lmmomSD wrote: ↑Fri Dec 27, 2019 11:07 pm
I acknowledge the point that they only see Madi a few times a year. But it's been FOURTEEN years, and we don't know when she moved to California, do we? If someone else does, I'd be interested to know.
Sorry, but with the way Mindy's parents throw cash at their blood grandchildren, a little of that should go towards Madi. Mindy likes to make like she's just like a real daughter, when she's not gushing over how having Hazy "completed" her, so they can't have it both ways. Either she's really a part of the family, like they like to say she is, or she's very much a stepchild, with the emphasis on "step". I could be more forgiving if they hadn't known her 14 years. And maybe I'm projecting, because although my ex-husband's wife's family treats my daughter well, she herself is evil stepmother incarnate. All she needs is a poison apple. So I know how much it can hurt. And it's not even about the presents themselves, really. Because Madi isn't a spoiled girl (neither is my daughter-- she refers to her step siblings as brothers and sister, without adding "step"). But Mindy and Branden have called Madi a stepsister, when she isn't. She is their kids half sister.
I think Madi has always lived in California. I think Branden moved to CA, got married, had Madi, got arrested/divorced, then moved home to Utah with his parents to get his act together again.
Like I said before, I don’t think anyone hates anyone. I’d just wager to guess her parents got Madi a gift card or something small, and since Madi isn’t there when the grandparents are, the gift is just not shown on camera. Although I’d also guess it’s not as much as all the other kids gifts, but I’m sure it’s something. I’m also guessing B&M probably just give Madi gift cards or cash so that she doesn’t have to stuff her suitcase with gifts. Or they just ship directly to her. Let’s hope at least!
Branden did mention in a q&a or something that he never heard of the term “half-sister” before because I guess people were telling him he was wrong in comments when he had mentioned Madi as a step-sister. I think he’s just uneducated in that sense, perhaps.