The Lindquists: dELLEusional, deceitful, and divorcing | Part 4

[Seriouslysweetie]

When Dan moves on, he will definitely find someone more aligned to his values. Elle will not like that person let alone co-parenting with them.

He might be still hoping for a reconciliation though as I don't think he's the type to divorce. Since it is now common knowledge Elle didn't marry him for love, I have a feeling she was the one who initiated it.

I wonder if they were already separated before her work trips back in December or was that the spark she needed to kick him out?

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[67carfar]

When Dan moves on, he will definitely find someone more aligned to his values. Elle will not like that person let alone co-parenting with them.

He might be still hoping for a reconciliation though as I don't think he's the type to divorce. Since it is now common knowledge Elle didn't marry him for love, I have a feeling she was the one who initiated it.

I wonder if they were already separated before her work trips back in December or was that the spark she needed to kick him out?

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Yeah, I think they were already separated by that point, or things were going very south. I think the last time we see his clothes in the closet was in her laundry video which came out before the End of an Era (aka no more Dan) video. I wonder if maybe he didn't actually move all the way out until after Christmas, but I think he was gone pretty soon after that at the latest. Her new channel is obviously her rebrand sans-Dan, what with her first video being the house tour. I'm pretty sure in that video she refers to their room as the master bedroom, not as their room. Meanwhile on her "old" channel she's been trying to hide the separation for 6 months. She in Feb the anesthesia video that was filmed in December, supposedly. I suppose they could still have "been together" at that point, but I think things were already trouble. She started in with all the cost cutting/cost saving stuff around the time of the rebrand. Any way to save money to me says separation.

Also, I was looking at Dan's mom's very public facebook page earlier. She mentions Elle and the kids (not by name) on March 6th in reference to them getting Bernie and her having "a grandcat". She responded to someone saying Bernie was scared of Dan and hiding from him. Before that post the last time she mentioned Elle was back in the fall when she cut her finger.

[sunnyshine]

I know we already knew… But I'd be surprised if elle wasn't with someone else. She seems like the type not to leave her husband unless there's another guy waiting. Can't handle the social implications of being "single".

[Pamomma8422]

So if Dan's mom (NJ Lindquist) mentions their new cat on her facebook in early March and also that the cat is afraid of Dan... should we assume Dan was still living there through early March??? Also, if you look up Dan's Facebook page, you can see that he still has Elle in his profile picture. Maybe he just never uses his Facebook though...

[TeachIT]

She’d editing the fuck out of her eyes lately.







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[Seriouslysweetie]

She spends an hour diffusing her hair? That must be so tedious! Oh, we get it Elle, your eyes are blue, you can stop increasing the brightness around your eyes now.

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[Skinnie]

Looks like she may finally be acknowledging she lives in Markham and not Toronto...seems small but maybe more honesty will be coming???

[TeachIT]

Do you guys want a video of my skincare?

Do you guys want a video of my fast makeup?

Do you guys want a video of my hair?

Do you guys want a video of how I pee on a toilet?

Do you guys want a video of how I breathe?


WHY does she think she’s an expert on something as soon as she dips a toe in? What can she possible share about curly girl that can’t be found elsewhere?


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[TeachIT]

Not to be negative Nancy but I think she tags Markham during the lockdown so people don’t think she’s out and about.


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[Seriouslysweetie]

Do you guys want a video of my skincare?

Do you guys want a video of my fast makeup?

Do you guys want a video of my hair?

Do you guys want a video of how I pee on a toilet?

Do you guys want a video of how I breathe?


WHY does she think she’s an expert on something as soon as she dips a toe in? What can she possible share about curly girl that can’t be found elsewhere?


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So she can monetize any video from affiliate links. The difference with Elle and other successful YouTubers is the good ones actually have a skill or unique experience they can share to the audience. The monetization is secondary. I actually found some of Elle's earlier organization videos helpful but she never fully commits to those videos. It's like her she thinks she's better than just being an organizing channel and her vanity videos (self help, capsule wardrobe) is bringing her down.

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[67carfar]

So if Dan's mom (NJ Lindquist) mentions their new cat on her facebook in early March and also that the cat is afraid of Dan... should we assume Dan was still living there through early March??? Also, if you look up Dan's Facebook page, you can see that he still has Elle in his profile picture. Maybe he just never uses his Facebook though...

The pictures on his facebook account are from 2012 when they got engaged. I don't think he even uses the account anymore.
Re: the cat, I think he was gone by March. The video of him examining the cat is very impersonal. If I didn't know they were married it would almost seem like he was just a vet she hired to come do an in-home assessment on her cat.

[Margie]

I remember a video from long ago when they were doing weekly family vlogging, Elle had mentioned that Dan didn’t have any social media when they met and she made him get Facebook. Of course she did

As far as Elle making a video for everything... YES! The worst part is, she makes videos about stuff she isn’t good at. Acting like a licensed therapist rolling out advice like she’s a professional; that’s a good way to push the mental health industry and their validity back a decade Elle. If you aren’t actually educated in it, don’t pretend to be. And this curly hair shit... I’m sorry, if it takes you 6 hours to get your hair curly... you DONT have curly hair. She also has disgusting 90’s mousse curls that look crunchy and terrible and it just doesn’t look good. The entire crown section of her head is flat as a pancake. No one, literally NO ONE, wants to know how to style their hair that way Elle. Stop while you’re still ahead.
Make a video on your separation. That will actually interest people and draw in views. That’s VERY clearly what your audience is asking for, and it would actually make you relatable.

[JustAMereMuggle]

Sorry. Was unavailable yesterday but I have a new theory. What if Elle and Dan are getting/have gotten divorced but HE grew a backbone (or his lawyer put this thought into his head) to put in a clause that says due to the nature of her job she can't mention it. That would be very smart on his part as he still has an outside of the home job where people trusting him is important. Elle badmouthing him all over the internet could ruin his practice. It took me 30 seconds knowing his name, he lives in Markham and he is a vet to find out where he works. The lawyer could be doing damage control? And Elle could be trying to write a script that works within the rules to tell everyone what happened while avoiding legal issues.

[okaythatlldo]

Aside from all the work she’s putting into doing her hair (50 minutes pixie diffusing - wtf even is that???) it’s clear she’s been researching/analyzing etc. Seems like a lot of time and energy spent just to get some crunchy looking curls.


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[fossilfinger]

Sorry. Was unavailable yesterday but I have a new theory. What if Elle and Dan are getting/have gotten divorced but HE grew a backbone (or his lawyer put this thought into his head) to put in a clause that says due to the nature of her job she can't mention it. That would be very smart on his part as he still has an outside of the home job where people trusting him is important. Elle badmouthing him all over the internet could ruin his practice. It took me 30 seconds knowing his name, he lives in Markham and he is a vet to find out where he works. The lawyer could be doing damage control? And Elle could be trying to write a script that works within the rules to tell everyone what happened while avoiding legal issues.

I don't know anything about divorces, so this is a serious question: Can he actually do that? Because since divorce is a two-way street I would think Elle would be able to at least say she is divorced. Maybe he could put in a clause about not mentioning specifics or talking about his side of the story, but could he actually prevent her from mentioning it at all?

[TeachIT]

Sorry. Was unavailable yesterday but I have a new theory. What if Elle and Dan are getting/have gotten divorced but HE grew a backbone (or his lawyer put this thought into his head) to put in a clause that says due to the nature of her job she can't mention it. That would be very smart on his part as he still has an outside of the home job where people trusting him is important. Elle badmouthing him all over the internet could ruin his practice. It took me 30 seconds knowing his name, he lives in Markham and he is a vet to find out where he works. The lawyer could be doing damage control? And Elle could be trying to write a script that works within the rules to tell everyone what happened while avoiding legal issues.

I don't know anything about divorces, so this is a serious question: Can he actually do that? Because since divorce is a two-way street I would think Elle would be able to at least say she is divorced. Maybe he could put in a clause about not mentioning specifics or talking about his side of the story, but could he actually prevent her from mentioning it at all?

He 100% could request that she not make a YT video about it. Weirder things have been granted lol. Or course she can mention it, but his lawyer could do something about her not being able to monetize a video about it ... and if she can’t monetize, whats the point?

I’d like to think she’s also being mindful of what the boys will see publicly in a few years. At the same time, she could make a great series about how she broke the news to the kids and how she’s coparenting that could really, genuinely help people. Oh but wait, that would require her to humble herself for others and she can’t.


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[Margie]

Honestly, I doubt that they are even at that point yet. In Canada you have to be legally separated for a year before you can even consider a divorce, so they would only be in the early stages of the separation. I assume she’s not mentioning anything yet because it’s still very far from being finalized, and maybe they are just separated but actively trying to reconcile. I thinks it’s probably more likely that she’s just not saying anything because it’s not final yet, I doubt she actually wants to reconcile

[TeachIT]

Oh look, soulful Sunday’s is already cut back. Shocker.


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[Margie]

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Good god. Get off your high horse lady!!

I’m not even surprised that she stopped doing those videos, she’s the ultimate flake. As soon as any of her *ExCiTiNg NeW sErIeS* don’t perform well in the first handful of videos she tosses them to the side. She has no ability to stick anything out. She clearly thinks success happens overnight, probably because the only way she ever reached 100k subs is because of one viral birth video. But I think channels that statistically perform well, especially in regards to sub/view ratio, are channels that have found their niche and have consistently put out those types of videos because they care more about the content than the praise and “fame”. They stuck with it long enough that the people who are like minded have had time to find them. Not that I want Elle to keep this BS up, but man, it really shows who she truly is!

[TeachIT]

She expects overnight success. She has horrible work ethic and cannot see a project through to save her life! If she’d find a REAL passion she could keep going even without the views, and the views would come! Her genuine passion would attract people!

Her narcissistic tendencies are so obvious. I can’t believe her therapist encourages this.


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