Conor and Brittany Polyamorous Couple that is pregnant

[Frootloops3]

So they're raising Ilya with no rules? Ok, run into traffic, bite every other kid you see and lick the outlets. Go ahead, he's just exploring his world!

What a joy that kid will be to be around.

It's easy for them to say that now, once he's a toddler I'm sure even they will realise that all children need some form of rules just to keep them literally alive

Exactly. I’ve been reading this thread and these people sound so backwards. They will have to give him rules once he’s a toddler, along with the fact that there needs to be stability.

[smarlo]

This is true. I had all kinds of ideas about how I was going to raise my kids and then I had them and they all changed!

[FJ_Lanning]

I just saw one of their videos in my feed (it’s that stupid automatic play thing so I just watched without sound). OMG Ilya is still so shaky and unstable! And they say he’s 7 months old and 23lbs. He’s still shaking his head all over the place!!


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[smarlo]

They left for Guatemala. They took him on the plane with no diaper. I hope he didn't drop a load!

[Exploradora]

They left for Guatemala. They took him on the plane with no diaper. I hope he didn't drop a load!

They said he hadn't used the diaper. I interpreted that as he is wearing one but not soiling it. I don't see anything wrong with EC as a whole. It may not work for every family but it seems to be working well for them.

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[smarlo]

Hmm, maybe I misread that. It was 5:30 am and I didn't have my glasses on!

[xrubyx99]

It bothers me so much when they walk around with no shoes on. Especially in a foreign country. I get conors shoes broke, according to his insta story, but they do it alllllll the time. It just seems so un necessary? Idk I guess I’m nit picking, but it’s just one of those things for me.


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[xrubyx99]

Also, I’m sooooo sick of seeing bridgette on brittanys story. She is obsessed with her. She never posts anything with Conor anymore. I feel bad for him

[smarlo]

I feel that he's become a means to an end. Sperm donor.

[WheresMyCoffee]

WHy is everyone so obsessed with Brittany? She must have a magical unicorn vagina because she seems like a dud to me. She isnt that pretty, she seems to have little personality and they are together ALL THE TIME.

[Kataja]

So they're raising Ilya with no rules? Ok, run into traffic, bite every other kid you see and lick the outlets. Go ahead, he's just exploring his world!

What a joy that kid will be to be around.

It's easy for them to say that now, once he's a toddler I'm sure even they will realise that all children need some form of rules just to keep them literally alive

Exactly. I’ve been reading this thread and these people sound so backwards. They will have to give him rules once he’s a toddler, along with the fact that there needs to be stability.

Haha.. If anyone of you have watched the show 'modern family' the gay couple try to raise their kid without saying no. That ends when dad tries to fix garbage disposal unit hand deep in the motor and the kid has the hand on the switch to turn it on

[smarlo]

I saw on her instagram stories she's looking for sun protection. She looks like dried up leather and NOW she's looking for sunscreen?

[Kingfisher]

Happy there's a place to discuss these Conor and Brittany channels freely and more "authentically" then they allow in their comment sections. Had to create an account after reading the whole thread and seeing so many thoughts I shared.

I initially enjoyed watching this couple during their earlier days, watching their take on polyamory and seeing how smitten with each other they were as they developed program after program and as they started their membership site. The veganism was a bit of a turn off. I stopped watching for a while then returned a while later to see Brittany was pregnant. Interest piqued once more right up until the gender absurdities for their baby. They even drew some half-assed link between people wanting to know the sex of their baby boy and pedophilia. It was all so disrespectful and not sensitive to viewers who were abused as children.

For individuals who state they are aware of energies between human beings, they hardcore deny the obvious energies they send out in their videos that contradict their spoken words. Perhaps they believe if they say something that isn't true enough times it will become true. Who knows. When people respond to the obvious sadness from Conor or awkwardness between the three of them in their poly V (Brittany is the point), they deny deny deny right up until the video comes out that confirms what many sensed already. Conor's two recent personal YT channel videos describing his pain even as he tried to deny it in the same breath.

And then today on the heels of Bridgette and Brittany releasing their new moon cycle magic program (info that is easily accessible and free in many places) and doing a giddy IG live reminiscent of Conor and Brittany's early days creating their programs, their main channel posts that Conor will be moving out 2 days a week. Pain was mentioned again. Probably the same pain mentioned in his personal videos as he spent 48 hours away back then too.

How hard would it have been to simply say to people who commented "you're right, I am sad and I am currently processing and going through some things. When I have understanding and words for what I am going through, I'll share." It's hard to feel sympathy for someone when they try to gaslight instead of acknowledge. That certainly isn't authentic.

[loathinglurker]

I really do not get this couple. They are poly, so that will open your relationship up to other people coming in and competing with each other. It is hard for me to feel sorry for Conor because he has been promoting this lifestyle online to others, yet he is feeling the downside of it now. I mean come on!

I used to like them a lot more too before they had a kid and brought in another full-time partner.

Yes, I also thought that their program on the moon cycle must be a rip off because it is not original content! Just more copy and paste content from people that may have questionable values after all.

It creeps me out the way Bridgette sounds like Britney now and also moves her mouth like her. I hate the way Britney always opens her mouth as a form of some sort of expression. It seems a bit haughty or something.

They really know how to rationalize the crap that is happening in their lives and Brit is more than happy to try and convince Conor it is a good thing for him! Ugh.

Oh and for god's sake, do not let your kid put that necklace in his mouth! It could break off and he could choke!

[loathinglurker]

Has anyone considered that llya may not be Conor's? Where did he get those blue eyes?

[chelsieross7]

Has anyone considered that llya may not be Conor's? Where did he get those blue eyes?

They addressed this around the time they got pregnant and said that they'd stopped seeing other partners for a few months around the time they decided to TTC. But I guess you never know in a situation like this.

[chelsieross7]

I remember shortly after Ilya was born, connor said he was feeling super connected to their family unit and didnt have a desire to be with anyone else at the time. I thought that meant they felt like taking a break from other partners and focusing on themselves for a while, but very shortly afterward, brittany introduced bridget. Then it came out that bridget was basically solely for brittany and I felt bad that connor clearly wasnt being heard when he said he wanted to focus on their family. I just feel like their current set up isn't working for connor, but unfortunately it took starting a family for these cracks to really show.

[Kingfisher]

It is hard for me to feel sorry for Conor because he has been promoting this lifestyle online to others, yet he is feeling the downside of it now. I mean come on!

I'm not bothered by them being poly but rather the airs of "authenticity" and denial of astute observations made by some viewers that are later proven out by later ambivalent videos. I'm thinking particularly of a video last year where Conor's body language and facial expression exuded unhappiness. They were quick to say that he's so happy and must have just been tired that day and they don't know what viewers are seeing. Then personal videos come that basically says what people were commenting on before. I do feel sorry for all of them because obviously the "programming" they claim to eschew is still present for all to see.

It just feels like lying. Lying is not a good look in polyamory. I don't think they need to share all aspects of their lives even if they are YouTubers and in fact they recorded a video before Bridget of why they would never have another partner shown on their channel because a previous partner decided they wanted themselves expunged from having been on the channel. They acquiesced to the request but weren't happy about it.

If they are going to try to maintain a facade of happiness around these changes although it isn't true for all involved, why not abide by their previous thought of not sharing those relationships on Conor and Brittany. Part of me wonders if this is tied up in the business brand they've created and if they feel it would jeopardize their funds from that if major relationship difficulty is shown. "Oh no, we can't not seem 'bad-ass!'" Being authentic should trump that.

I would root for them again if the hypocrisy disappeared.

It creeps me out the way Bridgette sounds like Britney now and also moves her mouth like her. I hate the way Britney always opens her mouth as a form of some sort of expression. It seems a bit haughty or something.

They really know how to rationalize the crap that is happening in their lives and Brit is more than happy to try and convince Conor it is a good thing for him! Ugh.

Oh and for god's sake, do not let your kid put that necklace in his mouth! It could break off and he could choke!

I'm starting to see their channels as their own mirrors. They are very much "reflect back what I say and believe to me or else." They are narcissistic as a unit. I don't know if one is a narcissist and the other/s is/are an enabler/s or what but it shines through in how they police the comments and possibly how they relate to each other. Brittany either was attracted to someone similar to herself (Bridget strikes me as a developed individual) or Conor and Bridget both became chameleons being what Brittany wanted them to be. Mirrors.

As for the channels, I'm sure they've turned off many who liked them and watched them for some time. I imagine a system of "doesn't agree with me, delete, and another, delete, let's keep all the praise comments because hey, everything we do should be praised. Hey beautiful people, we love you only if you say what we want to hear." So much for genuine interaction. They didn't even have conviction on sharing their views on vaccines. They crumbled and removed that video when "oh no, people are showing they don't like us." But again, maybe they were worried about cash flow from their programs and membership site.

The open mouth thing and the tongue out thing are odd to me as well. Reminds me of the duck bill everyone was doing years ago. Maybe Brittany watches too much porn? Then they all started doing it. The short grinning clips on IG are Joker-esque and just come across as artificial like seeing someone smile into one of those office desk mirrors that says "Smile." Aside from that, I got the feeling Brittany was obsessed with getting her belly flat again after childbirth. I think Bridget helped her with that obsession which maybe added to their nearness and increased her distance from Conor. She's not shy with showing herself constantly checking her belly size and shape and it rather looks like a dark vanity as opposed to an attempt of self-love of what she sees as a body flaw.

[xrubyx99]

Imo their life seems like a circus/shit show. I can not stand bridgette and Brittany. They both seem soooooo inauthentic and creepy, ESPECIALLY Brittany. Connor needs to get away from them and get custody of his baby. The way Brittany interacts with illya seems soooo unnatural and just wrong to me. Like she feels awkward and doesn’t know what to do or say. She’s always just like YA ILLYA or HI ILLYA. It seems like bridgette takes more care of illya than brittany. Its so fucked up that Conor is moving out 2 days a week and is letting bridgette, just some random who came into their life a year ago, RAISE HIS CHILD! Conor seems like such a great dad and you can clearly tell he knows what he’s doing, way more than Brittany. He seems more natural with illya than Brittany does. It’s so sad to me that this is really what things have come to. Their whole life/channel has really taken a complete 180. Ive been watching for almost 3 years now and this is not whAt I would have ever expected. It literally gets weirder and weirder by the day...

[loathinglurker]

Has anyone considered that llya may not be Conor's? Where did he get those blue eyes?

They addressed this around the time they got pregnant and said that they'd stopped seeing other partners for a few months around the time they decided to TTC. But I guess you never know in a situation like this.

I used to have high regard for their communication skills as a couple, but now I think Britney may just be full of shit. It would not surprise me in the least if she was lying about her sex life during the time llya was conceived. If I were Conor, I would get a DNA test done to make sure he is the father.