Nchollywood Part 4

[deeznuts]

Allyshia you have every right to keep those kids from him, until further investigation, etc.

[mommaof2cuties]

If that happened to her why would she be so quick to jump into relationship ls and get knocked up? If something like that happened I would wanna stay away from men. I definitely wouldn't bring multiple men thru my young daughters life. What the hell is wrong with hee

[fortwendy]

With some therapy, both of these kids can figure their shit out - and ought to for their children. Now, whether they'll go long enough to be effective at it remains to be seen....

Their poor children.

[Thatonegirl555]

Allyshia you have every right to keep those kids from him, until further investigation, etc.

Exactly the same thing I would do for my children and I think any mother would. If nothing turns up after investigation then at least she can feel a little more at ease about the situation. I just feel that something like this isn't something you should play around with. Props to her for taking action.

[Thatonegirl555]

Allyshia you have every right to keep those kids from him, until further investigation, etc.

Also she said thank you deeznuts!

[Thatonegirl555]

Girls that don't have a good father figure tend to look for that in a relationship. I've seen it a lot. Not saying that its right or that anyone can help it.

[deeznuts]

Some pervs are good at hiding their shit, I understand completely. Even if it was innocent, I'd still have a completely different perspective of him. Anyone that looks at porn (any remote form of porn, such as that) is disgusting in my book. Especially when they're engaged and in love. Horrible!

[Thatonegirl555]

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[deeznuts]

Girls that don't have a good father figure tend to look for that in a relationship. I've seen it a lot. Not saying that its right or that anyone can help it.

Yep, it's psychology. We all have some form of something happening to us in our past that makes us do something in a particular way today.

[HowAboutNo]

Some pervs are good at hiding their shit, I understand completely. Even if it was innocent, I'd still have a completely different perspective of him. Anyone that looks at porn (any remote form of porn, such as that) is disgusting in my book. Especially when they're engaged and in love. Horrible!

That's your book then. Porn, when ethically produced, is not horrible. You think your man doesn't look at it? Ha. Incest porn is not something I can comment on, it's nothing that would float my boat, and it would make me think twice about the person viewing it. But it's not illegal. Nothing will come out of this investigation she's triggered.

[Thatonegirl555]

I agree porn is not something really bad I personally could care less if my husband looks at porn its the type of porn he's looking at. I would rather be safe than sorry. At least she will know even if nothing turns up. Not that you honestly know yourself.

[deeznuts]

Some pervs are good at hiding their shit, I understand completely. Even if it was innocent, I'd still have a completely different perspective of him. Anyone that looks at porn (any remote form of porn, such as that) is disgusting in my book. Especially when they're engaged and in love. Horrible!

That's your book then. Porn, when ethically produced, is not horrible. You think your man doesn't look at it? Ha. Incest porn is not something I can comment on, it's nothing that would float my boat, and it would make me think twice about the person viewing it. But it's not illegal. Nothing will come out of this investigation she's triggered.

If that was supposed to imply that my husband probably does look at it, that was pathetic. Not every man is a pig, thanks for trying. And it is horrible, so I am sorry if you think it isn't and would let your man look at it. That's disgusting.

[deeznuts]

We all clearly have a different view regarding porn, so if you don't agree with me move on past that comment. You don't need to insult my marriage by implying bs.

[CuppyKakeTM]

Some pervs are good at hiding their shit, I understand completely. Even if it was innocent, I'd still have a completely different perspective of him. Anyone that looks at porn (any remote form of porn, such as that) is disgusting in my book. Especially when they're engaged and in love. Horrible!

That's your book then. Porn, when ethically produced, is not horrible. You think your man doesn't look at it? Ha. Incest porn is not something I can comment on, it's nothing that would float my boat, and it would make me think twice about the person viewing it. But it's not illegal. Nothing will come out of this investigation she's triggered.

If that was supposed to imply that my husband probably does look at it, that was pathetic. Not every man is a pig, thanks for trying. And it is horrible, so I am sorry if you think it isn't and would let your man look at it. That's disgusting.

Men aren't pigs just for looking at porn. I have a medical condition that called Vulvar Vestibulitis that causes extreme pain during sex, or any penetrative act. I can't even use tampons. We don't have very much sex because of it, so he watches porn when I'm not physically up to the task. Also, sometimes people just want to pleasure themselves, because no one knows how your body works better than you. So sit down with your ignorance.

[Yue195]

.... Woah deeznuts, porn isn't an entirely bad thing when done correctly, there are variations of porn and there is porn JUST for women to enjoy and not for men. Men aren't pigs for looking at porn, their pigs when they are misogynists.

[deeznuts]

So, you may also sit down with your ignorance. not everyone needs porn to pleasure themselves.

[CuppyKakeTM]

So, you may also sit down with your ignorance. not everyone needs porn to pleasure themselves.

I never said *everyone* needs porn. I said *some people*. Ignorance is a lack of knowledge in a topic. That's you. It's one thing to not approve of porn, that's your choice. It's quite another to insult people's husband's who do watch it because it makes you uncomfortable.

[Thatonegirl555]

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[HowAboutNo]

We all clearly have a different view regarding porn, so if you don't agree with me move on past that comment. You don't need to insult my marriage by implying bs.

Haha don't come at me like that, I didn't even know you were married so cool your shit. Nobody's insulting you. Newsflash though, I'd bet you $100 your hubs looks at porn occasionally. And it doesn't make him a pig. Sorry to burst your bubble.

The fact that Alex looks at questionable porn doesn't make him an abuser. Allyshia even gave her reasoning herself. "How dare he get off to what I suffered" or whatever she said. It was about her. Nothing else.

[HowAboutNo]

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It sounds like she doesn't want you to share anything that isn't in quotes lol