Daily Bums- DailyDetachedParenting Part 32

[ProSubscriber]

I also came here after Missy was giving her and Bryan pats on the back for being such amaaaaaaaazing parents and that they've done so good raising Ollie to be so calm and good with transitions.

Nothing more cringe-worthy than a mediocre/shit parent thinking they're amazing! In my experience amazing parents are actually pretty humble and often worry that they AREN'T good parents, and as a result actively work on their parenting & relationship with their child.

[pricemb2]

OMG-- can someone please mow Mimi and Papa's lawn? My daughter says Papa "works a lot". So if Bryan and Missy have so much money to throw around, can't they hire a yard service for mom and dad? If they're so grateful for everything, and the folks do help them out a lot, so do something for someone else!
And that "I'm a mechanic now" bit. Hurl. The best was "if you're wondering what song that is, I have a couple of songs up on iTunes" My minion daughter got mad because I said in mock surprise, "No, really?"

I almost made a comment about the yard myself, but then I thought about the fact that our lawnmower bit the dust this summer and we had almost waist high grass before we got a new one and got it mowed (its under control now lmao) felt a bit hypocritical.. lol but at least mine was grass and not random weeds and bare patches. I thought they were working on the backyard? It doesn't look like its been touched. I totally understand that Big Jim works all the time (ps: that's HARD WORK BRY... take a seat) but are Jimmy and Bryan incapable of helping? I feel like Bryan should feel like he should help out with things like that seeing as though MiMi and PaPa help them so much. know bryan is no handy man, but surely the boy can push a mower and sow some grass...

Such a stark contrast to Jared and Joel - who are always helping out their in-laws. (All the while having fun/enjoying time together/Not b*tching) Gah... He's such a lazy turd.


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[ProSubscriber]

They bought yet another electronic item to disconnect themselves from Oliver. They can't even read to their own damn kid any more. Electronics are doing a lot of the "parenting" here. Thank your TV. Thank your iPad. Thank your projector. Thank your electronics for your child's behaviour, slow development, etc. This is not going to help his language development since he needs an actual people to read and talk to him.

I know we talk a lot about Ollie's yelling. But honestly, I was somewhat annoyed when Bryan told him not to scream. No, Bryan, stimulate your fucking kid first before you correct him for letting you know that you are not providing him with ample opportunity for him to play, explore and use up all his energy. Don't neglect him and then decide he can't yell or get rid of his energy in a way he decides to because you fail to find appropriate outlets several (SEVERAL) times a day. I hate people who correct behaviour that is their own damn fault and still fail to get the source of the "misbehaviour." It's like not letting your dog out to use the bathroom but correcting it every time it pisses on the floor. It's your fault. You aren't meeting your kid's needs so he has to find a way to meet his own needs and that is SAD.

[littleb0586]

They bought yet another electronic item to disconnect themselves from Oliver. They can't even read to their own damn kid any more. Electronics are doing a lot of the "parenting" here. Thank your TV. Thank your iPad. Thank your projector. Thank your electronics for your child's behaviour, slow development, etc. This is not going to help his language development since he needs an actual people to read and talk to him.

I know we talk a lot about Ollie's yelling. But honestly, I was somewhat annoyed when Bryan told him not to scream. No, Bryan, stimulate your fucking kid first before you correct him for letting you know that you are not providing him with ample opportunity for him to play, explore and use up all his energy. Don't neglect him and then decide he can't yell or get rid of his energy in a way he decides to because you fail to find appropriate outlets several (SEVERAL) times a day. I hate people who correct behaviour that is their own damn fault and still fail to get the source of the "misbehaviour." It's like not letting your dog out to use the bathroom but correcting it every time it pisses on the floor. It's your fault. You aren't meeting your kid's needs so he has to find a way to meet his own needs and that is SAD.

Everything you said is sooo right on!!!!!

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[Playsinrain]

New dresser?

So Bryan went to Home dept to get screws to mount the tv but can back with a new dresser?? #LanningLogic

[Playsinrain]

And wtf is up w8th that stupid little breakfast Montage.

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What the hell is up with ALL the food montages???? I just suggested DailyFoodMontages for a thread title. No one cares about your pop tarts and cereal. That's not cooking.

[littleb0586]

WTF!?!? She's such an idiot... If you want to take credit for something, at least take credit for something that you actually did.... Any calmness left in Ollie is a direct result of his personality, NOT your parenting... Maybe she forgot that we watch them every day??? We see him being a brat, Missy! You can't hide it. Him sleeping all night at age two does not mean you're a good parent. If anything, it just proves that he was tired. That's it. Case closed.

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[Playsinrain]

Either I'm just picking up on it more or Missy's lisp is more pronounced. She was extra spitty today or something. Ugh.

[HelloSweetie]

Either I'm just picking up on it more or Missy's lisp is more pronounced. She was extra spitty today or something. Ugh.

She was yesterday too, especially when vlogging in the car with Mimi. You're right, it's gross. Missy didn't realize she had a lisp forever because Mimi ignored it... you know, like anything her boys might have wrong.




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[HelloSweetie]

The projector thing makes me so sad for Ollie. Reading to your children is a bonding opportunity. Things get quiet, they have your full attention, as you have theirs and it's just a nice quiet moment before bed. They used to make it look like B would sit in there at story time too, but he didn't now that it's a projector. What a loss for Ollie. I guarantee they bought it because they figure he can put himself to bed once the baby comes. How awful.

My husband and I read to our son every night until he was around 6. Then life got busy and he could read novels to himself so it kinda just stopped. When his brother was born and we started reading to him, we realized how much our 8 year old missed it! He comes in the room every night to hear his brother's nighttime story.... most of which are very babyish. The thing is, it's not about the story, but the moment. Poor Ollie is still just a baby himself, and they are having cold and sterile electronics substitute in as parents. He really is being damaged IMO.

And he's not calm when adjusting to new things. He's shockingly disconnected. How often do we see him smile?


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[lmmomSD]

I am just so aggravated. I want to reach through the TV and shake her. "I didn't feel like doing anything today" So what makes that different from any other day? And forcing your kid to feel the baby kick when he said no, and was obviously weirded out by it, is not cool. If your son is coming down with something and has a runny nose, WHY are you swinging him around upside down and having him swim? And that whole patting herself on the back for being such a great parent. Right. That's why you never read to him, he's not even starting potty training, and he's an out of control brat with no social skills. Even the minions were laughing at her saying he was calm. There were a bunch of comments saying "he's such a calm child-- cut to 5:16"
One person even commented about how "awesome" the projector was, and I actually started typing "not as awesome as actually reading to your child" but I didn't want to deal with the minions attacking me.
And being out of gravy mix. Make gravy from scratch, dumbness. It's not that hard.

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[Sykes]

New dresser?

Looks like Oliver's old one.

[Playsinrain]

New dresser?

Looks like Oliver's old one.

Well I would applaude them for it if it was, they actually reused something!!!!!

[saltliferocks]

They bought yet another electronic item to disconnect themselves from Oliver. They can't even read to their own damn kid any more. Electronics are doing a lot of the "parenting" here. Thank your TV. Thank your iPad. Thank your projector. Thank your electronics for your child's behaviour, slow development, etc. This is not going to help his language development since he needs an actual people to read and talk to him.

I know we talk a lot about Ollie's yelling. But honestly, I was somewhat annoyed when Bryan told him not to scream. No, Bryan, stimulate your fucking kid first before you correct him for letting you know that you are not providing him with ample opportunity for him to play, explore and use up all his energy. Don't neglect him and then decide he can't yell or get rid of his energy in a way he decides to because you fail to find appropriate outlets several (SEVERAL) times a day. I hate people who correct behaviour that is their own damn fault and still fail to get the source of the "misbehaviour." It's like not letting your dog out to use the bathroom but correcting it every time it pisses on the floor. It's your fault. You aren't meeting your kid's needs so he has to find a way to meet his own needs and that is SAD.

Everything you said is sooo right on!!!!!

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My heart dropped a little for Ollie yesterday, when I watched Ellie playing, 'Arms, fingers, legs & toes' with Jackson. The Bums never have any interactive play with Ollie. Missy, you should not give yourself any sort of praise for being an amazing parent (or pet owner). You are far from being a good & decent person, let alone a wonderful parent. Bryan, gain some self-esteem, and stop settling for a wife who is clearly not in love with you. That video when you picked her up from the airport made me so sad for you. She is borderline repulsed by you, 'bro'.
I honestly feel that Shay was referring partially to the Bumps during his podcast about people having babies to gain YouTube views.

[kittypurry]

http://i.imgur.com/XzvQyvL.jpg

Le sigh


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[littleb0586]

Yeah, I had the same thought. I've never seen them teach him a song, or so anything that requires more than turning in an electronic device. They read to him, buy only for the camera I'm sure... You never see them reading to him in the background of the vlog or anything.

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[Fuzzybunz]

"He might have a headache" *next clip Bryan is hanging him upside down and swinging him...* Such AMAZING parents guize.

[HelloSweetie]

Yeah, I had the same thought. I've never seen them teach him a song, or so anything that requires more than turning in an electronic device. They read to him, buy only for the camera I'm sure... You never see them reading to him in the background of the vlog or anything.

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Oh, expect to see that tomorrow


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[Deadhead_kay]

I still find it so ironic that some people on this forum judge parents for letting their kids watch dailybumps(+others) and then there are members here who have kids that love the bums.

[lmmomSD]

I still find it so ironic that some people on this forum judge parents for letting their kids watch dailybumps(+others) and then there are members here who have kids that love the bums.

I don't judge people for letting their kids watch them. I'm one of the parents whose kid loves them. However, I do interact with my daughter about it. I don't just let her watch them and think they're "awesome"without any commentary. I _think_ she mostly watches them because she likes little kids so much. She's started watching Ellie and Jared too, and is picking up on the differences, so I have hope. I'm not as snarky with her as I am here, because that will just make her tune me out, but we talk about it for sure.
If I judge parents in conjunction with this, it would be parents that don't talk to their kids about it, who let their kids think this is the way to live, and that B &M are "awesome parents". I read the comments on the vlog, and there are kids who say "you're the best parents ever! Would you adopt me?" And I think that's really sad.

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