BumpsAlongTheWay Part 1

[kingoflove21vher]

Oh gosh. I should have clarified. SHE SAYS it's okay because they're her kids and we all is ignorant shits.

[sirenstale]

I just subscribed like two weeks ago, so I've been catching up. I love their editing/filming style, but I hate the cheesy intro. My husband saw me watching this and though Bryan was Missy's obnoxious gay friend. I know this has all been discussed, so I'll add something new. Anyone get annoyed by Missy saying "I saved my son's life"? I mean, when I was pregnant, I was told to call or go to the hospital if I didn't feel any movement for a while. She did right by calling and going, but it's not something I'd brag about.

[peewee]

I just subscribed like two weeks ago, so I've been catching up. I love their editing/filming style, but I hate the cheesy intro. My husband saw me watching this and though Bryan was Missy's obnoxious gay friend. I know this has all been discussed, so I'll add something new. Anyone get annoyed by Missy saying "I saved my son's life"? I mean, when I was pregnant, I was told to call or go to the hospital if I didn't feel any movement for a while. She did right by calling and going, but it's not something I'd brag about.

Yes!! I was just going to comment how annoyed I am with them constantly saying she saved his life. I feel like it's completely over dramatic.

[surferbunny]

I just subscribed like two weeks ago, so I've been catching up. I love their editing/filming style, but I hate the cheesy intro. My husband saw me watching this and though Bryan was Missy's obnoxious gay friend. I know this has all been discussed, so I'll add something new. Anyone get annoyed by Missy saying "I saved my son's life"? I mean, when I was pregnant, I was told to call or go to the hospital if I didn't feel any movement for a while. She did right by calling and going, but it's not something I'd brag about.

I agree with this.. she did in a way by acting on her intuitions as a pregnant woman but that being the title of her vid rubbed my the wrong way, seems cocky a bit to me like she is bragging

she is probably going to say she saved his life for many years to come -___-

[MamatoanAngel]

She listened to her instincts oppose to just listening to the DR telling her she was basically fine, and to drink juice. Had she ignored it, he would have died. He had a clot in his cord, it's not a maybe death,stillbirths are caused by clots all the time.

His heartbeat was hitting the 60's for a reason, the clot was cutting off his oxygen supply. So yes, she did essentially save her sons life.

And you say I'm being nit-picky for pointing out I find it annoying they call him boy?

[peewee]

She listened to her instincts oppose to just listening to the DR telling her she was basically fine, and to drink juice. Had she ignored it, he would have died. He had a clot in his cord, it's not a maybe death,stillbirths are caused by clots all the time.

His heartbeat was hitting the 60's for a reason, the clot was cutting off his oxygen supply. So yes, she did essentially save her sons life.

And you say I'm being nit-picky for pointing out I find it annoying they call him boy?

I think it's more of constantly hearing Brian say it in several vlogs and then title the birth story that she saved his life is what is annoying. We understand, we get it. She listened to her instincts and her baby arrived safely(although I'm sure we would all be saying how dramatic she is if there wasn't something wrong), but we don't need to keep hearing or seeing Brian talk about it.

[surferbunny]

She listened to her instincts oppose to just listening to the DR telling her she was basically fine, and to drink juice. Had she ignored it, he would have died. He had a clot in his cord, it's not a maybe death,stillbirths are caused by clots all the time.

His heartbeat was hitting the 60's for a reason, the clot was cutting off his oxygen supply. So yes, she did essentially save her sons life.

And you say I'm being nit-picky for pointing out I find it annoying they call him boy?

I have not seen one comment where someone said YOU were being nitpicky for being annoyed they call him boy ... so umm what?

[Heartbreakcoverupxo]

I think it's also annoying when he calls him boy too, because I heard him always call Karma that.

I think it's also fine when she says she saved his life because she basically did save his life, but repeating it over and over gets annoying and I can see where you're all coming from.

[BrutalHonesty]

Well she did save his life by doing what she felt was right.. If I was her and went through everything she did, I'd be screaming it from the dang rooftops hoping everyone hears me. No shame here.. lol

[sirenstale]

She listened to her instincts oppose to just listening to the DR telling her she was basically fine, and to drink juice. Had she ignored it, he would have died. He had a clot in his cord, it's not a maybe death,stillbirths are caused by clots all the time.

His heartbeat was hitting the 60's for a reason, the clot was cutting off his oxygen supply. So yes, she did essentially save her sons life.

And you say I'm being nit-picky for pointing out I find it annoying they call him boy?

I'm not disputing the fact that she saved her son. I'm saying I find it annoying to repeat it over and over again and use it as a title. She did right by going to the hospital even though the nurse or midwife told her it was fine.

Not sure this was directed toward me, but I never said anyone was being nit-picky for calling him boy. I wouldn't call my son that if I referred to my dog in that manner.

[pumpkinseed]

A similar thing happened with my youngest son (no movement, low HR, emergency c-section revealed cord problems), but I've never said "I saved his life." I mean, I did, but that's a weird way to put it. I guess it's no worse than any of their other cheesy/melodramatic vlog titles, though.

Honestly, I save my kids' lives at least once a week. I need to start vlogging and every title will be "SUPERMOM SAVES LIFE OF ACCIDENT-PRONE TODDLER FOR THE 1,379TH TIME"

[MamatoanAngel]

Obviously you've never been through a stillbirth. It's not hard to see she feels proud, and as tho she actually had some control over Olivers life,where as with Gabrielle, it was out of her hands. It's not easy to let go of the fact, there was nothing you could do.You always deal with the what if's,this time around she doesn't have to deal with the what if's.

Does she need to talk about it all the time? Naw, but, at the same time, let her have her moment, if anyone deserves it, it's her.

[pumpkinseed]

Obviously you've never been through a stillbirth. It's not hard to see she feels proud, and as tho she actually had some control over Olivers life,where as with Gabrielle, it was out of her hands. It's not easy to let go of the fact, there was nothing you could do.You always deal with the what if's,this time around she doesn't have to deal with the what if's.

Does she need to talk about it all the time? Naw, but, at the same time, let her have her moment, if anyone deserves it, it's her.

I miscarried my daughter in January at 16w4d. I am beyond familiar with the what ifs and the powerlessness. I still think it's a little strange to make the title of her L&D story "I SAVED HIS LIFE." Not a big deal, like I said, on par with their other overly dramatic titles.

[pghmom]

I think they call Ollie boy, and kinda treat him and karma the same, because they haven't had a child for long. They were trying for obviously quite some time with the miscarriage and stillbirth, so they are so used to having a dog and not used to having a baby. They are probably not adjusted to having a son so they are guna be all goofy and overly excited. I wasn't like that (I was excited dont get my wrong) but I also got pregnant by accident and didn't go through what they did so I don't know. I think it's annoying Bryan calls Ollie boy too but I just don't think he realizes a baby needs to sleep and not be messed with and that the baby isn't a puppy lol. I kind of see Bryan in a childish light, with how he acts and wants to play with Ollie and stuff, or how he was saying something about Missy's "pee pee" in one of their recent videos. But I also only recently started watching their videos.

[lovethelifeyoulive]

I'm curious to see Missy do everything on her own once Brian goes back to work. It seems like he does most of the diaper changes and laundry. I wonder if her family will be helping her a lot. I hate expecting help with my kids other then my husband, because it's his job to.

[VolcomCherry]

Maybe, her saying she saved his life helps her get over the fact she had a c section? Sometimes having a c section isn't as easy as it sounds. Not only can it have physical trauma but also emotionally. If this is her way of dealing with it then so what. Especially considering her having miscarriages and losing Gabriel.

[Katieg2009]

I like Missy and Bryan. Some stuff they do does tend to annoy me, but overall for their age they are alot better than some of the other YT couples. Ollie is definitely a cute baby! As for her saving his life, I can see both sides of point of view. However, Ollie was just born. And I know from my experience, I felt like a super woman for just giving birth lol. I agree with PP that it may be her only way to cope with having to have a c section.

[ladybug]

"for their age"?? Idk their exact age but idk they are THAT young.

[Katieg2009]

I think missy is either 22 or 23.

[lovethelifeyoulive]

I don't why but I thought after they had the baby they would eat better and cook more of their meals. Money must not by an issue because it's not cheap eating out all the time.