How do they not take them to groceries or restaurants? As a parent you fucking deal with it. Entertain your kid, you can't expect to put them in the high chair and cart, not pay attention so you can vlog and text. You fucking talk to them
I have had the grocery store meltdowns, in a restaurant and someone start yelling, but I distract my son. I bring his toys, his snacks, I talk to him about anything. I spent a good 20 minutes talking about damn colors and how people in the store need to move out of the way. He laughed the whole time.
These 2 don't want to actually parent. I am a young parent, younger than them, I have noticed other young parents don't care what their kids eat, and leave them unsupervised. Example: yesterday my son and I had a play date, we hosted it at our house.
My friend let her son do whatever he wanted, didn't watch him, plopped her ass on the couch. He wanted her attention, she just kept talking. (Haven't seen her in 2 or 3 years)
I told her to go sit on the floor with him because he wanted to play. My son & him ended up playing together. Took my son an hour to like him. Anyway I bought her baby some snacks, my son is a vegan, we do not eat a lot of process foods. He is 8 months, I barely started giving him baby puffs, and stuff. He eats organic and the brand with the least ingredients. I try to feed him pure foods. She tasted it and spit it out. It was too healthy lol. They eat a lot of junk food, like chips and candy.
My son eats pure fruits and veggies, he eats whole grain oatmeal, gluten free pasta. But a lot of young moms that I have met do not care because they are following what their moms fed them. I am not. I am going a different route compared to my family, we are Hispanic, I was given heavy greasy foods covered in lard (yuck) at a young age. (If you do that, I have nothing against it, it is just not for my child and I).
But at my playdate a lot of things reminded me of what Keren or other young YouTube moms do. A lot of young parents do what their parents do or they are not educated in nutrition or take the time to research what is right for their baby, they just wing it and if it feels right. I on the other hand am a very different young mom. I am 20 years old. I am at SAHM. My spouse he works, a hard working job, we are not entitled, he works for everything we have, we even have insurance through his job. We do not let other people take care of our baby. We know what he eats and he is on a schedule. A lot of young parents have the babies, use them for Instagram photos and then just let them do whatever. Not all but the ones I have been around. (Needless to say we are friends but I know extra baby proof when their kids come over and have my husband there to help supervise.)
Sorry for the long post guys.
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