thebuenobunch (Desperate Dani)

[lizpuff2006]

Buhaha at that grey raggedy old T shirt (copied from Brit). Does she even brush her teeth. I doubt not. Her teeth are as yellow as sunset. Hurl.

ETA forgot what thread I was on. LOL. Wrong thread

[olemama]

Dani's youtubes are starting to grow on me a bit. I can't stand the videos where she, Vanessa and Britney hang out because together those ladies are incredibly boring. But Dani is coming from a different economic situation than B. and V. Her house is very old and tiny (the kitchen does not have a dishwasher and the sinks are so small.) So it's difficult for her to keep things looking organized and sparkly. Their sofa looks worn out and their master bed is incredibly small. This suggests that she comes from a working-class background and she and her hubby do not have a lot of cash to spare. It's possible they cannot afford to send Ethan to a preschool so he stays home and gets more bored and weird with each day. I think she does struggle with her weight (and her relatives seem big) so the attacks from this forum are very sad to me but whatever.

[lizpuff2006]

Dani's youtubes are starting to grow on me a bit. I can't stand the videos where she, Vanessa and Britney hang out because together those ladies are incredibly boring. But Dani is coming from a different economic situation than B. and V. Her house is very old and tiny (the kitchen does not have a dishwasher and the sinks are so small.) So it's difficult for her to keep things looking organized and sparkly. Their sofa looks worn out and their master bed is incredibly small. This suggests that she comes from a working-class background and she and her hubby do not have a lot of cash to spare. It's possible they cannot afford to send Ethan to a preschool so he stays home and gets more bored and weird with each day. I think she does struggle with her weight (and her relatives seem big) so the attacks from this forum are very sad to me but whatever.

I would like Dani more if she was herself not someone else. She is constantly trying to be like Brit and Vanessa. She should have her own personality. She is Columbian. Show us some Columbian cooking!

[ForeverGauc01]

I do like the fact that they are a fairly working class family and don’t have a whole lot of extra money, it’s more relatable. But she tries to come off like they do, which I hate. She’s fake, she so desperately wants to be just like brit and Vanessa, that has no personality of her own.
She’s annoying and desperate.
Her son is 4 right? So old enough to be in kindergarten, which would be free. And if not, they’d likely qualify for some sort of free schooling program, I can’t remember what it’s called though. She has no excuse to keep him home, you can hear his delays in his speech. Being around kids his age, and teachers would help significantly.
Dani herself doesn’t have the greatest speech, so she’s not helping any.


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[lizpuff2006]

I do like the fact that they are a fairly working class family and don’t have a whole lot of extra money, it’s more relatable. But she tries to come off like they do, which I hate. She’s fake, she so desperately wants to be just like brit and Vanessa, that has no personality of her own.
She’s annoying and desperate.
Her son is 4 right? So old enough to be in kindergarten, which would be free. And if not, they’d likely qualify for some sort of free schooling program, I can’t remember what it’s called though. She has no excuse to keep him home, you can hear his delays in his speech. Being around kids his age, and teachers would help significantly.
Dani herself doesn’t have the greatest speech, so she’s not helping any.


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I agree with most of what you said. Kindergarten starts at 5 though. But he for sure could be in preschool which makes me think they cannot afford that. No shame in that but then she should be working with him at least a little bit on getting ready for kindergarten

[Kish]

But Britney and Vanessa’s backgrounds are more leaning towards being working-class as well, aren’t they? V merely married into upper middle class, and both she and Britney just try to give off the illusion of being rather well-off (if they’re successful in doing that is another pair of shoes) – I’m guessing Dani is also trying to imitate them in that regard.

[ForeverGauc01]

I do like the fact that they are a fairly working class family and don’t have a whole lot of extra money, it’s more relatable. But she tries to come off like they do, which I hate. She’s fake, she so desperately wants to be just like brit and Vanessa, that has no personality of her own.
She’s annoying and desperate.
Her son is 4 right? So old enough to be in kindergarten, which would be free. And if not, they’d likely qualify for some sort of free schooling program, I can’t remember what it’s called though. She has no excuse to keep him home, you can hear his delays in his speech. Being around kids his age, and teachers would help significantly.
Dani herself doesn’t have the greatest speech, so she’s not helping any.


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I agree with most of what you said. Kindergarten starts at 5 though. But he for sure could be in preschool which makes me think they cannot afford that. No shame in that but then she should be working with him at least a little bit on getting ready for kindergarten

Sorry! Kindergarten starts at 4 here in Canada!


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[marshmellow]

Dani's youtubes are starting to grow on me a bit. I can't stand the videos where she, Vanessa and Britney hang out because together those ladies are incredibly boring. But Dani is coming from a different economic situation than B. and V. Her house is very old and tiny (the kitchen does not have a dishwasher and the sinks are so small.) So it's difficult for her to keep things looking organized and sparkly. Their sofa looks worn out and their master bed is incredibly small. This suggests that she comes from a working-class background and she and her hubby do not have a lot of cash to spare. It's possible they cannot afford to send Ethan to a preschool so he stays home and gets more bored and weird with each day. I think she does struggle with her weight (and her relatives seem big) so the attacks from this forum are very sad to me but whatever.

If her house looks like pigsty,why show that to the world ? Personally I have seen people from lower economic backgrounds maintaining a tidier home. Being poor isn't a bad thing. But being poor and showing off as rich is. She wastes money on unnecessary crap when her family could be using that money for something more useful. It is foolish if she tries to keep up with V and B.
And coming to her looks. She looks disgusting and not to mention looks extremely untidy. I have myself attacked her on here, not proud of it but it is true. Just like how ppl talk about Jess, Vanessa etc. Ugly is ugly.

[olemama]

I don't see any evidence that her house is a pigsty. (But I watch Jesssfam videos!!! with trash and clothing and flypaper with flies all over it!) She has an old worn little house with little storage capacity and it is much, much tougher to keep it looking all pretty and sparkly for the vlogs. ) And I don't see her buying new furniture and rugs like B. and V. I think she can't afford it. And unlike B. and V. she shops at Aldis. She just did a pretty decent grocery haul. I agree that her "friendship" with them is false and she should focus on her life and her story in her vlogs. But I think she is sweet with a kind face; then again I'm very overweight so I think she looks nice.

[lizpuff2006]

I just think her organizing isn't giving anyone any ideas. Shoving all pillowcases into a tiny basket...I mean you are going to have to dig to the bottom to get to some of those and refold each time. And she is literally shoving baskets onto the shelves. Not much cleaner than it was tbh

Plus she sweated her balls off lol

[olemama]

I do like the fact that they are a fairly working class family and don’t have a whole lot of extra money, it’s more relatable. But she tries to come off like they do, which I hate. She’s fake, she so desperately wants to be just like brit and Vanessa, that has no personality of her own.
She’s annoying and desperate.
Her son is 4 right? So old enough to be in kindergarten, which would be free. And if not, they’d likely qualify for some sort of free schooling program, I can’t remember what it’s called though. She has no excuse to keep him home, you can hear his delays in his speech. Being around kids his age, and teachers would help significantly.
Dani herself doesn’t have the greatest speech, so she’s not helping any.


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I agree with most of what you said. Kindergarten starts at 5 though. But he for sure could be in preschool which makes me think they cannot afford that. No shame in that but then she should be working with him at least a little bit on getting ready for kindergarten

Also most preschool in the US is not free. Some school districts offer pre-K programs but it is rare. For Ethan to go to a 3 day/week half-day program would cost $200-$400/month which makes me think Dani and hubby cannot afford it. To qualify for a program like Headstart, families must be really really poor. But I agree Dani should work with Ethan at home and, perhaps, find a neighborhood playgroup so that Ethan can be with kids his own age.

[marshmellow]

I do like the fact that they are a fairly working class family and don’t have a whole lot of extra money, it’s more relatable. But she tries to come off like they do, which I hate. She’s fake, she so desperately wants to be just like brit and Vanessa, that has no personality of her own.
She’s annoying and desperate.
Her son is 4 right? So old enough to be in kindergarten, which would be free. And if not, they’d likely qualify for some sort of free schooling program, I can’t remember what it’s called though. She has no excuse to keep him home, you can hear his delays in his speech. Being around kids his age, and teachers would help significantly.
Dani herself doesn’t have the greatest speech, so she’s not helping any.


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I agree with most of what you said. Kindergarten starts at 5 though. But he for sure could be in preschool which makes me think they cannot afford that. No shame in that but then she should be working with him at least a little bit on getting ready for kindergarten

Also most preschool in the US is not free. Some school districts offer pre-K programs but it is rare. For Ethan to go to a 3 day/week half-day program would cost $200-$400/month which makes me think Dani and hubby cannot afford it. To qualify for a program like Headstart, families must be really really poor. But I agree Dani should work with Ethan at home and, perhaps, find a neighborhood playgroup so that Ethan can be with kids his own age.

Honestly $300-$400 per month for a preschool isn't expensive at all. Education is a basic need for a child. It is very hard for me to believe that they cannot afford $300. They are possibly not THAT poor. Also if they cannot afford to send their 4 year old to school why have another ? Either she is stingy or lazy. Brittandlife's daughter Piper was going to preschool. She is even more poor. Many single teen moms send their kids to preschool.

[Yogabbagabbat]

Mm no.

she does not have my sympathy for being poor. She blows money to keep up with Britney and Vanessa. She has a $160 diaper bag and does target hearth and hand hauls.


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[WheresMyCoffee]

Mm no.

she does not have my sympathy for being poor. She blows money to keep up with Britney and Vanessa. She has a $160 diaper bag and does target hearth and hand hauls.


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This!!!
I would actually subscribe in a heart beat to someone who was poor and admitted it haha.. and they showed how to reuse things, how they stretch their money with grocery hauls etc... I find everyone to be so fucking fake on YT now. Even some of the "trifty/budgeting" channels seem to need all the latest gadgets and are redecorating rooms all the time. I dont consider us poor but I would still find it very interesting to watch people who dont put up such a front.

[Yogabbagabbat]

Mm no.

she does not have my sympathy for being poor. She blows money to keep up with Britney and Vanessa. She has a $160 diaper bag and does target hearth and hand hauls.


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This!!!
I would actually subscribe in a heart beat to someone who was poor and admitted it haha.. and they showed how to reuse things, how they stretch their money with grocery hauls etc... I find everyone to be so fucking fake on YT now. Even some of the "trifty/budgeting" channels seem to need all the latest gadgets and are redecorating rooms all the time. I dont consider us poor but I would still find it very interesting to watch people who dont put up such a front.

Yes for sure! One of the reasons I subscribed to moms like jess and Britney in the beginning was because they were also young moms and things weren’t easy for them. Now they’re all so incredibly unrelatable and copy each other so much. Most young moms like myself cannot drop $400 at Target on useless things like these people do..so desperate Dani should just be authentic and not another whitewashed clone


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[ForeverGauc01]

“Bay-ding suit”. Wtf


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[guineapeegz]

“Bay-ding suit”. Wtf


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She's actually stupid. Like, her IQ is below 60.

[ForeverGauc01]

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She is trying SO hard to be like brit. It’s pathetic.


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[guineapeegz]

She is trying SO hard to be like brit. It’s pathetic.


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Oh my god wtf?!?! Can she make it any more obvious that she's trying to copy Brittany??

[Blackswan]

I'm here from Britch and V. Should I watch this hoe?