Haulnarse wrote:I don’t understand why they waited to see them? They could have brought the boys to the window to see them, multiple times. Actually take them out of their carseats.
Even when they visited, take them out of the carseats and lay them on the bed so she can get a better look at them both together.
Maybe my loss is super fresh, but theres no right way to do this right now, under the circumstances.
Im thankful my aunt got to see my son while she was still somewhat okay. We went to her doorstep at Easter and spent some time sitting on the steps with her and her daughters while she talked to my boy. But its so hard to determine what's okay and what's not. I wish there was no such thing as covid so maybe my son would've had more memories with her.
The fact that they still let her meet the boys and she was able to go knowing her great grandsons is still wonderful.
No matter what happens we will always want more time with our loved ones. Covid has made this incredibly difficult. Its shitty and unfortunate but they will always have that day with her. And thats okay.
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