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Aaliyah_uk wrote:Are you serious , v is a grown woman and she can't jot down some basic info , I would be seriously annoyed if my hubby called momma after a two month absence, I don't think I'm the possessive type , but seriously David needs to cut that cord already, he is a married man with two kids now .
Aaliyah_uk wrote:I dunno maybe it's different in the states I guess , in the UK the wife is next of kin after marriage and she is the one told any info not the mommy .
This phone call was on the first day on second I think not after 2 months and it had nothing to do with being more attached to his mom than to V from what I understood...
I am not from the US either but I don't feel like it's linked to why he called. He had 5 minutes to transmit a lot of important information and they prefer him to call his mom who can focus on writing what he said when he called than V who has two kids in charge and could have been disturbed by a child crying or being hungry and needing attention which could have let to the information not being tranmitted correctly. It's seemed quite logical to me to chose to call his mother in that case...
Febe wrote:I was kind of confused when she said he would be gone 8 weeks and then said "this is the last day David will pick up lily. Next time she will be in kindergarten"
Febe wrote:I was kind of confused when she said he would be gone 8 weeks and then said "this is the last day David will pick up lily. Next time she will be in kindergarten"
I know I was confused my this also
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Will Lily start Kindergarten straight after her birthday? Or will she have to wait til the next school year?
In the name of the moon, I shall gossip about you.
Aaliyah_uk wrote:V said the next call would be to his mother , then in the next breath said the call would only be five mins and she'd had a longer one , so you tell me what ton of info can you convey a just a few mins , pleasantries take most of it ,
I'd find the five mins if it was my hubby if I had to lock myself in the bathroom, for a few mins , jeez any baby can fuss for a few minutes it's not gonna kill them .
It's clear he'd prefer to call home as in his mum .
JFC. If she locked herself in the bathroom and said it in a vlog "David called witha ton of information and Charlie was crying and Lily was playing and I had to lock myself in the bathroom" people would have an epic fucking fit. You can say alot in 5 minutes. "Hi mom, I miss you. Ok I only have 5 minutes so here's the info..." his mom clearly knows the call is to pass info not chit chat.
I would probably rather call my mom then my husband if I had a limited amount of time to convey important info... doesnt mean I dont love and adore my husband.
Febe wrote:I was kind of confused when she said he would be gone 8 weeks and then said "this is the last day David will pick up lily. Next time she will be in kindergarten"
I know I was confused my this also
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Will Lily start Kindergarten straight after her birthday? Or will she have to wait til the next school year?
In the U.S., school always starts in August or September (sometimes July, depends on the state). But it's always around autumn or just before. I don't think Lily would just transfer in the middle of the school year, so she will not start for several months.
I know Vanessa said they would wait and see if Lily was ready for kindergarten, so I guess she is ready to go on schedule with her age group. That's great!
Ahhh Thankyou! I wasn't sure. We start the new school year end of January.
I got the gist that it would be Davids last time picking her up from Preschool and next time he see her she will be in Kindergarten. I'm just curious when she would start.
In the name of the moon, I shall gossip about you.
in the new day in the life video she said lily wanted a braid but vanessa only braided the top half of her hair leaving the lower half down to hide her neck i suspect....vanessa needs to quit being so insecure about her neck and give her a full braid! that would look cute on her!
I'm really enjoying these vlogs. I feel like she's really struggling with the two kids, a needy newborn, pets, cooking, dropping and picking up lily from school , grocery shopping, you know the works basically..But I like that she's struggling because she feels more relatable ? Is that weird? I know we only see one day so who knows what really goes on day to day or if she gets help from Nona..just crazy how much her life has changed and how she seems more real.
The yeah no needs to stop tho lol.
Girl get a damn stroller!!! You shouldn't have bought and expensive car seat if you couldn't afford a stroller!! I don't know how anyone can carry the carrier around without the travel system! It makes life so much easier!! Those things aren't light especially as your baby grows! And really in the store carrying it around? Girl save yourself and get a stroller.
Aaliyah_uk wrote:Are you serious , v is a grown woman and she can't jot down some basic info , I would be seriously annoyed if my hubby called momma after a two month absence, I don't think I'm the possessive type , but seriously David needs to cut that cord already, he is a married man with two kids now .
Aaliyah_uk wrote:I dunno maybe it's different in the states I guess , in the UK the wife is next of kin after marriage and she is the one told any info not the mommy .
This phone call was on the first day on second I think not after 2 months and it had nothing to do with being more attached to his mom than to V from what I understood...
I am not from the US either but I don't feel like it's linked to why he called. He had 5 minutes to transmit a lot of important information and they prefer him to call his mom who can focus on writing what he said when he called than V who has two kids in charge and could have been disturbed by a child crying or being hungry and needing attention which could have let to the information not being tranmitted correctly. It's seemed quite logical to me to chose to call his mother in that case...
Aaliyah_uk wrote:Are you serious , v is a grown woman and she can't jot down some basic info , I would be seriously annoyed if my hubby called momma after a two month absence, I don't think I'm the possessive type , but seriously David needs to cut that cord already, he is a married man with two kids now .
Aaliyah_uk wrote:I dunno maybe it's different in the states I guess , in the UK the wife is next of kin after marriage and she is the one told any info not the mommy .
This phone call was on the first day on second I think not after 2 months and it had nothing to do with being more attached to his mom than to V from what I understood...
I am not from the US either but I don't feel like it's linked to why he called. He had 5 minutes to transmit a lot of important information and they prefer him to call his mom who can focus on writing what he said when he called than V who has two kids in charge and could have been disturbed by a child crying or being hungry and needing attention which could have let to the information not being tranmitted correctly. It's seemed quite logical to me to chose to call his mother in that case...
No it wasn't the military she clearly said we decided, and she didn't say after a day or so she said the next call , and clearly didn't know when they'd be able to talk again , I know I have three kids but I'm very competent, and I am more than capable of taking down basic info regardless, in fact I work from home and deal with important info all the time smh, it's called multi tasking from what you say David obviously thought v wasn't up to the job which is crazy , us women deal with kids on a daily basis and it's part of life it certainly doesn't mean you still can't be responsible at least not in my world .
Ummm I rather my husband talk to our kids he hasn't seen or heard for weeks for 5-10minutes than me having to lock myself in a bathroom with a pen and paper to take down information, and risk my five year old cry and scream why she couldn't talk to Daddy. His mother can take the info call.
In the name of the moon, I shall gossip about you.
No it wasn't the military she clearly said we decided, and she didn't say after a day or so she said the next call , and clearly didn't know when they'd be able to talk again , I know I have three kids but I'm very competent, and I am more than capable of taking down basic info regardless, in fact I work from home and deal with important info all the time smh, it's called multi tasking from what you say David obviously thought v wasn't up to the job which is crazy , us women deal with kids on a daily basis and it's part of life it certainly doesn't mean you still can't be responsible at least not in my world .
Yue195 wrote:Ummm I rather my husband talk to our kids he hasn't seen or heard for weeks for 5-10minutes than me having to lock myself in a bathroom with a pen and paper to take down information, and risk my five year old cry and scream why she couldn't talk to Daddy. His mother can take the info call.
She said she had no clue when she would speak to him again , my husbands business is mine and his , it's the way it is for most people , if there is information about my husband I don't want it conveyed third party ,
And v kids don't scream Lilly is always in her room or school and a newborn sleeps a ton , I would simply pop into another room with a paper and pen its five mins , lily clearly spends way longer alone .
And also how would the kids know it's their dad unless told so why would they be crying for him .
Maybe you would like your husband giving all his info to his mother and I respect that , you need to accept that I wouldn't , if my hubby was away I am more than capable of dealing with it and anything else that came up , I have a feeling it was davids decision, many think he went into the military in the first place due to family pressure , as I said he needs to cut the cord
Aaliyah_uk wrote:She said she had no clue when she would speak to him again , my husbands business is mine and his , it's the way it is for most people , if there is information about my husband I don't want it conveyed third party ,
And v kids don't scream Lilly is always in her room or school and a newborn sleeps a ton , I would simply pop into another room with a paper and pen its five mins , lily clearly spends way longer alone .
And also how would the kids know it's their dad unless told so why would they be crying for him .
Maybe you would like your husband giving all his info to his mother and I respect that , you need to accept that I wouldn't , if my hubby was away I am more than capable of dealing with it and anything else that came up , I have a feeling it was davids decision, many think he went into the military in the first place due to family pressure , as I said he needs to cut the cord
Alright so what does Vanessa do if she's dropping Lilly off.? Or what if Vanessa is driving or what if she's out with two kids at the grocery store?. Can't just lock yourself in the bathroom and leave your kids. Sorry not everyone is a perfect mom like you.
Okay so coming from a military spouse whose husband was gone for 13 weeks of basic we got snail mail info lol basically my husband took care of what he had to before he left, then I would get information from his training station through the mail. Everything I needed to know/do was in a large orange envelope that they mailed to me. I was only allowed to talk to my husband once in those 13 weeks for 10 minutes and he was able to give me the info I needed and still talk to his some for a good 6 minutes. What I'm not understanding is why the mother is apart of it, when Vanessa should be responsible enough to quickly get info and be able to do what she has to do. My question still remains the same... What is she going to do if he moves all the way across the state and she has nobody to help her? Considering David needs a lot of pushing I can see it being a huge strain on them in the future. They need to learn to solely rely on themselves. (I didn't watch the vlog and don't plan on it, I'm just going based on comments lol)
tieruhhlynn wrote:Okay so coming from a military spouse whose husband was gone for 13 weeks of basic we got snail mail info lol basically my husband took care of what he had to before he left, then I would get information from his training station through the mail. Everything I needed to know/do was in a large orange envelope that they mailed to me. I was only allowed to talk to my husband once in those 13 weeks for 10 minutes and he was able to give me the info I needed and still talk to his some for a good 6 minutes. What I'm not understanding is why the mother is apart of it, when Vanessa should be responsible enough to quickly get info and be able to do what she has to do. My question still remains the same... What is she going to do if he moves all the way across the state and she has nobody to help her? Considering David needs a lot of pushing I can see it being a huge strain on them in the future. They need to learn to solely rely on themselves. (I didn't watch the vlog and don't plan on it, I'm just going based on comments lol)
tieruhhlynn wrote:Okay so coming from a military spouse whose husband was gone for 13 weeks of basic we got snail mail info lol basically my husband took care of what he had to before he left, then I would get information from his training station through the mail. Everything I needed to know/do was in a large orange envelope that they mailed to me. I was only allowed to talk to my husband once in those 13 weeks for 10 minutes and he was able to give me the info I needed and still talk to his some for a good 6 minutes. What I'm not understanding is why the mother is apart of it, when Vanessa should be responsible enough to quickly get info and be able to do what she has to do. My question still remains the same... What is she going to do if he moves all the way across the state and she has nobody to help her? Considering David needs a lot of pushing I can see it being a huge strain on them in the future. They need to learn to solely rely on themselves. (I didn't watch the vlog and don't plan on it, I'm just going based on comments lol)
