The Lindquists: dELLEusional, deceitful, and divorcing | Part 4

[RottieMama]

THREAD TITLE: The Lindquists: dELLEusional, deceitful, and divorcing | Part 4


THREAD CREDIT: Margie



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[okaythatlldo]

Can I just say I LOVED the post in the previous thread about Elle saying she doesn’t understand TikTok right after two of her “BFFs” went viral on it. YES!!! This is CLASSIC NARCISSISM.


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[Margie]

Yes, I agree! I didn’t realize two of her friends went viral on it, but I have noticed Amandamuse and her daughter enjoying it... classic Elle move, knocking the shit her “competitors” are enjoying. She is unbelievable... true narcissist.

[Skinnie]

If it were reverse, Elle would claim she was being bullied.

[67carfar]

So, Elle's house tour from Feb 2018 just popped up in my feed on YT so I thought I would give it a watch to see how things have changed. She has literally changed every single room in the house. Also, I noticed something about the recently repainted with butt-ugly chalk paint piano. In her recent video (that we know she re-edited to change the age of the piano), she sort of implies it's an antique piano that she bought. Same with her insta caption about the same video. But in here 2018 house tour at 9:40 in the video), she says "This is a piano that's been in Dan's family forever." So not only did she ruin a perfectly good piano, she ruined a piano that rightfully belongs to her ex or his family.

Also, I noticed that in her most recent Clean with Me video (April 30), she's suddenly wearing her wedding bands again while shes vacuuming already clean chairs and sofa. Also the D&E letters are still on the wall up above the kitchen even though she's taken down everything else that references them as a couple. Still trying to keep up that facade. Someone commented on the video asking how she and Dan divide the house chores/cleaning and someone else responded with "Dan cleans his house and Elle cleans hers." I'm dead

[Margie]

Yes! I noticed the letters too! My theory is, she’s keeping those up, to throw us off her trail, because they are the least “in your face and offensive” unlike photos of her and Dan.. she couldn’t bear to look at those every day. As soon as she comes clean about their separation/divorce, those will come down.

[ForeverGauc01]

Do we think she’ll ever actually do a sit down video and address things? I would respect her a lot more if she would just sit down and say “hey, our marriage is struggling and we’ve separated, the kids are okay and we are okay”. There doesn’t need to be details, but a little honesty. Viewers are catching on, things are very different and she’s being so secretive.


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[Margie]

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I decided to watch this interaction again and a few things stood out:
-forde is very clingy with Dan, looking for physical affection, likely because he hasn’t seen him
-Dan is wearing work clothes and his stethoscope.. why would he bring his stethoscope home? It could be because he wanted to check on the cat at home, but I think it’s more likely he was just “passing through”
-Elle mentions “Dan just met Bernie”. If a vet was legit adopting a pet, I find it VERY hard to believe he wouldn’t have gone to the shelter to check things out before hand, it just doesn’t fit. He’s also very level headed and wouldn’t just allow this to happen. A pet is a big commitment. He would have been involved.
-he is standing the entire time, he looks uncomfortable and like he’s about to head out the door. Probably because he is.


I don’t see Elle doing any sit down video until she has reached a final decision. Like they will go through with the divorce or once it has already happened. But I agree, I think a lot of folks have caught on and I think her concealment of it will affect her viewers trust in her and will negatively affect her channel.

Her video content these days is also VERY revealing. She won’t be able to keep this up for long.

[washingMresistant]

I feel like Elle has identity issues.
One side of her is hippie, yogi, vegan, zero waste, gender-neutral parenting. Her wild 20s, pregnancy before marriage, tattoos, doing yoga, plant-based eating, self-love journey.
The other side of her is quite materialistic, she likes expensive stuff, clothing, accessories, skin care, specialist appointments, cosmetic procedures, home décor.
Daniel on the other hand is quite conservative, family provider, laid back, solid personality, financially responsible, Christian. Socially awkward too.
When Elle met Daniel she probably wanted a break from craziness, craved stability and was afraid of getting too old for having kids. And Daniel wanted a traditional Christian wife. He fell blindly in love with her. She married him for money and emotional safety, but never truly loved him, always wanted to change him, hated his lack of passion.
Her whole marriage was probably an inner conflict between 1) hate him, zero passion, awkwardness, not interested in any of the alternatives (eg never was vegan and didn’t want kids to be vegan), and 2) comfort.
She likely feels stuck in this upper middle-class stay-at-home mum and housewife life. Not very exciting and still can’t afford truly luxurious lifestyle.
Motherhood doesn’t fulfill her either due to her narcissistic tendencies. Very controlling, self-prioritizing, can’t tolerate kid stuff in her living space…
I do believe she ended the relationship. She couldn’t stand Daniel anymore. He probably still loves her - left her the house, and would come back if she wanted.

I hope that she finds a good psychologist. She truly needs it. Needs to figure out what it is that she really wants in life.

[Margie]

Yep! You hit the nail on the head!!!

[Hill Dweller]

Spot on! She's a true narcissist.

[JustAMereMuggle]

So my friend JUST got the newsletter TONIGHT (not Friday) and this week's topic is, "Forgiveness is a gift you can give to yourself!" Then she blathers on about how she had to forgive her mother because she was so awful and yadda yadda yadda. Nothing new other than what she's already said and we know aren't true. You can't say you hate your mother one second, then you want her to meet your perfect 3rd child (A DAUGHTER!) the next. If you were truely that traumatized that you still blame all of your issues on her then you haven't forgiven her. And forgiving someone isn't always the best option. I REALLY hope people who need serious help get it and don't listen to this dimwit's rant.
Hasn't she said she went to teacher's college and was a teacher at some point? Her writing is atrocious! I use a lot of commas when I write but she's next level. In the email she's got a run on sentence that's 7 lines long and commas where the sentence should break. I'm really a stickler for grammar things like that. I hope for the sake of the TDSB school system Dan keeps paying her enough alimony and child support so she doesn't have to revisit that venture. Can you imagine showing up in September and seeing HER as your child's teacher? *shudder*

[JustAMereMuggle]

Sorry, double post. That's probably one of the ugliest cats I've ever seen (through no fault of it's own, I get it, he was a street cat). Or is she just slowly going to drop these "boyfriend" and "single" hints until her being divorced is all but common knowledge? Does she really think she's funny? I don't get it...

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[Kaylor1]

Her cat is boy friend material????
Is she trolling us or...like what does that even mean?

[Margie]

Hahaha that poster of her cat as “boyfriend material” totally clinched the fact that she’s currently single!

Also, she’s updated her Instagram bio. We should start keeping track of how often she changes this, and to stupid shit like “passionate hygge home” wtf is she even trying to get across with that statement?

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[JustAMereMuggle]

Hahaha that poster of her cat as “boyfriend material” totally clinched the fact that she’s currently single!

Also, she’s updated her Instagram bio. We should start keeping track of how often she changes this, and to stupid shit like “passionate hygge home” wtf is she even trying to get across with that statement?

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I want to add to this that her being one of YouTube's "Women to Watch" was from 2017, before her channel was absolute sh*t and she was at the very bottom of the list. It's really nothing to brag about considering this was the one and only time they did it. It's not some prestigious award.

[JustAMereMuggle]

I guess Elle realized "Forgiveness really ISN'T a gift she can give herself". No sunday video to accompany her Fraud Friday newsletter. A few people have asked where it is and she hasn't replied to them. I swear if she was my employee and pulled this shit week after week her ass would be fired a LOOONNNGGG time ago.
She has, however, managed to do a post and an Instagram story about how lucky she is to be a mother this Mother's Day... oh wait, it's just an #ad for some HP Printer and printable worksheets. Heaven forbid Elle have a genuine motherly feeling without it being paid.

[Margie]

Haha, shit, I didn’t even notice she skipped the video! Am she’s useless. She will probably try to pass it off as her Tuesday video OR she’s already giving up on this venture lol.

I really liked her #distractionAd to cover up the fact that she was alone with her kids this Mother’s Day.

[SuperchicDeadpool]

HP is garbage. Fitting.

[TeachIT]

You guys are ON IT SO many good points made!

The cat bf meme? Wtf? JFC why does she think she’s hilarious.

Hp printer. CRINGE. To be shallow, what a fucking lame sponsorship lmao. No “cool” brands will work with her so she’s selling printers Also isn’t she low waste? Eco friendly ethos? How is printing a shit ton of worksheets good for the earth when there are zillions of apps for kids?

She usually brags about what Dan does for her for Mother’s Day. So quiet this year. How long until she realizes being alone with herself SUCKS?


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