2011teenageblackshirtsforever: Part 24

[alygator]

I feel like if she knew Lily had to go to the bathroom she should have fed her things with fiber.

[KimKardashian]

I don't think V knows how to do anything when it comes to Lily honestly .

[jedoc]

I feel sorry for Lily I really do but none of us should know the details of her rectum or bowel movements,I would never disrespect my child by broadcasting that to thousands. Vanessas desperate need for attention is at the cost of her daughters privacy and dignity

[HelloHolaHallo]

Just my opinion, I'm not a doctor so someone please correct me but I did a Google search and there are so many ways this could happen I don't think eating more fiber would have prevented it, but again I just googled I have no idea correct me if I'm wrong. It would've or could've happened eventually and my heart goes out to Lily and V and D because no matter how much of I dislike I cannot deny how horrifying and painful that must be. Would I be posting it online in real time? No. But I really think V turns to her subscribers and follows for reassurance as I do to this site sometimes. I truly feel for her and Lily and I don't think it's fair to say she's a horrible mother, she isn't perfect but I've seen horrible and she does try. Imagine how tragic that must've been for them I mean they were at fucking Disney and that happened poor Lily!!! I'm not a doctor so idk it her Turners has anything to do with it but I have a strong feeling in some way it does feel free to correct me...I guess what I'm trying to say V if you're reading I'm praying for you and your family and especially Lily. Hope that made sense.

[hannahbanana]

So she just posted that they're still going to take Lily trick or treating but only for a little bit...not surprised that she's taking her out after being in the ER all night.
I hope Lily feels better though!

[Ellagrace]

I think one of Banessa's biggest problems is that she shares entirely too much. She's been talking about Lily having trouble with moving her bowels for a while now. Then some time later she posts that Lily has a prolapsed rectum. Well of course everyone is going to question why the pooping issue was seemingly just left to go on for so long. Had everyone not heard her say it multiple times and for an extended period of time that either Lily was having trouble going or just flat wasn't going at all, I don't really think she would have recieved all the negative reactions that she did. Hopefully that made sense.

Another thing is those click bait video titles like 'Lily's Leaking Heart' or whatever that was. Annnd her tweets and FB posts that imply there's something seriously wrong but after making everyone wait for it, it turns out to be nothing at all. That's attention seeking behavior and the kind of thing pisses people off and causes them to not trust what she says. Then on the rare occasion when she's actually telling the truth people think she's just BS'ing as usual.
I think for the most part, the reason people here don't like her is her own fault. I started watching her YT channel back when Lily was just a couple months old. I really wanted to like Banessa but her antics got old fast. The only reason I still watch her videos is simply because I enjoy watching Lily grow up.

[FJ_Lanning]

I feel like if she knew Lily had to go to the bathroom she should have fed her things with fiber.

Agreed. Where was the fiber one bars? The fibre powder for water? Prune juice? Black licorice?? Geez. My parents did that for me as a kid. And I do respite for a girl with Autism. Her mom is on top of that. You have to be paying attention.

[kayuhsee]

I feel bad for Lily because when she's older all these posts V makes about her health issues will probably still be around. I would be mortified if people my age could just look up my name and learn about my prolapsed rectum.

[FJ_Lanning]

I feel sorry for Lily I really do but none of us should know the details of her rectum or bowel movements,I would never disrespect my child by broadcasting that to thousands. Vanessas desperate need for attention is at the cost of her daughters privacy and dignity

Eh I'm used to it. My sister had ulcerative colitis for almost 5 years. From when she was 11-16, poop talk is worse when you're a teen!! (My sister passed away, otherwise she would still have it.

[misskaila93]

As much as I don't like Vanessa...I think she's weird, ignorant, and an idiot. However, I do not think she's lying about being in the hospital recently rather than last week. She used an old not to write out that Lily was in the hospital rather than starting a new one. I do it all the time especially when if it's a note that I don't need anymore. This is how I imagined it went down:The note said the 22nd...that note was most likely a checklist of things she needed to pack for their trip. She open her notes app..saw the checklist and figured she didn't need it anymore. She erased all the words on that note and typed that Lily is in the ER. YES, when you write on an old note that date changes BUT only when you press "done" and the keyboard goes away or you close and reopen the note. Clearly Vanessa didn't press done and she just screenshot the note and cropped out the keyboard. Therefore the date did not change (I just did this myself to see if that would happen). It's said that this is even a debate right now, but this is Vanessa and she bat shit crazy sometimes. Vanessa thrives on other people's feedback so she posted it all over social media. She probably felt so cool and popular around her family in the ER because she was getting so many notifications. I'm glad that they ended the trip early, but I doubt Vanessa was the one who suggested that. I hope Vanessa feels guilty because I know she probably gave Lily hell for not taking a shit during the road trip.

Another reason I doubt the ER visit happened on the 22nd, which I thought would be obvious to everyone here. Look at David's facial hair LMAO. He has way too much scruff and facial hair in the ER photo. Before the trip around the 21st or so he had just shaved his beard and had very little facial hair.

[CamilaCabello]

I can't wait for the next thing you guys bitch about. It'll either be: I can't believe she promised videos and hasn't uploaded any! Or: Her daughter has a prolapsed rectum and she's still uploading videos? She just craves the attention!

[gypsophila]

She probably felt so cool and popular around her family in the ER because she was getting so many notifications. I'm glad that they ended the trip early, but I doubt Vanessa was the one who suggested that. I hope Vanessa feels guilty because I know she probably gave Lily hell for not taking a shit during the road trip.

Do you really believe this about Vanessa? That she was happy and feeling superior, when her daughter was in pain, bleeding and facing surgery? She's not a monster just because you don't like her. The whole family was involved. I'm sure she was in tears just like any other mother would be. And scared as hell.

And to those who say it was her fault, or not enough fiber, that doesn't hold up either. You can get the condition from too much fiber and diarrhea too. There are varying degrees of it, and it's fairly common in kids. Unexpected and horrifying, but not rare by any means. Vanessa did what was right. She called 911, took her to the hospital for treatment and drove home so that all of Lily's specialists were on hand for consultation. It's pointless to say she shouldn't have posted it. You can't unring the bell now. At least she's honest and says what is wrong with her child right away. I hope Lily makes a quick and full recovery. She looks good today. If she wants to go out for a bit for Halloween, she should. It doesn't have to be for very long. Just enough to make her feel better about her weekend at least.

[Wagurl]

While V has her faults, I seriously don't think she would ever do anything to harm lily. If she knew lily would end up in the ER, I think she would have done everything to try and prevent it (juice, laxatives, etc.). I don't think she's this mean, evil mother that I feel like some people portray she is on this site. I think she's like every other first time mother who is learning as they go along. Every mother makes mistakes. For example, the potty training incident, but I'm sure she learned and wouldn't do it again with a future child. It didn't hurt lily, so I thinks dumb to bring it up over and over and over. It's something she learned from. And like other people said on the forum, she's damned if she does and damned if she doesn't. If she doesn't share that she was in the ER, people would be upset and think she was hiding something. If she does post something, people think she's begging for attention. Every YouTube mom shares photos when they're in the doctor's office or ER. It's not just V. However, I 100% agree about her bait titles and vague posts. That is for sure just for attention.

[Emcee]

Why do people get mad about nitpicking and bitchin? Isn't that the whole point of this site?
Anyway, I sincerly hope Lily feels better soon. I can't even imagine how terrifying it must have been for her.

[gypsophila]

Why do people get mad about nitpicking and bitchin? Isn't that the whole point of this site?
Anyway, I sincerly hope Lily feels better soon. I can't even imagine how terrifying it must have been for her.

If you want to nitpick and bitch, be my guest. Don't expect everyone to agree with you though.

[misskaila93]

She probably felt so cool and popular around her family in the ER because she was getting so many notifications. I'm glad that they ended the trip early, but I doubt Vanessa was the one who suggested that. I hope Vanessa feels guilty because I know she probably gave Lily hell for not taking a shit during the road trip.

Do you really believe this about Vanessa? That she was happy and feeling superior, when her daughter was in pain, bleeding and facing surgery? She's not a monster just because you don't like her. The whole family was involved. I'm sure she was in tears just like any other mother would be. And scared as hell.

And to those who say it was her fault, or not enough fiber, that doesn't hold up either. You can get the condition from too much fiber and diarrhea too. There are varying degrees of it, and it's fairly common in kids. Unexpected and horrifying, but not rare by any means. Vanessa did what was right. She called 911, took her to the hospital for treatment and drove home so that all of Lily's specialists were on hand for consultation. It's pointless to say she shouldn't have posted it. You can't unring the bell now. At least she's honest and says what is wrong with her child right away. I hope Lily makes a quick and full recovery. She looks good today. If she wants to go out for a bit for Halloween, she should. It doesn't have to be for very long. Just enough to make her feel better about her weekend at least.

I usually ignore your replies Vanessa...I mean gypso because you tend get butt hurt when people have something to say about Vanessa. Do not twist my words and make it seem like I think Vanessa was happy her child was in pain. I said she probably felt cool because she was getting so many notifications why else would anyone post crap like that on social media besides for people kissing her ass in the comments. I doubt Vanessa was in tears she seems to lack empathy. Anyone in tears would not be on social media when they are in pain only attention seeking people.

[olemama]

My child had the same issue as Lily; that is, he became constipated for an unknown reason at age 4, he had a painful bowel movement, and then resisted having a bowel movement and became even more constipated. He finally had an extremely painful accident during which he screamed and cried. This all took place in a week. Unlike Vanessa, I got him to the doctor immediately. The doctor prescribed a laxative with the appropriate dosage for his age. The problem resolved in a week and he resumed his normal toileting. If your child is continually constipated or is fearful of the pain of a movement, you don't wait! You don't hold their hands and whisper soothing words while they scream and cry! You get them help PRONTO from a physician!!! This prolapsed rectum could have been prevented if Vanessa had gotten immediate help for Lily when she first noticed the problem. The problem is Vanessa viewed the problem as a potty-training issue rather than a critical medical issue! She is a well-meaning mom but she is incompetent. And she is causing Lily unbelievable suffering.

[_809lovely]

My daughter turn 3 in August and i started potty training her around April. She was afraidddd to go number 2 in the toilet! & that's normal. Honestly, i used to put a diaper on her because i didn't want her to hold it in. Soooo i believe lily was just scared (didn't she mention it?) So if she knew that she had to work with her and try to find a way for her daughter to go number 2. Hopefully that never happens again

[Emcee]

Why do people get mad about nitpicking and bitchin? Isn't that the whole point of this site?
Anyway, I sincerly hope Lily feels better soon. I can't even imagine how terrifying it must have been for her.

If you want to nitpick and bitch, be my guest. Don't expect everyone to agree with you though.

Lol. Oh Gypso, this wasn't even directed at you. I don't even respond to your comments anymore because honestly and IN MY OPINION (which you don't have to agree with, as you pointed out) they are so hypocritical. You're sitting there criticizing B for taking her kids out when sick, but you have no problem with V taking Lily out trick or treating, after she had spent all night in the ER.

[ashleyrr2k]

Why do people get mad about nitpicking and bitchin? Isn't that the whole point of this site?
Anyway, I sincerly hope Lily feels better soon. I can't even imagine how terrifying it must have been for her.

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