No offense but if you have a kid that died, you will always be incomplete. You can't just put another one in their stead and be complete. What the hell. Poor choice of words maybe? It seems like life subtracted one child (which is sad) but adding another child shouldn't make someone "complete" maybe help the pain and bring you further into motherhood but COMPLETE? What about Brynn? I understand not hurting anymore and moving on but you have a daughter in heaven. How is having another child mending that pain to the point where you feel compete.
Sorry I'm feeling rant-y today. Just an opinion
It’s almost like she reads in here. Posted not long after you made this post lol
judgeybuggie wrote:Anyone else see that post where she says she feels "complete" with Emma here?
I'm sorry but since when does losing one baby and having another one, make someone complete? No offense but if you have a kid that died, you will always be incomplete. You can't just put another one in their stead and be complete. What the hell. Poor choice of words maybe? It seems like life subtracted one child (which is sad) but adding another child shouldn't make someone "complete" maybe help the pain and bring you further into motherhood but COMPLETE? What about Brynn? I understand not hurting anymore and moving on but you have a daughter in heaven. How is having another child mending that pain to the point where you feel compete.
Sorry I'm feeling rant-y today. Just an opinion
I think it was just a poor choice of words. Very poor.
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Very poor choice of words. I would never ASK a loss mom if she feels COMPLETE after having her rainbow baby. That seems a little offensive and I'm sure people would get triggered by that choice of words.
Its also something she'd prematurely complain about on twitter. She complains when people didnt call her a mother before Emma (which she totally is a mom) and then she uses words like "first time mom" and finally "feeling complete" poor choice.
