Trash Rash & Justine: 3 under 3 won't grow a money tree, but regret & resentment is free. | Part 26

[Taykp12]

She has breast milk storage bags on her registry, I have to laugh. I give it 1 month maximum before she’s done breastfeeding. And what makes her think she will have ANY to store?

I’ve been waiting for someone to comment this


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[spicy_dreams]

I actually got the feeling that it’s Justine who is blocking Trashy in her attempts of getting ready.
He was really discouraging about setting up the halo bassinets, cleaning the carseat covers, buying a car... he just kept saying not yet(re:car), laughs at Trashy washing and assembling the car seat, questions the halo set up, do you want to have to manoeuvre around this?! What an asshole!


Yes, the way you prepare and lessen your wife’s anxiety is that you support her need (quite normal) to prepare, set a date for car shopping, do research on cars in your budget, set up halo baskets and leave them in place. clean the house, wash baby clothes. Assemble babies’s dresser. Just be a human and be proactive. Rather than just sit there and be ignorant and laugh at hour wife’s misery he really doesn’t pull his weight.


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Yeah agreed! But I don't think he's the only issue, Rachelle should've still been doing more before now. And if Justin is unaware of how these things work, it's kind of on her to educate him, at least in my opinion. Tell him no, we're doing this, there's no more time to wait. It's pretty normal for dads to be clueless about this shit, especially if they're as young as he is. And unfortunately then it falls onto the wife/mother to show him how it's done. It'd be nice if it wasn't the "woman's job" to educate the husband in that situation but there's no time to fight the patriarchy when you're about to give birth lmao.

Sometimes I am super surprised at how fucking clueless Justin is. I mean he's only like 24, right? But I'm not that much older and I've known plenty of guys who are way more onto it than he is. He likes to pretend he knows everything, and he can be SO cocky. It's like he thinks being a cocky asshole is a fun personality trait! Rachelle isn't much better, so between the two of them I'm surprised they can keep themselves alive, let alone a kid.

Maybe Rachelle doesn't like to set him straight when he's being an idiot about the baby stuff because she doesn't want to look domineering? But then she goes and dominates him in like every other situation, so the balance is off. Maybe if she stopped interrupting him all the time and correcting him on the most unimportant shit, she could set him straight on the baby stuff without looking so controlling. If that is what she's worried about/why she's not saying anything. Personally I love strong women who can tell it how it is to anybody, especially their partners, and I love strong men who aren't so fragile that they can't handle that. As long as there's mutual respect, obviously. But this is Rachelle and Justin we're talking about, I doubt they feel that way.

Also part of Justin telling her not to do all this stuff now, is I think the fact that he desperately wants to look caring and protective. Like when she was washing the car seat cover, he was all "you shouldn't be doing that! You should be resting babe!" But he's OBVIOUSLY saying it for the camera (it was a reenactment of a previous interaction they had) so he's only saying it for the image it gives him. And the way he says these things, while looking into the camera like *you guys hear that? I'm so caring, I'm the perfect husband* .... It just gives me major fake vibes. I wonder what he is covering for? The fact that he's actually super inadequate as a husband and father and even Rachelle, who is hella preggers and was just in hospital, is doing more than him? That must be it. He hates that she's making him look bad. He's got no excuse to not be doing these things, he's just lazy, so when Rachelle goes and does it then he gets mad because he looks bad and he has to overcompensate by being all "you should be resting babe, you don't need to do that, you should've asked me to do it!" I wonder if Rachelle has asked him to do these things in the past but he hasn't, so she's given up on waiting and doing it herself.

[Dani_465]

He definitely finished the contract and then joined reserves. It’s the reserves part that’s sketchy. He was in it for literally two months and then wasn’t.

They mentioned at a later date that the reason why he didn’t continue and sign another contract with the Navy was because they would have sent them to Chicago and they couldn’t handle that. Their look of disgust when they talked about Chicago was what whiny b*tches are made of Lol

They were SO lucky to have stayed based in San Francisco during his contract... others have to relocate all the time.


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He had a shorttttt contract then. He was in what 3/4 yrs? And was quitting in his final year?

A navy contract is 6 yrs plus 2 inactive years as a reservist. 8 yrs total.

No way in hell he fulfilled his contract.

[Tweedles3]

Definitely not supporting Rash having a public registry, or any of that, but breast milk storage bags are actually a good buy whether she BFs or not. If her babies go to the NICU, she can pump at home and freeze some. It really depends on how early the babies are. I met another NICU mom when my twins were born, her son was born around 30 weeks and she had a huge freezer stash at home. I bought cheap milk storage bags, too, but my twins weren’t in the NICU long enough to get a stash going. The hospital provides “Snappies” (measured plastic bottles) for pumping at home that you bring back to the hospital.

I totally agree with Here_2_Talk that Justine is the one holding up their progress with baby prep. He’s probably at fault for the nursery not happening yet, he can’t bear to lose his game room*ahem* office. That twin Halo is huge, and there will be many more huge baby things in every corner of the house. Get used to it, you guys wanted all these kids. They’re not going to have this pristine Insta house for a few more years, just let it go. But I think he’s just really dumb, more than I thought he was. Twins will come when they want to, they’re not going to necessarily wait patiently until Rach hits 35 weeks, or a later induction date. And he’s the one that has to do all the heavy work, so better start now!


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[saltybitters]

He definitely finished the contract and then joined reserves. It’s the reserves part that’s sketchy. He was in it for literally two months and then wasn’t.

They mentioned at a later date that the reason why he didn’t continue and sign another contract with the Navy was because they would have sent them to Chicago and they couldn’t handle that. Their look of disgust when they talked about Chicago was what whiny b*tches are made of Lol

They were SO lucky to have stayed based in San Francisco during his contract... others have to relocate all the time.


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He had a shorttttt contract then. He was in what 3/4 yrs? And was quitting in his final year?

A navy contract is 6 yrs plus 2 inactive years as a reservist. 8 yrs total.

No way in hell he fulfilled his contract.

A standard Navy contract now is 4 years active duty followed by 4 years IRR if you aren't discharged for bad behavior or medical reasons. You also get the final 6 months of any contract dedicated to outprocessing and preparing for civilian or reservist life by going to a ton of classes no one actually pays attention to.

Justin is the epitome of standard for someone who finished active duty, started IRR, and medically discharged from there. Completely unremarkable.

[islasmumma]

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Why is this idiot STILL buying things every freaking day for everything EXCEPT for those two babies she could have any day now. More colouring and craft for Emma, more clothes for Emma. What about buying clothes for the dam babies and doing newborn hauls on instead, those vlogs bring in heaps of views! It baffles me!


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[mamale]

I don’t think Justin is holding her back from preparing at all. They’re both just lazy idiots who still haven’t come to terms with what’s about to hit them.

The shit eating grin and snarky tone he had during the whole “you want to set it up nowwww??? It’s so earrrrrly” bs was definitely him trolling.

Hi Justin. We know you’re here! Get off the internet and your ass. Get your wife some professional mental health help. Stop ignoring your toddler. And get prepared for the two possibly premature, possibly special needs newborns you have coming any day now.


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[HereForTheTeaaa]

“Made a registry as a reminder.”

“ThAnKs To AlL wHo BoUgHt FrOm My ReGiStRy”

Notice now how everything is a lot more expensive and she’s literally asking for two snuggle me organic loungers and a double breast feeding pillow. What a joke, I doubt she’d last more than a month breast feeding the twins. Expensive ass pacifiers and a baby gym that’s over $100?!? What a joke, she’s so transparent she knew her minions would buy from it and now she’s going to continue to add more and more expensive aesthetic items that some poor sucker is gonna buy in the hopes of her shouting them out. Or else guilting higher up YT Mama “friends” into gifting her something.

[Taykp12]

I don’t think Justin is holding her back from preparing at all. They’re both just lazy idiots who still haven’t come to terms with what’s about to hit them.

The shit eating grin and snarky tone he had during the whole “you want to set it up nowwww??? It’s so earrrrrly” bs was definitely him trolling.

Hi Justin. We know you’re here! Get off the internet and your ass. Get your wife some professional mental health help. Stop ignoring your toddler. And get prepared for the two possibly premature, possibly special needs newborns you have coming any day now.


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I agree with this 200%. The second he said that i was like “that’s such bs, he’s literally trolling”. I’m willing to bet they have these babies before 35 weeks. And i honestly hope they do. Just so they can get hit with reality.


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[dramallama429]

She keeps adding stuff too as she notices people buying. Why does she need 2 snuggle me loungers? Doesn’t she already have 2 different size dockatots for her little chuckle doll already? And why the unnecessary onesies and postpartum kit that includes everything you can get for free at the hospital? She is the most unconventional person I’ve seen when it comes to buying shit.

[Ld5]

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Why is this idiot STILL buying things every freaking day for everything EXCEPT for those two babies she could have any day now. More colouring and craft for Emma, more clothes for Emma. What about buying clothes for the dam babies and doing newborn hauls on instead, those vlogs bring in heaps of views! It baffles me!


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Maybe if she had a Emma wear a bib when she ate, she wouldn’t keep ruining her clothes.


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[Taykp12]

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Why is this idiot STILL buying things every freaking day for everything EXCEPT for those two babies she could have any day now. More colouring and craft for Emma, more clothes for Emma. What about buying clothes for the dam babies and doing newborn hauls on instead, those vlogs bring in heaps of views! It baffles me!


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Maybe if she had a Emma wear a bib when she ate, she wouldn’t keep ruining her clothes.


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I commented on their last vlog about how much she’s bought Emma and the lack of shit she’s bought the twins and they deleted my comment. Apparently they can’t take criticism.


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[Tweedles3]

If she’s adding more stuff to her public registry, that’s a real POS move. I get it if they were struggling, but they are living in a $600K home! And these child fans of theirs could be scraping allowance money together, or stealing their parents’ credit cards to buy them shit. Or they convince others to donate, like the young fan who was here last year, whose grandma hand knitted a blanket for Emma. No thank you to anyone, nothing.


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[KarmaViolet]

I wouldn’t be surprised that the disinterest in preparing for the twins comes from her knowing the genders and that they are boys. She keeps buying girly stuff for Emma, but ignores the babies, they have no new clothes, no necessities - it would make sense that she just doesn’t care for the hypothetical boys.


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[islasmumma]

I wouldn’t be surprised that the disinterest in preparing for the twins comes from her knowing the genders and that they are boys. She keeps buying girly stuff for Emma, but ignores the babies, they have no new clothes, no necessities - it would make sense that she just doesn’t care for the hypothetical boys.


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I’ve thought this too, everyone can and will say that they don’t care as long as the baby is healthy but rachelle has stated before that she wants to be a #girlmum. She wanted Brynn to be a girl and she wanted Emma to be a girl, she doesn’t want boys. I honestly think it’s 2 boys and the thought of that is putting her off being excited.


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[littlemiss_sunshine]

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[Ket52]

If she’s adding more stuff to her public registry, that’s a real POS move. I get it if they were struggling, but they are living in a $600K home! And these child fans of theirs could be scraping allowance money together, or stealing their parents’ credit cards to buy them shit. Or they convince others to donate, like the young fan who was here last year, whose grandma hand knitted a blanket for Emma. No thank you to anyone, nothing.


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Really sad and a little concerning that someone would ask their grandma to knit a blanket for a complete stranger off of YouTube though. Rash’s crazy fans (the type that send her stuff even though she clearly can afford to shop all day everyday for useless crap) all seem to be the same type of lonely and obsessive person. She is definitely ungrateful and her fans are absolute suckers for buying stuff off her registry, but If I were Rash I probably would have felt a little uneasy receiving a handmade blanket for my baby from a stranger. Could be why she didn’t mention it.

[ZaGaNoDr1968]

“Made a registry as a reminder.”

“ThAnKs To AlL wHo BoUgHt FrOm My ReGiStRy”

Notice now how everything is a lot more expensive and she’s literally asking for two snuggle me organic loungers and a double breast feeding pillow. What a joke, I doubt she’d last more than a month breast feeding the twins. Expensive ass pacifiers and a baby gym that’s over $100?!? What a joke, she’s so transparent she knew her minions would buy from it and now she’s going to continue to add more and more expensive aesthetic items that some poor sucker is gonna buy in the hopes of her shouting them out. Or else guilting higher up YT Mama “friends” into gifting her something.

Came here to say exactly this!!!
I thought this "list" was for her so she doesn't forget anything. She's literally begging for strangers to fill her non-existent nursery.

I was hospitalized from 26wks until I delivered at 35 weeks. So, no baby shower and yet I still managed to have everything I needed because I was prepared before I went into preterm labor (had preterm with baby before, just not as early. Oh and I didn't have a single baby item from that baby, got rid of everything because it was 5 1/2 years later and I was on BC, thinking I was done having kids lol). So I see absolutely no reason they aren't ready other than laziness and greed.... Waiting on others to purchase her "reminder list" and hoping to get sponsored and sent shit.

Wait, whatever happened to all that stuff she was given that she made a vlog about, had it all in the playroom before it became the playroom? Toddler bed, that huge wagon thing (they used), a white rocking chair and a few other things. She was doing a giveaway of those same items because they sent her double everything. I never heard of a winner and haven't seen any of that stuff since. Guess she sold it all just like her entire nursery she got from the Ellen Mother's Day show with Emma.

[Dani_465]

Fully prepared for this shit but the twins?? God no. Seriously Rachelle get your shit together.

Hate to say it but Emma looks cute in this photo! It’s a first!

[gdmbm76]

I dont think their ages has anything to do with this, it's about their mentality. My hubby and I got married at 21 and 22. The day we got married we left to drive a uhaul from NJ back to Oklahoma with my stuff. We had our first baby 2 days shy of our 2year anniversary. Had our 2nd when our daughter was 6. We did it all on our own. My mom did come out when our 1st was born for 2 mths,I had her 6 weeks early and it was her 1st grandbaby and wanted her to at least experience that because I was already dealing with guilt of moving away. It's their mentality that I have an issue with. You are adults. I feel getting married having kids is an adult decision to make, so you pull up your boot straps and act like adults. Maybe its because of the lack of help we had, but my hubby and I did almost EVERYTHING without much help. Even living next door to his parents, they were older and his mom was really sick and his dad dealing with cancer treatments. Even down to me being in the hospital for 2 weeks, which was an hour and a half drive one way with #3 and having 2 other kiddos at home. We just did what we had to do. I just cant handle the lack of responsibility and motivation with them. They are about to have a lot of children. When are they going to wake up? Our last 3 arent even 2 years apart from each other.... naps?? The only napping I did between all our boys was during my 2 week stay in the hospital because of pprom. And I was just bored. I just cant with them. I get anxiety just thinking about their lack of realization.