what that is not what a mom is LOL ...you made that definition of a mother up
a mom has children simple, she has raised children or is raising children ..she is a angel mom to her angel baby and she is pregnant, an expectant mom simple you are speaking out of emotions and that has nothing to do with anything
a mother has children raises kids everything you explained is the role of a pregnant woman you are not making sense ... she is not a mother yet she will be soon, do not see what the big deal is? most pregnant women know they are not moms yet but will be soon what is the rush
stop speaking on emotions and speak on facts