2011Worst&WorstMom - Part 38

Unread post by **MamaJoAnna** » Fri Jul 07, 2017 7:15 pm

Part 37: http://ytmommadrama.com/viewtopic.php?f=180&t=13000
Title credit: literallywhat

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Fri Jul 07, 2017 7:22 pm

Yaaaasss I'm so glad this is the titke

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Unread post by **sadie** » Fri Jul 07, 2017 7:29 pm

A "huge" life update lol better be good

Unread post by **Freaksngeeks** » Fri Jul 07, 2017 9:13 pm

Of course a "life update"! Vanessa must be craving attention...
Considering Britney got great footage of her trip, while Vanessa made a amateur "vlog" ofher trip, she is in desperate need of attention.
Is it me or does Vanessa still act like a 17yr old?

Unread post by **Mel1011** » Fri Jul 07, 2017 9:14 pm

I'm guessing she won't post her big life update for another week or so.

Unread post by **Blackswan** » Fri Jul 07, 2017 9:27 pm

sadie wrote:A "huge" life update lol better be good

Maybe she's going to announce she's pregnant

"I'm 2 weeks pregnant guys. It happened when I went to see David."

Unread post by **Snow White** » Fri Jul 07, 2017 9:47 pm

That vlog was awful, embarrassing even (quality wise).

Fri Jul 07, 2017 11:24 pm

Blackswan wrote:
sadie wrote:A "huge" life update lol better be good
Maybe she's going to announce she's pregnant

"I'm 2 weeks pregnant guys. It happened when I went to see David."

"So here's a haul of maternity clothes that I already bought. Where's Charles? Oh he is at Nonas with Lily, he just loves spending time there so I won't deny him that." *head tilt* *weird laugh*

Fri Jul 07, 2017 11:27 pm

Blackswan wrote:
sadie wrote:A "huge" life update lol better be good
Maybe she's going to announce she's pregnant

"I'm 2 weeks pregnant guys. It happened when I went to see David."

I'm dead

Sat Jul 08, 2017 12:16 am

She's gonna drag this "life update" out for weeks again and then it's going to be mediocre, boring and barely an update

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Unread post by **Curtain06** » Sat Jul 08, 2017 3:07 am

Yeah exactly. It'll be like all her other life updates. Nothing.

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Unread post by **alexmorgan** » Sat Jul 08, 2017 9:51 am

I just looked at her IG to look find a picture of Lily as a baby because i feel like her and charlie look so alike!! Anyway, i came across a picture of the process of booking a cruise with a typical Vanessa caption. Whatever happened to that? She didnt actually go on a cruise did she?

Sat Jul 08, 2017 10:03 am

Why does she do those polls on twitter asking people if they would rather she upload another vid tonight or tomorrow? Of course people vote for that night and she never does it..

Unread post by **Amelia322** » Sat Jul 08, 2017 12:12 pm

If lily is in school for that many hours which I believe she is, Vanessa can get a damn job!! Isn't the reason people are SAHM is to be with their kids and NOT have after school daycare? Or maybe it's included and Vanessa's like fuck it why not.

I know at her old school Vanessa would say lily gets out at 4..uhhh yeah that's not school that's daycare or an after school program..any way.. not my business lmao

Seriously tho, after seeing David with Charles I realized how much lily is Davids twin and Charlie is Vanessa twin. He has her cocked eyes. And shape. Either way they are both unfortunate looking people.

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Unread post by **Curtain06** » Sat Jul 08, 2017 1:31 pm

I don't know whether they do similar things in the US but here in the UK we have health visitors who basically keep a distant watch over a child from when they're babies. They're responsible for weigh ins, vaccinations etc. They also conduct 2 year development checks etc and then can refer to speech therapy etc if theres any issues. You barely see them after your child is 6 months old unless there is an issue however I have known a few people's children to be enrolled into full time nursery (sort of private preschool) if they have developmental issues, particularly social/speech issues, to try and bring them up to speed. Does this sort of thing ever happen in the US? Just seemed like a potential reason for why Lily seems to always be in 'school'

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Sat Jul 08, 2017 2:10 pm

Curtain06 wrote:I don't know whether they do similar things in the US but here in the UK we have health visitors who basically keep a distant watch over a child from when they're babies. They're responsible for weigh ins, vaccinations etc. They also conduct 2 year development checks etc and then can refer to speech therapy etc if theres any issues. You barely see them after your child is 6 months old unless there is an issue however I have known a few people's children to be enrolled into full time nursery (sort of private preschool) if they have developmental issues, particularly social/speech issues, to try and bring them up to speed. Does this sort of thing ever happen in the US? Just seemed like a potential reason for why Lily seems to always be in 'school'

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Most people's pediatricians are responsible for that kind of stuff. And they can refer parents to speech therapies and stuff if needed. They can't make you take your kid though. I think some of why Lily is in school for that long is for her developmental needs. But there is no reason that V can't be the one to pick her up from school and spend the evening with her. It is crazy that Lily is gone that much of the day and then Nona gets her, not V. Doesn't V miss her?

Unread post by **Curtain06** » Sat Jul 08, 2017 3:31 pm

literallywhat wrote:
Curtain06 wrote:I don't know whether they do similar things in the US but here in the UK we have health visitors who basically keep a distant watch over a child from when they're babies. They're responsible for weigh ins, vaccinations etc. They also conduct 2 year development checks etc and then can refer to speech therapy etc if theres any issues. You barely see them after your child is 6 months old unless there is an issue however I have known a few people's children to be enrolled into full time nursery (sort of private preschool) if they have developmental issues, particularly social/speech issues, to try and bring them up to speed. Does this sort of thing ever happen in the US? Just seemed like a potential reason for why Lily seems to always be in 'school'

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Most people's pediatricians are responsible for that kind of stuff. And they can refer parents to speech therapies and stuff if needed. They can't make you take your kid though. I think some of why Lily is in school for that long is for her developmental needs. But there is no reason that V can't be the one to pick her up from school and spend the evening with her. It is crazy that Lily is gone that much of the day and then Nona gets her, not V. Doesn't V miss her?

It really is and very sad. My little girl whose 3.5 started preschool in April for 2.5 hours a day 2 weeks after my baby boy was born and I still cannot wait to pick her up afterwards even if she's gone such a short time. I think she's been picked up once in 3 months by someone other than myself.

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Unread post by **fossilfinger** » Sat Jul 08, 2017 5:04 pm

Amelia322 wrote:If lily is in school for that many hours which I believe she is, Vanessa can get a damn job!! Isn't the reason people are SAHM is to be with their kids and NOT have after school daycare? Or maybe it's included and Vanessa's like fuck it why not.

I honestly think at this point she makes way more on YouTube than she would make at a traditional job. I can't see her qualified to work at a job that pays anymore than minimum wage or a little above. She has almost no education, no previous work experience and probably no idea how to conduct herself in a job interview, nor the motivation to research how to write a good resume without five million spelling and grammar mistakes. If her YouTube channel stops bringing in views, she'll have to start with a crappy entry-level job anyway, so she may as well wait until then and focus her efforts on making money on YouTube where she has a chance to earn more.

Unread post by **Freaksngeeks** » Sat Jul 08, 2017 7:03 pm

Has anyone else noticed lately that when V has Lily, Lily looks a mess? I know Lily looks odd because of TS, but V doesn't even try to make her look cute.

Unread post by **guineapeegz** » Sat Jul 08, 2017 7:59 pm

fossilfinger wrote:
Amelia322 wrote:If lily is in school for that many hours which I believe she is, Vanessa can get a damn job!! Isn't the reason people are SAHM is to be with their kids and NOT have after school daycare? Or maybe it's included and Vanessa's like fuck it why not.
I honestly think at this point she makes way more on YouTube than she would make at a traditional job. I can't see her qualified to work at a job that pays anymore than minimum wage or a little above. She has almost no education, no previous work experience and probably no idea how to conduct herself in a job interview, nor the motivation to research how to write a good resume without five million spelling and grammar mistakes. If her YouTube channel stops bringing in views, she'll have to start with a crappy entry-level job anyway, so she may as well wait until then and focus her efforts on making money on YouTube where she has a chance to earn more.

She can do both can't she? Once Charles turns 1 or 2, she can get a job and do YouTube. If YouTube is a thing by then... honestly, one day she's going to have go out and get a gig... better sooner than later. Haylee from Hayleeandbaby has been doing both YouTube and working for years now. Although she's overwhelmed as of late, she was good working part time.