Rubba Dub Dub, Rachelle’s In The Tub | R & J | Part 11

[leeiacoccapuffs]

Nobody is going to let them forget about Brynn because of how much they used that loss to gain subscribers and sympathy which has turned in to income for them.
This is called Karma, and they deserve every bit of it.
The internet never forgets.

[leeiacoccapuffs]

I am concerned about Emma. The baby just sits and stares at the camera and doesn’t make a sound. Most babies at that age are wiggling to get away, reaching for the camera “talking” with mommy. I know babies all have different personality’s but I’ve never seen a baby act like that.


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Do you all think she edits out Emma talking and squealing because she thinks it’s Emma being naughty? I mean surely she makes some kind of noises other than crying..
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I am starting to think there is a developmental or neurological delay or condition with Emma. They're always trying to get her to smile and laugh and talk, I don't think Rachelle would edit it out if Emma did make noise.

[leeiacoccapuffs]

Emma is a mood.
Love it.

[icp]

Emma is a mood.
Love it.

God, her eyebrows....what happened?!


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[Ld5]

12th jan - second transfer vlog
25th jan - pregnancy test? Vlog
9th april - where have we been vlog
7th may - pregnancy update vlog
12th may - scary quad results vlog
16th may - brynn stillborn
22nd may - tribute to brynn vlog
30th may - stillborn story vlog
1st june - back at fertility clinic vlog

So just two weeks after loosing Brynn she was back at the fertility clinic. She should have been at a obgyn/gp/councillor

She should have waited three months to get the hormones out of her system, no? Isn’t that the reason why they can’t go now?


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[Ld5]

I haven’t checked to see if the comment is still there but someone asked why she’s cutting back when Justin not working promised their subscribers more uploads and content since he will be around more. I was hoping she would respond to that.


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[hannahbanana98]

I haven’t checked to see if the comment is still there but someone asked why she’s cutting back when Justin not working promised their subscribers more uploads and content since he will be around more. I was hoping she would respond to that.


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It’s still up, so she probably saw it but she’s gonna ignore it.


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[Haulnarse]

just cos they have to use ivf to have a baby doesn’t mean other people “suddenly” get pregnant “without trying” -immature rash, real immature

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[Ld5]

just cos they have to use ivf to have a baby doesn’t mean other people “suddenly” get pregnant “without trying” -immature rash, real immature

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So she posted this two weeks after already visiting the Fertility clinic to get started on another pregnancy? You would think this post would come before that.


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[leeiacoccapuffs]

just cos they have to use ivf to have a baby doesn’t mean other people “suddenly” get pregnant “without trying” -immature rash, real immature

"Would people think that we're trying to forget about Brynn and put all hope in a new baby?"

That's some serious foreshadowing right there.

[Bundy]

So I watched Vera’s 6 month update (Joan and John) mostly because I haven’t watched them since the birth and my youngest son is around the same age so wanted to compare and omg she is a little darling! Pretty much feeding herself with a spoon, babbling lots, interacting and just SO different to Emma. So I gave them the benefit of the doubt given the 2 month age difference between Emma and Vera, went back to Vera’s 4 month update and granted she was a lot less active than now she was still far ahead of Emma at the same age. I won’t comment on Joan and John because I know they get a lot of shit on their thread too but I just couldn’t believe it really.
Let’s see how this turns out, Rachelle still has time to turn it around and stop holding her daughter back. Unless there is actually something developmentally wrong with Emma, in which case we won’t know for a long time... if they even continue vlogging.


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[Veruca_Salt]

I want to withhold judgement because all babies are different in their development, and as long as they are hitting the basic milestones it’s totally fine. Even if they’re delayed a little bit, often they’ll catch up without any diagnosed issue. Maybe Emma is one of those babies.

We do only see a fraction of the day with that family, and in that, we do see Rachelle making a lot of rookie mistakes as a new mom (while she brags about being a teacher and early childhood development professional...cringe).

If she’s sincere about taking a break from YouTube (and I hope she is, but can’t see how because they’re both unemployed), I would hope she’d take the time to actually nurture and foster growth and development in this innocent little person who had no say about having a camera shoved in her face every day.


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[AliCat91]

I want to withhold judgement because all babies are different in their development, and as long as they are hitting the basic milestones it’s totally fine. Even if they’re delayed a little bit, often they’ll catch up without any diagnosed issue. Maybe Emma is one of those babies.

We do only see a fraction of the day with that family, and in that, we do see Rachelle making a lot of rookie mistakes as a new mom (while she brags about being a teacher and early childhood development professional...cringe).

If she’s sincere about taking a break from YouTube (and I hope she is, but can’t see how because they’re both unemployed), I would hope she’d take the time to actually nurture and foster growth and development in this innocent little person who had no say about having a camera shoved in her face every day.


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Agreed. My daughter didn’t walk until a month shy of 2 years. She was, of course, checked by professionals and they said she had hypermobility and would walk at some point, but to look at her she was just a normal baby. They all hit milestones at different points. My daughter is 3.5yo now and loves coming out for a run with me!


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[MiloandMax]

I think the whole "break" is actually for attention and she won't do it. Nor will she learn/grow. She will come back even more on a high horse.

Did she say total break or just uploading less?

[Celia]

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Am I the only one who thinks her response to this comment, particularly the part about Brynn “living in their hearts” seems like they are trying to justify not visiting her at the cemetery.

And the excuse that they don’t show their entire day is honestly bull. They show enough to know they went to Target, Trader Joe’s or just stayed home all day. Plus isn’t the cemetery like 45 minutes away from their house.

I understand that at some point they would need to move on but it’s like they are trying to fill that void with Emma and forget about Brynn entirely. I’m sorry if it feels like I’m reaching.


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I feel like one thing she shouldn’t be picked on about is how she grieves her baby. I don’t think there’s any wrong or right way to grieve. She obviously loved Brynn and was very devastated by her loss as she’s still not the same. I do think that’s one thing that’s not fair for us to judge. It’s like she’s damned if she does and she’s damned if she doesn’t.


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I was going to say this. I actually don’t mind her response at all. She’s right, Brynn isn’t really at that cemetery, so the commenter implying Brynn needs visitors is hurtful and said just to make her feel guilty. I don’t like Rachelle as much as the next person, but she doesn’t have to be at the cemetery every day to grieve her loss. I have family members I miss and grieve, but I don’t visit. I know they’re not my child so it’s different, but that doesn’t mean I miss them less because I don’t go to their grave.

If she never goes to the cemetery again that’s her choice, but it doesn’t mean she doesn’t miss Brynn. If she went all the time, or constantly talked about Brynn people would say she was using her or needed to move on (like Joan with Maeve). I just think grief is hard and while I think she definitely needed help with her feelings after Brynn and got pregnant way too soon (and I do believe she used things about Brynn to gain subscribers) I wouldn’t say she didn’t love her daughter or loves her less because she doesn’t visit a rock in the ground.


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[Ld5]

I think the original poster was asking about it because she’s mentioned before that she would bring Emma to visit her sister’s grave. She definitely talked about it while she was still pregnant.

Just another empty promise to her subscribers along with vlogging more because Justin is home more.

I don’t think she meant that she didn’t love Brynn anymore.


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[Celia]

12th jan - second transfer vlog
25th jan - pregnancy test? Vlog
9th april - where have we been vlog
7th may - pregnancy update vlog
12th may - scary quad results vlog
16th may - brynn stillborn
22nd may - tribute to brynn vlog
30th may - stillborn story vlog
1st june - back at fertility clinic vlog

So just two weeks after loosing Brynn she was back at the fertility clinic. She should have been at a obgyn/gp/councillor

Sorry for the double post, I’m catching up on the thread, but good lord is this timeline scary. This clinic is irresponsible.


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[hannahbanana98]

I think the original poster was asking about it because she’s mentioned before that she would bring Emma to visit her sister’s grave. She definitely talked about it while she was still pregnant.

Just another empty promise to her subscribers along with vlogging more because Justin is home more.

I don’t think she meant that she didn’t love Brynn anymore.


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Thank you, that is what I meant.


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[Celia]

I think the original poster was asking about it because she’s mentioned before that she would bring Emma to visit her sister’s grave. She definitely talked about it while she was still pregnant.

Just another empty promise to her subscribers along with vlogging more because Justin is home more.

I don’t think she meant that she didn’t love Brynn anymore.


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Thank you, that is what I meant.


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Sorry I didn’t mean to come off like I was attacking you. My comment was more disagreeing with the original comment implying Brynn needed visitors.


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[angelmamma]

just cos they have to use ivf to have a baby doesn’t mean other people “suddenly” get pregnant “without trying” -immature rash, real immature

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This makes me mad because she's basically saying her loss trumps everyone else who have had a loss because of IVF. What a bitch. Everyone's baby counts.

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