2011TeenageSelfEsteem360 Part 21

[imnottired]

Point is, V puts on a show when the camera is on. I'm sure she loves Lily, but it's not like what she portrays on camera. I think when the camera goes off, V is a whole different person.

[fossilfinger]

I would like to share my daughter's hair too lol!! Her hair with oil vs. No oil/conditioner

I think your daughter's hair looks adorable without product in it, FWIW.

[misskaila93]

V is the kind of mom that gets jealous of her own child. If Lily looked better than her, she wouldn't be able to stand it.

Nonsense.

I don't want it to be true either. But let's look at the facts:

V makes all these wonderful, healthy things to eat for herself. Lily eats chicken nuggets.
V goes out with her hair in a cute sock bun or her hair is straightened. Lily's hair is always messy.
V works out and walks the trail to get exercise. Lily is forced to sit in the stroller.
V gets Lily chicken nuggets at chickfila every damn day because V wants to go exercise and can't be bothered to make a decent lunch for her kid before she goes.
And, as far as we know, V doesn't have nice clothes. Remember the last time she splurged on boots? The criticism was so bad and got to her that she had to make a video to explain why she bought the boots.

That's just a few I can name on the top of my head. I'm sure there's more.

I don't think Vanessa is jealous of Lilly I think she is lazy and doesn't want to deal with Lilly's temper tantrums. That doesn't excuse anything though

[Fairplay]

Point is, V puts on a show when the camera is on. I'm sure she loves Lily, but it's not like what she portrays on camera. I think when the camera goes off, V is a whole different person.

Yes! It showed a lot when she found out Lily's room was bigger than theirs. She kept saying in a bummed way like she wasn't happy for the kid that she gets more space

[ashleyrr2k]

It was cute to see how much lily can talk in the new vlog! I'm surprised Vanessa let her talk that long it's usually the Vanessa show


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[livandmommy]

The way Vanessa rolls up Lily's clothes makes me cringe.

[pngpme]

My hair was neat and brushed when I was Lily's age, but I did not like the haircut. It was horrible. My mom did it the best she could and the way she liked it. When I was little bit older, she let me choose the haircut and the hairstyle. I do not think she did anything wrong really. Mothers do what they think is best and sometimes they make a mistake.
It is terrible however that she ate healthy while Lily ate garbage.

[HelloHolaHallo]

I would like to share my daughter's hair too lol!! Her hair with oil vs. No oil/conditioner

Omg that's exactly my hair!! Soo cute I don't see your daughters face but I can't help but feel she's a cutie. I love seeing curly hair kids with styled hair, just because it's curly doesn't mean nothing can be done with it

I've never had Chick Fil A (spelling?) is it really that good?

[user123_]

While we're on the topic of hair, I really wish Vanessa would straighten the curl in her bangs. It seriously irritates me and I think it would make her hair look so much nicer. (And yeah she seriously needs to do something with Lily)
Also LOL she had a clip of herself doing homework but didn't post a damn thing about taking 4 on campus classes all summer.

[user123_]

Sorry double post

[fossilfinger]

It was cute to see how much lily can talk in the new vlog! I'm surprised Vanessa let her talk that long it's usually the Vanessa show


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Lily is absolutely adorable. Too bad Vanessa just repeats everything Lily says instead of initiating a conversation. Lily would be able to put together more complex sentences and learn more vocabulary if Vanessa would talk WITH her instead of just repeat everything she says. She was starting to prompt her by asking her what color her dress was but then she dropped it. Of course, that probably was not a very interesting question for Lily because she's three years old, not one. Maybe Vanessa should stimulate Lily's imagination more by asking her more open-ended questions. She is intelligent and I'm sure preschool helps her, but Vanessa is not encouraging her to broaden her speech capacity. You can also tell Lily thinks that having a conversation is parroting because in the car she often asks questions over and over until Vanessa repeats them, like when Lily says "We're going to school? We're going to school?" and only stops repeating the question when Vanessa says "We're going to school."

[nutbagmcgee]

The way Vanessa rolls up Lily's clothes makes me cringe.

It's a dress, not 2 separate pieces.



The shoes are killing me. Leather, clunky Mary Janes with no socks? Cowboy boots with a romper? Vanessa needs help knowing what is comfortable and appropriate for a pre-schooler.


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[Curtain06]

It was cute to see how much lily can talk in the new vlog! I'm surprised Vanessa let her talk that long it's usually the Vanessa show


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Lily is absolutely adorable. Too bad Vanessa just repeats everything Lily says instead of initiating a conversation. Lily would be able to put together more complex sentences and learn more vocabulary if Vanessa would talk WITH her instead of just repeat everything she says. She was starting to prompt her by asking her what color her dress was but then she dropped it. Of course, that probably was not a very interesting question for Lily because she's three years old, not one. Maybe Vanessa should stimulate Lily's imagination more by asking her more open-ended questions. She is intelligent and I'm sure preschool helps her, but Vanessa is not encouraging her to broaden her speech capacity. You can also tell Lily thinks that having a conversation is parroting because in the car she often asks questions over and over until Vanessa repeats them, like when Lily says "We're going to school? We're going to school?" and only stops repeating the question when Vanessa says "We're going to school."

That's exactly what I said a few pages behind. I'm glad someone else sees it, it's really infuriating to me!


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[hannahbanana]

The way Vanessa rolls up Lily's clothes makes me cringe.

It's a dress, not 2 separate pieces.



The shoes are killing me. Leather, clunky Mary Janes with no socks? Cowboy boots with a romper? Vanessa needs help knowing what is comfortable and appropriate for a pre-schooler.


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There's these toddlers at my church's daycare who I feel bad for because they're playing and running around wearing their Sunday best. I dress my son up in nice but casual clothes. I would never put him in church shoes or a suit if I knew he was just going to run around and get messy. Vanessa needs to learn how to dress Lily up in comfortable clothing.
Look at the way Jess dresses Lilia, she goes to school every day in a skirt or dress with sandals, there's no way that poor child is comfortable playing on the playground in a skirt and sandals.

[jan1873]

This is my first post ever here. I just wanted to leave my opinion here even thou it might be completely unrelated to what is going on right now. I went to the same high school as Vanessa. We were never really friends but I had one or two classes with her. One day as I was browsing through YouTube I came across a video and recognized her right away. Let me tell you she is completely different on YouTube as she is in "real life". She looks like she lacks hygiene and wears the same clothes all the time. She likes to put on a show and act like she is this perfect woman, daughter and mother. But honestly that's not what she looks like at all in real life. I saw her one time at a local store and she was recording, but lily started crying and she turned off the camera and got very angry at lily and went right back to recording. This is how I see things and my personal opinion. I just wanna leave it very clear that it's just what I have seen and heard from other people. On her videos she tries to hard to be a "teacher's pet". She is always going with the flow and trying to say things to make people like her, always looking for things that are going on at the moment and trying really hard to say things that will get people to applaud her and agree with her. The whole live video she did recently about gays , you could tell she didn't really have much of a clue about what she was saying, just trying very hard to throw in some big words and make comments that would make people like her more. I could go on and on here about everything I think and things I noticed on her videos but it would be very long. I just think she tries to hard to be likable and ends up coming across as very fake.

[Anniekins]

My son's pre-school asks that you put your child in sneakers every day. They either go outside or play in the gym, so they want them in comfortable, practical shoes.

[gypsophila]

This is my first post ever here. I just wanted to leave my opinion here even thou it might be completely unrelated to what is going on right now. I went to the same high school as Vanessa. We were never really friends but I had one or two classes with her. One day as I was browsing through YouTube I came across a video and recognized her right away. Let me tell you she is completely different on YouTube as she is in "real life". She looks like she lacks hygiene and wears the same clothes all the time. She likes to put on a show and act like she is this perfect woman, daughter and mother. But honestly that's not what she looks like at all in real life. I saw her one time at a local store and she was recording, but lily started crying and she turned off the camera and got very angry at lily and went right back to recording. This is how I see things and my personal opinion. I just wanna leave it very clear that it's just what I have seen and heard from other people. On her videos she tries to hard to be a "teacher's pet". She is always going with the flow and trying to say things to make people like her, always looking for things that are going on at the moment and trying really hard to say things that will get people to applaud her and agree with her. The whole live video she did recently about gays , you could tell she didn't really have much of a clue about what she was saying, just trying very hard to throw in some big words and make comments that would make people like her more. I could go on and on here about everything I think and things I noticed on her videos but it would be very long. I just think she tries to hard to be likable and ends up coming across as very fake.

Pretty sure you're a troll, because I remember someone posting this exact same thing a while ago and it was disproven back then. I think you are someone else's minion, I can't remember what everyone said last time. Maybe change your storry up some more and someone will believe you. Lol.

[Snow White]

Maybe an IP check? Just to be sure before we make any firm conclusions

[ChanelleJo]

Troll or not, that does seem like Vanessa.

[_809lovely]

Troll or not, that does seem like Vanessa.

Im sorry, but yes. If only she stopped picking at her scabs