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westwuff wrote:27? I feel like that's wrong..isn't she turning 25? Can't remember, don't care enough to vlog hunt for the answer..
Missy is turning 26 on October 27th.
She's 25 currently, so is Bryan. Bryan's birthday is Janurary, so he's a little younger than Missy.
But he loves being with an older woman! *eye roll*
I can see Missy being a '' permissive parent '' to a girl. I can definitely see her trying to be best friend's with a daughter. She has mentioned before that her and her mom are like best friends and she's always wanted a girl so that she can have the kind of relationship she has with her mom, with a daughter of her own. I can see her trying to be her daughter's best friend for sure, and I can see her being very attached to a girl, BUT in regards to Oliver and Finley, she's really detached. She seems more like the '' authoritarian parent '' to her boys because she definitely rarely shows affection, and seems to keep a distance emotionally and psychologically.
But, she also doesn't discipline (unless she's snapping her fingers at her son), and she shows kind of a '' permissive parent '' in the sense that she has the '' well, what can I do? '' and '' Oh well... That's Oliver, what can I say? '' attitude.
She shows a mix of both permissive and authoritarian and neither are very good.
Bobberta wrote:I think Missy did what she thought was normal. Get married, have kids. I don't think she ever had that real want to be a mom, but instead wanted what came next. She always wants what's next. When she had her losses, I think that put her into a place of "I want to be a mom" not because at that time she really wanted to be one since the end result was not how it should have been. However, now that she has a child, you can tell she has no idea what to do or how to interact but baby #2 is what is next, so she seems happier about Fin because it is what comes next.
I think she thinks she wants to be a mom but she is lacking in the passion to be. She is a mom because marriage = kids to her.
It is like someone forgot to sit her down and say "Missy, you don't need to have kids ASAP. "
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I completely agree! I've wanted to be a mom probably since I was a kid. I even considered when in middle school just getting a sperm donor and being single. LMFAO. (My dad had a friend who and just done that). I've always wanted to be a mom even if I wasn't a wife. I have been with my BF for almost 6 years but I would still have a kid with him without being married. I feel sad she was so brain washed that she HAD to fit the mold and have a kid. Some people aren't meant to be parents and that's okay!! But I think Bryan was made to be a dad!!
lmmomSD wrote:
I'm not at all a fan of the Duggars, for lots of reasons (homophobia, covering up their son's molestation issues, teaching their kids that women are only good for making babies, etc) but I don't see the similarity. Can you explain?
She always has this deer in the headlights look. I think her hormones are screwed up from basically being pregnant for 20 years.
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i'm not a fan, either. i would hate-watch their show.
michelle just very cold and detached towards her children, even though the ~fans are always saying what a great mom she is. she is a person who very clearly does not like kids, and yet she has 19! her older girls raise all the kids. michelle does nothing besides breastfeed for the first 6 months and then weans. the baby then goes to one of the daughters, so michelle can get pregnant again. rinse and repeat 19 times. she is addicted to pregnancy and the attention it brought her. she is now (thankfully) in menopause, so no more babies for her. it's probably difficult to see the similarities unless you have really watched michelle in action (or not.. just like missy)
Yes, Michelle wants babies but after that it's not her job anymore, she weans her infants and ships them off to a buddy team so she can get pregnant again! Missy is a lot like that, once the baby is a little older it's not her "job"
Ok-- I totally see that. She leaves the raising up to the older kids. And Missy leaves it to Bryan, Cassie and Mimi.
Missy's the kind of person who thought she wanted kids, but really should not have had them. There are a lot of people out there who should not have had kids and should have actually thought about it instead of just doing it. I thought long and hard for a couple years before I came to the conclusion that I do not want kids, and it would benefit everybody if I didn't have them because I would be a neglectful parent. Missy should have really put thought into that decision.
Don't you think though if they bought Suzanne and Jim a car he'd be gloating more?? Like "hey Shay - you bought your dad one? We bought 2!!". The reason he tweeter Shay wasn't only to gloat but to get his name out there to Shayatrd watchers (hence the link to his video). While I agree Suzanne is a raging bitch most of the time I just don't think Jim would let thr car buying happen. They most likely had a 3 year lease meaning it was time for a new one.
Roombas are for people who work all day and don't have time to clean. Or people with big houses and work all day...uhh they both stay home what a blessing . If one can't clean then there's the other person who can do it. TWO FREAKING at home parents and they need that? Ummmm no.
In their own words..."I just can't even"...they are the laziest people on the planet. What a waste of money! Oh and now Missy can't even SIT and fold laundry. Wow!!! Just WOW!!
Is it really so hard to vacuum that they need a $600 machine to do it for them? Also Missy's little comment about the laundry. Sit your ass down and fold laundry. You're good at sitting around so why not do something with your hands other than texting while you're at it?
Oliver speech is not on point .. Does anyone watch https://www.youtube.com/user/AleiasTeenMama This little girl is not even 2 yr old yet and she speaks way better then Ollie