Daily Bums- DailyDetachedParenting Part 32

Unread post by **Ceirsten8676** » Sat Aug 29, 2015 5:26 pm

My cousin and her husband remind me of B&M. They constantly spend money, are lazy parents, could care less about being away from their child, live with her parents and toss her off to people. They both work full time and she's 15 weeks pregnant with their second, due in January. They have a one year old daughter, 2 in December. When talking about the baby, she was like "if this one's not a boy, we're trying again." Like that's so ungrateful. There's people in this world that can't get pregnant and you're concerned about the gender. And she's had a miscarriage. Doesn't that sound like Missy? And she complains nonstop about being tired all the time and not wanting to eat and blah blah blah and she's barely even showing. Oh and they live with her parents. They put their house up for sale, it was a two bedroom, two bath town home and it was fine for them. (This was before she got pregnant again) They were going to buy a bigger house but they couldn't find anything they liked. Which means not up to her standards. So they decided to build one and moved into her parents basement. A couple months of living with her parents, she found out she was pregnant. How embarrassing, two early 30-year olds, no house, living with her parents with a kid and pregnant again. She acts toward her daughter Olivia just like Missy acts toward Ollie. Doesn't show much love, acts like their child is an accessory. She drops her daughter off with a nanny every day. She's a pretty well behaved child for being dragged around all the time but she's been really bratty lately. They eat out almost every day and spend their money on pointless shit. They "keep up with the Joneses." Her husband just bought an Apple Watch. Is that you, Bryan? They take a bunch of vacations too. They went to Mexico for a week last year and when they came back Olivia wanted nothing to do with them. She could have cared less. Probably because they spend 2 days a week with her on Saturday and Sunday. The poor child goes to sleep at 11:00 because they force her to stay up so they can spend time with her. If she wants to spend time with her child so badly, why doesn't she just quit her job? Or work part time. Her husband makes enough to support them. But she cares more about herself more than her child. It's sad.

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Unread post by **lmmomSD** » Sat Aug 29, 2015 5:36 pm

jodilo88 wrote:
lmmomSD wrote:
OhHiImSam wrote:I'm hoping Finn is born healthy.

But I'm also hoping:

1) Missy goes late term
2.5) She does VBAC
2) By the time they get to the hospital it's too late for an epidural
3) Finnly is a healthy ten pound baby, like my niece.
Well, with that hour and a half drive to the hospital, she'll have time for lots of contractions! I still can't get over that. What if there's traffic? But she won't go late term. She'll start chugging castor oil and jogging-- anything to get that baby out. He's likely to be a 10 pounder, the way she eats!
One poor minion made the mistake of saying that 33 weeks was too early, and he got jumped on! [\b]Reading through the comments on their videos is just so vomit-inducing! If you need a laugh, read the comments for his "performance" at Vlogger Fair. "Bryan, your stage presence is amazing!" "I cried!" "I want a family just like yours" Meanwhile, if you look at the 1 or two seconds that they show the audience, most look bored and uncomfortable, and only a few clap after the song...

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Where did this happen?

Which? The minion getting jumped? It's in the comments of the vlog.
The bit about the hour and a half drive, she mentions at the end of the vlog, when she's complaining about the hospital. She says "my hospital is an hour and a half away"

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Unread post by **lmmomSD** » Sat Aug 29, 2015 5:48 pm

sbandob3 wrote:I'm willing to give Missy the benefit of the doubt on this. I was at exactly 33 weeks with my second son and during a check-up my midwife noticed I was having contractions. They sent me to the hospital and monitored me for five hours, gave me water and food and the contractions still wouldn't stop. They wanted to put me on an IV and give me fluids and medicine to stop the contractions but I wasn't even feeling them and they let me go home and just told me to watch for any signs of labor and come back immediately if anything happened. I was feeling more nervous after awhile but for the first couple of hours I was still calm, happy, joking with my husband over text, laughing with the nurses, etc. I was still assuming it was going to be nothing- and it wasn't, my son ended up being three days late and weighing 10 pounds. I was feeling silly making such a big fuss in the hospital when I felt deep down that it was probably nothing serious. But Missy kept saying the whole time that she was thinking it was just pee. She probably just assumed it was pee, and didn't want to get too worked up yet. And she was right. And good for her for getting it checked out anyways, just to be safe. I guess the only part I don't get is that she's had losses before and those of you who have experienced that seem to be more wary of those situations.

Sorry for the double post.

The thing is, that by the time the vlog went up, they knew it was nothing, and they still turned it into clickbait. They had time to think about things, and edit, and they chose to make it as dramatic and over the top as possible. And that is where I have a problem. It's not as though this was a live stream. I don't have a problem with her getting it checked out. Of course you're going to-- especially if you've had a still birth. I was lucky. I did one round of Clomid with my daughter, and two with my son, and except for puking my brains out the entire nine months with my son and only gaining 12 pounds total, both kids stayed in until they were supposed to come out, and I didn't have any big issues while pregnant. But I was still pretty vigilant. So I don't fault her for getting checked out, but for all the clickbait drama. Even my daughter was over it. She woke up this morning, didn't even watch, and said "So did Finn come, or what?" And I said no, she peed herself-- and she rolled her eyes.

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Unread post by **az2639** » Sat Aug 29, 2015 5:55 pm

On Bryan's Twitter it says "we had a bit of a scare and had to rush Missy to the emergency room"...rush? Quit exaggerating and lying to get views Bryan!!!! Wait till there is actually a scare and you really have to rush her to the hospital. Hoping that doesn't happen for Finns sake.

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Unread post by **sbandob3** » Sat Aug 29, 2015 6:08 pm

lmmomSD wrote:
sbandob3 wrote:I'm willing to give Missy the benefit of the doubt on this. I was at exactly 33 weeks with my second son and during a check-up my midwife noticed I was having contractions. They sent me to the hospital and monitored me for five hours, gave me water and food and the contractions still wouldn't stop. They wanted to put me on an IV and give me fluids and medicine to stop the contractions but I wasn't even feeling them and they let me go home and just told me to watch for any signs of labor and come back immediately if anything happened. I was feeling more nervous after awhile but for the first couple of hours I was still calm, happy, joking with my husband over text, laughing with the nurses, etc. I was still assuming it was going to be nothing- and it wasn't, my son ended up being three days late and weighing 10 pounds. I was feeling silly making such a big fuss in the hospital when I felt deep down that it was probably nothing serious. But Missy kept saying the whole time that she was thinking it was just pee. She probably just assumed it was pee, and didn't want to get too worked up yet. And she was right. And good for her for getting it checked out anyways, just to be safe. I guess the only part I don't get is that she's had losses before and those of you who have experienced that seem to be more wary of those situations.
Sorry for the double post.

The thing is, that by the time the vlog went up, they knew it was nothing, and they still turned it into clickbait. They had time to think about things, and edit, and they chose to make it as dramatic and over the top as possible. And that is where I have a problem. It's not as though this was a live stream. I don't have a problem with her getting it checked out. Of course you're going to-- especially if you've had a still birth. I was lucky. I did one round of Clomid with my daughter, and two with my son, and except for puking my brains out the entire nine months with my son and only gaining 12 pounds total, both kids stayed in until they were supposed to come out, and I didn't have any big issues while pregnant. But I was still pretty vigilant. So I don't fault her for getting checked out, but for all the clickbait drama. Even my daughter was over it. She woke up this morning, didn't even watch, and said "So did Finn come, or what?" And I said no, she peed herself-- and she rolled her eyes.

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Oh, I understand and totally agree with that- I think the clickbait is ridiculous. Even the minions were saying "the title freaked me out!". I'm just referring to the comments that criticised Missy for seeming so care-free before they knew everything was okay. I don't think that She would truly want or be happy if Finn was born at 33 weeks.

Unread post by **tml43** » Sat Aug 29, 2015 6:25 pm

loopdeloop wrote:Oh my gosh, choose a closer hospital. I was in the car for 20 minutes while dilated at a 7, and it was absolutely miserable the whole way. I think Missy was induced for Gabriel, which means if she does a VBAC, things will progress much faster than a mother's first vaginal birth.

Wasn't Oliver born at Cedars-Sinai in LA? I bet that's where they're going again, since a lot of *~*~*Celbs*~*~* have babies there. I looked up the map for it, and it says 1:37 from where they live.

Unread post by **HelloSweetie** » Sat Aug 29, 2015 6:29 pm

tml43 wrote:
loopdeloop wrote:Oh my gosh, choose a closer hospital. I was in the car for 20 minutes while dilated at a 7, and it was absolutely miserable the whole way. I think Missy was induced for Gabriel, which means if she does a VBAC, things will progress much faster than a mother's first vaginal birth.
Wasn't Oliver born at Cedars-Sinai in LA? I bet that's where they're going again, since a lot of *~*~*Celbs*~*~* have babies there. I looked up the map for it, and it says 1:37 from where they live.

Pretty sure he was born in San Diego.

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Unread post by **tml43** » Sat Aug 29, 2015 6:34 pm

HelloSweetie1 wrote:
tml43 wrote:
loopdeloop wrote:Oh my gosh, choose a closer hospital. I was in the car for 20 minutes while dilated at a 7, and it was absolutely miserable the whole way. I think Missy was induced for Gabriel, which means if she does a VBAC, things will progress much faster than a mother's first vaginal birth.
Wasn't Oliver born at Cedars-Sinai in LA? I bet that's where they're going again, since a lot of *~*~*Celbs*~*~* have babies there. I looked up the map for it, and it says 1:37 from where they live.
Pretty sure he was born in San Diego.

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Oh okay. I swore I remember seeing it saying Cedars-Sinai before - my mistake!

Unread post by **Sapphire** » Sat Aug 29, 2015 6:50 pm

Wow. Mimi also has a brand new car. So, does the whole Hollister family spend money all the time, or...?

And they both got brand new cars. I swear it's like Missy and Mimi are like " let's do this at the exact same time! Twinsies! Hehehe! "

Ick.

Unread post by **Acbsktbll** » Sat Aug 29, 2015 6:58 pm

Mimi most likely upgraded or had a lease car.

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Unread post by **[kayrawrr]** » Sat Aug 29, 2015 7:05 pm

So she bought all the toy Story bedding for Ollie to use for a few weeks, just to redecorate his entire room for the 3rd time with all new bedding? They're so damn wasteful with they're money, it's sickening.

Unread post by **Cgl33** » Sat Aug 29, 2015 7:26 pm

Congratulations Sapphire!

It's so frustrating to see these two use click bait. What if something really scary had happened? It is so insensitive to use these titles considering people actually go through this situations that Bryan and Missy tease about. They are so immature that it's scary they are breeding.

Sat Aug 29, 2015 8:57 pm

I don't think it's dumb of her to get the fluid checked out. Her insisting its just pee even though "it doesn't smell like pee, it just smells weird" (quoting loosely) then when the hospital tells her pee it turns into "I don't think it was pee, but I don't know what was" is just so dumb. I do not believe it was vaginal discharge. I've never had discharge running down my legs after coughing during either of my pregnancies. She totally just pissed herself. End of story, case closed. But the annoying part she insists that's not the right diagnosis. And you can tell she gets that skepticism from Suzanne, because in the video Bryan says that it turns out it was pee and Suzanne butts in correcting him that they can't say what it is exactly, only that it's not amniotic fluid. Cue Missy's change in opinion about the pee.

On top of that, the dramatics on social media about it. EYEROLL!

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Sat Aug 29, 2015 8:58 pm

I don't think it's dumb of her to get the fluid checked out. Her insisting its just pee even though "it doesn't smell like pee, it just smells weird" (quoting loosely) then when the hospital tells her pee it turns into "I don't think it was pee, but I don't know what was" is just so dumb. I do not believe it was vaginal discharge. I've never had discharge running down my legs after coughing during either of my pregnancies. She totally just pissed herself. End of story, case closed. But the annoying part she insists that's not the right diagnosis. And you can tell she gets that skepticism from Suzanne, because in the video Bryan says that it turns out it was pee and Suzanne butts in correcting him that they can't say what it is exactly, only that it's not amniotic fluid. Cue Missy's change in opinion about the pee.

On top of that, the dramatics on social media about it. EYEROLL!

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Sat Aug 29, 2015 9:05 pm

Ugh, sorry for double post!

Eager to see if tomorrow's vlog is full of the, "I really need to start relaxing and taking it easy"

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Unread post by **VJ13** » Sat Aug 29, 2015 9:07 pm

Have I missed something about Missy's new ring? Is it yet another wedding ring? When did that come along?

Sat Aug 29, 2015 9:19 pm

VJ13 wrote:Have I missed something about Missy's new ring? Is it yet another wedding ring? When did that come along?

They haven't talked about it. But it honestly looks like a right hand fashion ring she's wearing as a wedding band. I could be wrong. My guess is it's probably a retail value of $1,500 ish. A lot of tiny diamonds on a huge hunk of white gold.

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Sat Aug 29, 2015 9:21 pm

Oh and it appeared in the St.Croix vids. I think their first night was their anniversary and Bryan talked about his new band. But they didn't talk about Missy's. It's probably one of the only big splurges they haven't ever talked about in the vlogs!

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Unread post by **littleb0586** » Sat Aug 29, 2015 9:35 pm

Honestly, she could be wearing a different ring because her hands are swelling from the pregnancy. I was barely able to make it through my pregnancy with my rings on... But there were a few hot days in the beginning of June when I had to take them off because the swelling was too much! That could be a simple explanation. But I'm not surprised she hasn't mentioned it... She's have to admit that she's gaining weight... Even if it's just fluid! Lol

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Sat Aug 29, 2015 9:58 pm

Unless that ring was way too big when she originally bought it, swelling fingers would not make sense for the new ring. The thickness of that band would require you to go up approximately 2 ring sizes (without swelling. So if she's normally a size 5, this newer ring would require about a size 7 to fit that normal size 5). And I doubt Missy had a diamond ring that was more than 2 sizes too big lying around. Especially since she's made it so clear she's not a jewelry girl and never thought she would own a diamond ring, as she said in her engagement ring story.

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