TaylerTragedy- The Guide to Government Leeching. Part 55

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Tayler applied for a job, never went.

Continue.

[mac-n-cheese]

She's posted for the 5,863 time that she is a domestic violence surviver...
Flash foward 2 weeks from now....
Tayler and Chuckie are renewing their vowels.

[mac-n-cheese]

I'm starting to think maybe the reason Tayler cant keep a job is because she's living a double life as skrillex...so she's just too busy keeping her secret...

[Panda714]

Here's my theory. She got pregnant by Kevin on purpose to get Chuckie's attention. Terminated so Chuckie would take her back. Cause she did want another baby but only if she could proudly say all four of her children are "full blooded siblings". So she got back with Chuckie and as soon as she confirmed she was pregnant she kicked him to the curb for some new strange.

I don't doubt Chuckie treated her like shit but I also don't doubt she treats him just as shitty. She doesn't want Chuckie. She wants his money and his sperm

[lmmomSD]

And she doesn't want anyone else to have him either...

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[pianogossiper]

Tayler is essentially an overgrown toddler that wants what she can't have, and then doesn't wait it anymore when she gets it.

Anberlin is probably more mature than her mother.


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[hannahbanana]

Isn't it sad that years ago we all predicated that Tayler would cheat on any future boyfriend and/or would only sleep with chuckie just to have another baby, so all her kids would have the same dad?
This will continue to happen...no matter how much she claims that she "held deaths hand", she will have no problem opening her legs for him either.

[hannahbanana]

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[kiwi]

She's really going to lose her shit when he gets someone else pregnant. I'm sure it'll happen eventually.

[Sparklingdee]

She would NEVER be able to take it if Chuckles knocks up another girl and her kids end up with a half sibling, good lord. The only thing in life she's proud of is that her kids have the same Dad (possibly, I wanna see receipts for Jakoby tho lmao)

[smom12]

Did she ever give a reason why she is so anti-half-sibling?


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[Panda714]

Did she ever give a reason why she is so anti-half-sibling?


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My guess is she saw the drama it caused with her mom and assumed it would be less/no drama

[alyssadt]

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[mac-n-cheese]

Did she ever give a reason why she is so anti-half-sibling?


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My guess is she saw the drama it caused with her mom and assumed it would be less/no drama

Because of exactly what happened with Kevin.
Kevin threatened to take the baby from her. And she KNEW he'd win. Because she's a loser...
She knows chuckie won't even attempt to try to win custody because he doesn't want the kids.

So she knows any other person would fight her in court and she doesn't want to end up losing ALL her kids when the judge looks at how shitty her life is.

Chuckie is an easy target.
And apparently an easy lay...

[smom12]

Wow. That's just sad. Avoids half siblings to not repeat situation to only be in a WORSE situation. I wonder how many times she will be knocked up by Chuck after this?


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[BornThisWay94]

Tayler logic: Would rather have another child with a man who beats her up bc he's the father of the rest of her kids than have a child with a man who isn't the father of the rest of the kids

[InterestedAussie]

I don't normally post on here. I'm not necessarily trying to defend Tayler, I'm sure we could all point out many things she could be doing differently. I also understand the context of this site - it's a gossip site, people come here to vent and hypothesise, so I'm not trying to just bring down the mood. Equally, I have seen these kinds of comments before but I just wanted to put a little PSA out there because domestic violence is a huge, hugely misunderstood issue.

Domestic violence is a systematic cycle of abuse by a perpetrator that usually involves emotional, psychological, financial, social, physical and sexual abuse. In most cases across all social classes and ages, domestic violence relationships change both parties, but especially the victim, who is often left truly broken, in mind, body and spirit. I'm a social worker who works with women and children escaping DV. In my work we say that it can take 9 or more actions on the part of the women (ie. 1, contacting a family violence service for help, 2, leaving the family home, 3, putting an intervention order in place, 4, getting back together with partner, 5, pressing charges... etc) to actually leave their partners. The women I see have truly no self esteem, they have been denigrated and abused in ways that are shocking and abhorrent. Many of the women I see have either pre-existing or resultant brain or psychological injuries and disabilities due to the abuse they've suffered, which impacts their reasoning and processing skills - their ability to make rational decisions.

I understand in the case of Tayler that it may be frustrating to watch her return back to her abusive partner again and again, and the decisions she makes may not make sense to you. I also don't seek to absolve her of all responsibility for all her actions. But I do think that in talking specifically about her pattern of returning to Chuckie, it's important that some of you remain aware of the broader patterns of spousal abuse and understand the pervasive, insidious nature and long standing effects of domestic violence. This is for Tayler's sake that her self-esteem not be even more battered and bruised by your comments, but even more so for your own friends and family, and yourselves. Whenever you say "Not me, I'd never stay with someone who abused me," I'm so sorry to say that you may actually be wrong. The right person, in the right circumstances, can wreak hell on anybody. So too, it is likely that all of us have friends who are in abusive relationships and it's so important that we be compassionate, attentive, supportive and non-judgmental with our friends and family in case we come across someone we love in a DV relationship. Because there are some myths that I see being promulgated here whenever you talk about Tayler's patterns with Chuckie, for example the idea that women who leave and stay away are "strong," and women who keep coming back are "weak." Not so. DV is far too complex for these simplistic judgement calls to make any sense in its context. When I look at Tayler's history it's not pretty, or ideal but it is textbook, classically typical behaviour of someone who has been in a long term abusive relationship. I don't think she's to blame for all of that.

Sorry for the wall of text. My job is hard, relentless and rewarding and I carry the work I do close to my heart. I am prone to give these talks to my friends who talk glibly about DV too, and can sometimes be seen as a party pooper! But I do think it's important to say and to keep saying.

If you are interested in reading and learning more about domestic violence here is some good introductory reading -
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/soraya-ch ... 93904.html
http://www.thehotline.org/2013/06/50-ob ... ving-1-10/

[twomommies]

Tayler logic: Would rather have another child with a man who beats her up bc he's the father of the rest of her kids than have a child with a man who isn't the father of the rest of the kids

Because he didn't put up with her shit.

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[QueenR_]

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[RootBeerFloatie]

I don't think anyone here is underestimating the struggle of being a domestic violence victim. Tayler, however, is not your typical battered wife. She's abusive and manipulative right back to Chuckie (for example she'll only get back with him right before tax season), alternates between saying he almost killed her and saying she exaggerated it all, she aborted a baby because it wasn't his and then got knocked up by him again, she won't allow his family to see the kids unless they give her money, and constantly changes her story about the abuse.

The only cycle of abuse going on is the one Tayler is putting her kids through.