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hannahbanana wrote:If you watch the vlogs of Ollie in the hospital, you'll notice that the only time Missy is holding him is when she's feeding him. She even makes a comment about how she took a bunch of pictures of her feeding him.
Even when they brought him home from the hospital, Missy would wake up to feed Ollie, then wake up Bryan to change his diaper, then go to back to sleep. Sorry but I call bs on the whole, "I wake up Bryan to change Ollie so they could bond". I have no idea how changing a diaper is considered bonding with your newborn.
She doesn't know how to bond unless she's breastfeeding...once Finn weans, she'll pawn him over to Suzanne and Cassie.
Changing diapers can be bonding, especially with a newborn. There isn't much they need besides a full tummy and a clean diaper in those early days. I ebf and change 95% of diapers, not that I mind! My son loves having his butt cleaned so I think my husbands missing out on all the smiles lol. I do think Missy pawned it off on Bryan because she's lazy, not so that he could bond though.
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hannahbanana wrote:If you watch the vlogs of Ollie in the hospital, you'll notice that the only time Missy is holding him is when she's feeding him. She even makes a comment about how she took a bunch of pictures of her feeding him.
Even when they brought him home from the hospital, Missy would wake up to feed Ollie, then wake up Bryan to change his diaper, then go to back to sleep. Sorry but I call bs on the whole, "I wake up Bryan to change Ollie so they could bond". I have no idea how changing a diaper is considered bonding with your newborn.
She doesn't know how to bond unless she's breastfeeding...once Finn weans, she'll pawn him over to Suzanne and Cassie.
Changing diapers can be bonding, especially with a newborn. There isn't much they need besides a full tummy and a clean diaper in those early days. I ebf and change 95% of diapers, not that I mind! My son loves having his butt cleaned so I think my husbands missing out on all the smiles lol. I do think Missy pawned it off on Bryan because she's lazy, not so that he could bond though.
I agree with you on that, when we first heard that Missy wakes Bryan up in the middle of the night, many bumpers were upset with Missy because Bryan worked at the time and how she might as well changed him since she was already up. That's why I said it was bs of Missy saying it's so Bryan and Ollie can bond, in reality she did that so she could go to sleep. IMO I could never do that to my husband because he works his butt off, my husband would try to help me with feeding and changing as much as he could but I could never wake him to do that if I was already up.
Missy is just lazy, I think that Suzanne or Cassie will live with them during the first few weeks and Missy will say something like, "after I breastfed Finn, I wake up my mom or sister so she could change him, it's so they can bond you guys!"
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Exactly. My ex worked his butt off, and I had to be up to BF anyway. Changing a diaper takes two minutes. I never woke him up, and after being on aircraft carriers, he could sleep through anything anyway. There's plenty of time to bond during the day.

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I think Missy's reality is going to crumble after Finn gets here. She probably has in her mind this perfect image of two kids, both quiet and her being able to sit on her ass all day and not do anything except stick a nipple in Finn's mouth, when it's the exact opposite. She's not going to know what hit her and it's going to be amazing to watch.
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She doesn't even seem to like kids. Why does she want them so badly?

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lmmomSD wrote:She doesn't even seem to like kids. Why does she want them so badly?

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She actually just wants cute little dolls.
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I bet after Bryan's EP comes out (and flops miserably), there will be a lot less time in the studio because Missy won't be able to handle Ollie screaming and waking up the baby/hitting the baby while she's trying to breastfeed. And I love that she assumes Finn will breastfeed with no issues...
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I want children because I actually genuinely want to be a mother to either all boys, or a mix, or all girls (I don't care about the gender, just please God do not let me go through another still-birth) I'm blessed with an angel daughter, and an alive, rainbow son, and am pregnant again, and let me tell you, if this baby is a girl, I'm happy as a pig in shit, and if this baby is a boy, then again, I'm happy as a pig in shit.
I actually genuinely want to take care of my children for the rest of my life. I love changing diapers, I love feeding them, I love teaching them, I love playing with them, I love coloring and painting with them, I love watching them grow into little me's (or little husband) I love just taking care of children, ESPECIALLY my own children.

Missy doesn't like the work. She just likes the cuteness. She basically just wants slaves, or little cute dolls.
Look at how she is with Oliver. She doesn't want to do the work at all.
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We didn't even know what we were having with the first. We wanted a surprise. We did with the second, because we just wanted to know if we should get rid of the girl baby clothes. I just don't understand gender disappointment. I sometimes wish my daughter had a sister because I am close to mine, but there's no guarantee of that, and I wouldn't trade my son for anything!

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What is an EP?
Am I a bad person for wishing that Fin will be the opposite of Ollie? She needs to feel the struggle just like Ellie is struggling with Calvin. Who am I kidding she would have Mimi and auntie at all times. Taking care of everything and taking Ollie away.

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sunshinean wrote:What is an EP?
Am I a bad person for wishing that Fin will be the opposite of Ollie? She needs to feel the struggle just like Ellie is struggling with Calvin. Who am I kidding she would have Mimi and auntie at all times. Taking care of everything and taking Ollie away.

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Yeah, unfortunately, Missy wouldn't really '' feel '' the struggle. She'd use it to her advantage to complain, moan and bitch all the time, but the main point is, she'd have Bryan, Auntie and Mimi to do everything. She'd have them take Oliver and/or take care of Finley.
Ellie, on the other hand, doesn't rely on mommy and her sisters for everything. She has Jared, yes, but she doesn't go getting help from other family members.

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Again... Edited to add: An EP (short for extended play) is a musical recording that contains more music than a single, but is usually too short to qualify as a full studio album or LP. :)
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sunshinean wrote:What is an EP?
Am I a bad person for wishing that Fin will be the opposite of Ollie? She needs to feel the struggle just like Ellie is struggling with Calvin. Who am I kidding she would have Mimi and auntie at all times. Taking care of everything and taking Ollie away.

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An EP is like an album, only with fewer songs.

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Bryan took two Instagram photo's of Oliver sitting on him and I guess they are playing or whatever, but guess where Missy is? Guess what she's doing?

That's right! She's sitting on the couch! As usual! :hee:
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Not only on the couch, but pretty much with her back to them, and her phone out. Notice he added "family man" back to his bio. Hi, Bryan!

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I could see Finn's arrival not phasing Missy at all. As long as he breastfeed a as well as Oliver did, she has it so easy with him now by ignoring him and pawning him off... It's not like she will suddenly be involved with Oliver again. I totally foresee, "wow I was so nervous about transitioning from one child to two, but it's so easy."


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I went to go look at the photos on Bryans Instagram you mentioned and this comment made me giggle on the inside. Bryan hasn't been able to delete just yet.

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That's what they work so hard at-- not filming and editing, but making sure all negative comments get deleted asap. It's literally a full time job, guizze!

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lmmomSD wrote:That's what they work so hard at-- not filming and editing, but making sure all negative comments get deleted asap. It's literally a full time job, guizze!

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Yes, because they really just '' want a positive, and loving area ''. A '' safe place ''. They don't do this for us, remember? ;)
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Wow. I just re-watched the '' PROJECTILE SPIT-UP '' vlog from December 20th, 2013. It starts at 6:08.

Missy gets a letter from Kelsey, her '' best friend '', and immediately Missy is all giggles and excitement. It's a letter requesting that Missy be her bridesmaid, and Missy is LITERALLY full of giggles, laughter, excitement, smiles and actual tears.
That's from Kelsey.

Bryan does something sweet for her, gets her presents (birthday or christmas present, whatever), she's just blank. Full of '' eh and meh ''.
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