Tara Spenderson- Begging for babies from her spouse to pay for another house | Part 13

[THC]

I can't even believe he is a Marine.
My husband is a Marine, been out for over 20 years, but once a Marine always a Marine. Adam is an embarrassment to The Corps. No Marine I've ever known acts the way he does. Seems more like he was in the Navy. Sorry Navy folks.

[mssqueen233]

I can't even believe he is a Marine.
My husband is a Marine, been out for over 20 years, but once a Marine always a Marine. Adam is an embarrassment to The Corps. No Marine I've ever known acts the way he does. Seems more like he was in the Navy. Sorry Navy folks.

Adam should of join the coast guard


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[nicolefrost]

A video or two ago she got him saying momma. My 9 month old has 3 teeth and 3 more coming in. She should keep giving him formula even at 1 year old, way more nutrition than whole milk, like for real Tara?? And seriously she should watch some YouTube videos to learn how to cook. Cook for your damn kids Tara! Another thing that is so damn annoying is her saying “i forgot this I forgot that” FFS!!!! That is so embarrassing for you and the fact you really just do the basics for your kids, it’s pretty sad

Yeah he doesn’t say any of the normal baby words. Babies naturally say mamama, dadada, babababa. He says none of it. I never, not once promoted my kids to say dada or baba one because dada sounds odd to me and 2 my kids never took bottles yet they still said those words nonstop on repeat...My point here is babies/toddlers will try an talk and what’s easiest is dada and baba and everything seems to be dada mama and baba. I can just see
her making a huge ass deal when finally makes noise. I can’t believe Greyson still isn’t even trying to explore what is just his nature to explore the mouth and make noise and he doesn’t seem to do it. Make you think what she is doing to keep him and the others son quiet.

I would be far less concerned about the speech and more worried about the fact that he doesn't seem 'aware' of things going on. His cognitive abilities are more of a concern. People tend to put a lot of weight on speech, and will rush their kids to a speech therapist if they aren't speaking in sentences by age 2 but it's totally normal for a child under the age of 2.5/3 to not speak much, even with older siblings! It's about noticing the cues for other types of delayed behaviour - eye movement, recognition of faces, noises and things, engaging with music or videos etc. The real worry is when delayed speech is accompanied with other red flags and Greyson just seems a little vacant which might be an issue later on...

It's clear that because they've basically strapped him down for so many months and basically ignored him, he's not picking up the normal things a kid his age should. I don't get the impression that his sisters try with him either, you never see them playing!

So true! My 8 year old never really said more then mama till he was 2.5 so we rushed him into speech at the request of doctors. While speech did help I think just giving him the time would have done the same thing.

We have a almost 10 month old who crawls and gets into everything pulls things off the couch, out of containers, tried to steal my phone, uses his siblings as play mats. Those are normal baby things. I’ve never seen Grayson do anything but play in a walker or his jumper.

My kids are 14,10 and 8 and constantly play with their baby brother and lug him around, read him books, tickle him etc I have never seen baylee or shay play with Grayson at all. Ever. It’s so weird!


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[THC]

I can't even believe he is a Marine.
My husband is a Marine, been out for over 20 years, but once a Marine always a Marine. Adam is an embarrassment to The Corps. No Marine I've ever known acts the way he does. Seems more like he was in the Navy. Sorry Navy folks.

Adam should of join the coast guard


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Yes

[gab91]

I just watched the cleaning video... She has meal delivery for kids??! I don’t understand how she doesn’t cook for her own children or doesn’t make the time. I’m a stay at home mom of twins and a 6 year old, work remotely and my kids get fed homemade meals daily. Yes, I get take out once or twice a week, but the rest is homemade. It’s not difficult. Damn, she’s wanting a fourth kid.


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[begenos1]

Urgggh, I hate these people and their favoritism.

2+ minutes of Baylee swimming footage w/ multiple "good job Baylee"

1.5 minutes of Shay swimming footage w/ a 10 second clip of more Baylee praising.
GrAnDpA's gOiNg To Be sO pRoUd oF yOu.


P.S. Grayson is a fucking potato. Nothing to be proud of Tara!

[txsflower2]

Yeah he doesn’t say any of the normal baby words. Babies naturally say mamama, dadada, babababa. He says none of it. I never, not once promoted my kids to say dada or baba one because dada sounds odd to me and 2 my kids never took bottles yet they still said those words nonstop on repeat...My point here is babies/toddlers will try an talk and what’s easiest is dada and baba and everything seems to be dada mama and baba. I can just see
her making a huge ass deal when finally makes noise. I can’t believe Greyson still isn’t even trying to explore what is just his nature to explore the mouth and make noise and he doesn’t seem to do it. Make you think what she is doing to keep him and the others son quiet.

I would be far less concerned about the speech and more worried about the fact that he doesn't seem 'aware' of things going on. His cognitive abilities are more of a concern. People tend to put a lot of weight on speech, and will rush their kids to a speech therapist if they aren't speaking in sentences by age 2 but it's totally normal for a child under the age of 2.5/3 to not speak much, even with older siblings! It's about noticing the cues for other types of delayed behaviour - eye movement, recognition of faces, noises and things, engaging with music or videos etc. The real worry is when delayed speech is accompanied with other red flags and Greyson just seems a little vacant which might be an issue later on...

It's clear that because they've basically strapped him down for so many months and basically ignored him, he's not picking up the normal things a kid his age should. I don't get the impression that his sisters try with him either, you never see them playing!

So true! My 8 year old never really said more then mama till he was 2.5 so we rushed him into speech at the request of doctors. While speech did help I think just giving him the time would have done the same thing.

We have a almost 10 month old who crawls and gets into everything pulls things off the couch, out of containers, tried to steal my phone, uses his siblings as play mats. Those are normal baby things. I’ve never seen Grayson do anything but play in a walker or his jumper.

My kids are 14,10 and 8 and constantly play with their baby brother and lug him around, read him books, tickle him etc I have never seen baylee or shay play with Grayson at all. Ever. It’s so weird!


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Right! I plop my 8 month old down with her two sisters (4 and 2) and they all play together.


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[Justheretogossip]

Yikes. Today’s vid, Something is drastically wrong with Grayson. Poor baby. His mom is a selfish bitch. I can’t stand Tara and Adam. What a tool. The ending tho, CRINGEWORTHY. They come across so entitled. God, I wish her channel/oils/insta would fail. Adam made a comment about “what is that thing called when people work real jobs” and giggled like a girl. Dude has no balls. Tara if you are reading this, you seriously look like a dude, in bed, with a wig on, with your big booty boy toy. YUCK.

Yup. I thought the same thing. Literally no reaction to the water. Just trying to chew his hand because he’s got oral fixation since they’ve shoved a binky in his mouth since day one just to help keep him quiet and for the “OMG so cute paci clips”
That was hard to watch...His arms seemed to be shaking a lot too I wonder what was up with that... I know she said he whined later on but wow and then she said he was chill on his back, well yeah they makes sense since you made him spend the first 8-9 months of his life on his back in a swing or plopped on the floor like a literal potato.
Watching Bailey during her class kinda made me laugh. Sorry not sorry. The instructor isn’t going to show favoritism or baby her. Also what in the world is this I hear? she doesn’t like her face wet? I mean that whole segment just proved that B is an even bigger brat than I thought.
As always Shay was adorable and looked like she was so brave!

[kermite]

Have they never been in a pool before? I'm shocked to see how Baylee acted in the water.

[ChampionshipVinyl1]

My daughter and I moved to a apartment complex when she was about to start first grade and that summer we went to the pool and she figured out how to swim by herself so no in my opinion you don’t have to put your children in swimming lessons.. I know it depends on the children.


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Do you know how many children drown a year? That's never ever a chance I would take, children should always have some kind of swimming lessons

[Deceased]

That clip of Greyson on his back in the water was seriously disturbing. Luckily he is a floater but the fact that he didn’t fight it is far more concerning to me than anything. It just shows that he has no awareness of his surroundings and no reaction to discomfort because he has been trained to accept discomfort and abandonment.

[skippy1931]

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[skippy1931]

gray has had terrible hand and arm shakes from day one. I noticed after bath and people said he was cold. i said it every time we saw her changing him and I got told he is cold. no its not that he is cold there has been shakes from day one . I found yesterday her putting the stupid emjoi of the baby and a bottle on the vlod is her taking a shot at everyone calling her out. remember that tara when you kid is behind of has special needs and he doesn't fit into to your esthetic

[kermite]

Someone made a comment on the video about the instructor massaging his foot and back and asked why. I noticed that too. Definitely a sensory issue.

[MiloandMax1]

It makes me sad to see him like that and Tara being in denial. If there is something wrong she wants to keep private, I respect that but then she posts that stuff and people are going to be concerned. Use your platform. I mean the kids are already messed up from being exploited so if you can talk about delays, etc to help another parent then do so. Its just like her denial with Baylee and how many stories she's told about her speech. Nobody is making fun of her for having speech issues. But then when your a parent and more concerned about having this "perfect" image and that's more important than your children people will be concerned.

I noticed the shaking to when he was a newborn. I often wonder if the snoo messed him up, the kid was shaken on the highest level from day 1. Not blaming the company Tara is just an idiot.

[txsflower2]

Finally had to go watch the vlog for myself. So many thoughts. Have her girls never been in a pool before? Even with a puddle jumper/floaties on? Bailey looked very uncomfortable for a 5 year old.

Grayson...my goodness. I’ve never seen a baby shake like that. It wasn’t shaking like he was trying to stabilize in the water it was very violent and involuntary


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[Cecdavis17]

Yeah he doesn’t say any of the normal baby words. Babies naturally say mamama, dadada, babababa. He says none of it. I never, not once promoted my kids to say dada or baba one because dada sounds odd to me and 2 my kids never took bottles yet they still said those words nonstop on repeat...My point here is babies/toddlers will try an talk and what’s easiest is dada and baba and everything seems to be dada mama and baba. I can just see
her making a huge ass deal when finally makes noise. I can’t believe Greyson still isn’t even trying to explore what is just his nature to explore the mouth and make noise and he doesn’t seem to do it. Make you think what she is doing to keep him and the others son quiet.

I would be far less concerned about the speech and more worried about the fact that he doesn't seem 'aware' of things going on. His cognitive abilities are more of a concern. People tend to put a lot of weight on speech, and will rush their kids to a speech therapist if they aren't speaking in sentences by age 2 but it's totally normal for a child under the age of 2.5/3 to not speak much, even with older siblings! It's about noticing the cues for other types of delayed behaviour - eye movement, recognition of faces, noises and things, engaging with music or videos etc. The real worry is when delayed speech is accompanied with other red flags and Greyson just seems a little vacant which might be an issue later on...

It's clear that because they've basically strapped him down for so many months and basically ignored him, he's not picking up the normal things a kid his age should. I don't get the impression that his sisters try with him either, you never see them playing!

So true! My 8 year old never really said more then mama till he was 2.5 so we rushed him into speech at the request of doctors. While speech did help I think just giving him the time would have done the same thing.

We have a almost 10 month old who crawls and gets into everything pulls things off the couch, out of containers, tried to steal my phone, uses his siblings as play mats. Those are normal baby things. I’ve never seen Grayson do anything but play in a walker or his jumper.

My kids are 14,10 and 8 and constantly play with their baby brother and lug him around, read him books, tickle him etc I have never seen baylee or shay play with Grayson at all. Ever. It’s so weird!


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Heck, my 8.5 month daughter is crawling, working on standing up on her own and talks/bables ALOT. my daughter LOVES to be around my husband and I, when she is she is just so stimulated just being around us. I know a video can only tell a little bit of the day but from I see, Grayson is just not stimulated or excited when he sees his parents.


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[skippy1931]

typical tara she cannot shut her mouth that instructor will either tell her to shut up or leave. shay did amazing . bratty bay yelling gimme me gimme me because shay got her mcflurry first such a brat

[Tman23]

Another boring video. Welp it looks like Shay was feeling it and had some fun in the water. Glad she had a good time. Grayson was super lifeless and then shook like a tree when floating and Queen B freaked out a couple times. Just an update for anyone that didn't watch today. Also Tman thinking the instructor saying Gray is a calm baby isn't a trophy for you Tara. It means he isn't acting like a toddler his age. I barely hear him make any noises even during this lesson. Just sayin.

[kristieanne87]

You guyssss....
Words are hard.

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