Bonnie Hoellein: Busy As A Bri | Part 55

Unread post by **LumpyDays** » Mon Aug 05, 2019 10:58 am

Hey, I heard the funniest joke. Bonnie is a role model and she puts everyone else's feelings first!!!

Ease up Bon. You have zero influence on me. Your stoned. Go to bed.

I'm going back to not watching.

Unread post by **natalka81** » Mon Aug 05, 2019 11:03 am

This was incredibly sad. I couldn't get through it. Poor kids!

Unread post by **sheltiefan** » Mon Aug 05, 2019 11:04 am

First operated on wrong part-8 million views. This operated on wrong part-214,000. That should tell them something, but probably don't. All of the vlogs from prepping for surgery on has about 500,000.

Today's numbers are not very good-only at 18,000. Today's vlog has a fair amount of thumbs down also. I agree with everyone else-this shouldn't have been uploaded!

Unread post by **rosie_dalia** » Mon Aug 05, 2019 11:10 am

Liz_444 wrote: ↑Mon Aug 05, 2019 9:33 am Bon Bon is delusional. She starts the video by talking about what her "friend" said to her. This "friend" is a viewer....lol!

She thinks she turned people onto Jesus Christ. She is mentally ill, and Joel should never have let her put this drug induced rant on YT.

Delusional was the first word that came to mind watching her rant.

She says EVERYONE should be nice to her, but I get the feeling she's a total bitch to people IRL.

The stuff about Olivia having positive body image and she's not worried about her is just BS and uneducated. She's barely 10 and eating disorders can start that early, but it's often more likely around puberty when girls' body fat naturally increases, they develop breast and pubic hair and get their periods. That's when a lot of girls start having negative feeling about their bodies. Plus, Olivia is shaped like Bonnie. So if Bonnie hated/hates her body, I can imagine Olivia will compare herself to her mother. Most girls do.

She did that rant with a stranger watching? Those must be strong meds. And/or she doesn't mind looking and acting like a crazy person in public.

Mon Aug 05, 2019 11:23 am

When she went back and busted into her room... “rise and shine, ya want crepes?” I chortled.

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Mon Aug 05, 2019 11:27 am

A lot of Bonnie’s issues came from Grandma Griff and her grandmother. Olivia has no hope for a positive body image. No doubt Grandma Griff still has some messed up opinions and openly spills them in front of all the grandkids. I remember an old vlog where Bonnie even showed insecurity about how clean her windows were because she knew her mom would comment. There was also a vlog where Jennifer made a passive aggressive comment about the food in the cupboards to Joel. She isn’t as nice as she tries to appear, and this is the matronly figure worshiped by all the Griffiths daughters. She is perfection, and Olivia will grow up learning that Jennifer’s opinion is the only one that matters. If her opinion is that Olivia needs to lose 10 pounds to be thinner like aunt Ellie, I think she’ll share that opinion with no shame.

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Unread post by **YTIG60** » Mon Aug 05, 2019 11:55 am

Bonnie's IG posted they are looking for models based in Utah. Payment will be based on experience. I've felt Bri or Ruby or other non professional models they've used locally were probably not expensive, looked good in their photos and were known to their viewers.

Unread post by **natalka81** » Mon Aug 05, 2019 12:05 pm

HelloSweetie wrote: ↑Mon Aug 05, 2019 11:27 am A lot of Bonnie’s issues came from Grandma Griff and her grandmother. Olivia has no hope for a positive body image. No doubt Grandma Griff still has some messed up opinions and openly spills them in front of all the grandkids. I remember an old vlog where Bonnie even showed insecurity about how clean her windows were because she knew her mom would comment. There was also a vlog where Jennifer made a passive aggressive comment about the food in the cupboards to Joel. She isn’t as nice as she tries to appear, and this is the matronly figure worshiped by all the Griffiths daughters. She is perfection, and Olivia will grow up learning that Jennifer’s opinion is the only one that matters. If her opinion is that Olivia needs to lose 10 pounds to be thinner like aunt Ellie, I think she’ll share that opinion with no shame.

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I have a body-obsessed person in my family. The impact on the rest of us has been monumental.

Mon Aug 05, 2019 12:07 pm

YTIG60 wrote: ↑Mon Aug 05, 2019 8:34 am
actuallydear wrote: ↑Mon Aug 05, 2019 3:08 am
That stuff obviously stuck with Bonnie and that's why she's changing her appearance. So sad to see her end up this way. I really loved watching their family.
This vlog, to me, showed her insecurities. When I started watching this channel years ago, I saw an average stay at home mom with a hard working husband and I didn't see her extended family negatively. Over a period of time, I learned I was wrong. It might be time for Joel to transition back to working outside of YouTube instead of sleeping in without the kids and waking up to room services. You can see how YouTube does affect families in this vlog and it isn't worth it.

What is interesting is how removed and detached Beau and his wife are from the YouTube sisters and family. I think Emily rolls her eyes and shakes her head at Beau’s family big time.

Mon Aug 05, 2019 12:14 pm

Floridagator 1012 wrote: ↑Mon Aug 05, 2019 6:59 am I have got to look up the idiot that sent that message to her she most be a plastic doll. True loving yourself and self care is great for your daughter to see but hating who you are and how you look so much you just go and remake yourself whole body is not good mentally for a young girl. I could understand if Bonnie worked super hard to get in shape and had a lot of streched out skin hanging off of her and she got it removed or if she was in an accident and wanted to fix scars etc. she is too lazy to do the work and wants to be something she isn’t. She is so jealous of Ellie being tiny she can’t stand it so now since lipo didn’t do it start shaving the bones in your body. She is medium boned Ellie is small boned. Bonnie can claim self love all day she hates herself and loves pills so she will never stop this cycle well until she is broke.

I relate to this all the time. I’m medium boned. I’m 5’4” and 140 lbs and a size 6. My BFF is the same height as I am but she is 115 lbs and a size 2. We work out together, hang out by the pool, and other things together. I feel really really big compared to her in these activities. It’s taken a lot of mental gymnastics on my behalf to not berate myself for being my size. It’s really hard when you already feel kind of big and then the person/people you spend the most time with are really small. You feel out of place even though nothing is wrong with you. I’m glad Bonnie learned some nutritional practices and the value of having good health. But I wish she had a good mental health counselor in this journey.

Unread post by **Ckc717** » Mon Aug 05, 2019 12:26 pm

Bonnie is naive to sit there any only talk about how this will affect Olivia. Boys can have eating disorders as well and issues with body image. She’s like “boys don’t care” umm yes Bonnie they do. Cody and Boston could definitely have problems in the future.

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Unread post by **Namm** » Mon Aug 05, 2019 12:42 pm

Ckc717 wrote: ↑Mon Aug 05, 2019 12:26 pm Bonnie is naive to sit there any only talk about how this will affect Olivia. Boys can have eating disorders as well and issues with body image. She’s like “boys don’t care” umm yes Bonnie they do. Cody and Boston could definitely have problems in the future.

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It wouldn't surprise me if Bonnie's brother Beau has a eating disorder like his sisters.

Unread post by **queenc13** » Mon Aug 05, 2019 12:48 pm

Liz_444 wrote: ↑Mon Aug 05, 2019 9:33 am Bon Bon is delusional. She starts the video by talking about what her "friend" said to her. This "friend" is a viewer....lol!

She thinks she turned people onto Jesus Christ. She is mentally ill, and Joel should never have let her put this drug induced rant on YT.

I wouldn’t consider Elle just a viewer. She’s also a semi-popular youtuber that I’ve watched for years. I’m sure her and the Griff girls do have a friendship.

Unread post by **rosie_dalia** » Mon Aug 05, 2019 12:49 pm

Ckc717 wrote: ↑Mon Aug 05, 2019 12:26 pm Bonnie is naive to sit there any only talk about how this will affect Olivia. Boys can have eating disorders as well and issues with body image. She’s like “boys don’t care” umm yes Bonnie they do. Cody and Boston could definitely have problems in the future.

Lincoln could also have issues in the future because his mother seems to want him to be a baby girl. I'm just kidding, but cut his damn hair! The way she FREAKED when one of the boys cut a tiny piece off was completely crazy. He doesn't even look cute with that long, stringy, greasy-looking hair.

Unread post by **ba1006** » Mon Aug 05, 2019 12:55 pm

rosie_dalia wrote: ↑Mon Aug 05, 2019 12:49 pm
Ckc717 wrote: ↑Mon Aug 05, 2019 12:26 pm Bonnie is naive to sit there any only talk about how this will affect Olivia. Boys can have eating disorders as well and issues with body image. She’s like “boys don’t care” umm yes Bonnie they do. Cody and Boston could definitely have problems in the future.

Lincoln could also have issues in the future because his mother seems to want him to be a baby girl. I'm just kidding, but cut his damn hair! The way she FREAKED when one of the boys cut a tiny piece off was completely crazy. He doesn't even look cute with that long, stringy, greasy-looking hair.

I think she doesn't cut it because she's just stubborn. I can't think of any other reason. People are always talking about it - even her dad. I would be happy if she just washed and combed it once in a while.

Unread post by **lmmomSD** » Mon Aug 05, 2019 1:14 pm

Yeah-- I don't have a problem with it because "it's girly". I have an issue with it because it's unkempt and never looks like it's been combed. And the reason he had Boston cut it was because he "wanted Henry Danger hair" meaning he wants it short like his dad and big brothers have it. So she's going against his expressed desires. And then his asshole grandfather tells him he looks like a girl, which is apparently an insult.
That is my issue with his long hair.

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Unread post by **kathpt** » Mon Aug 05, 2019 1:23 pm

Bonnie is the perfect example on how much being online can affect you in a negative way.
Anywhere you go, whatever you do, online or not, there will ALWAYS be people that are going to dislike you. That's just how life is. What you have to do is just keep doing what you're doing, someone's always going to have something to say. And that's ok, it's how the world works.

You're a grown ass woman who makes thousands off of making videos of your family on the internet, and you're crying because someone pointed a finger at how you live your life? Get a grip.

She pretends she has to justify every single behavior because hAteRs R MeAN, but it seems to me she's just justifying those decisions to herself.
Low self esteem shows, low self confidence shows - that's okay, everyone has trouble with those. It's all the sneaking around and lying people have an issue with.

Unread post by **gopedjane** » Mon Aug 05, 2019 1:46 pm

Good on anyone who could get through whatever that is.

I don’t understand why they would bother even post that today since it’s completely out of order in the timeline and will just turn more people off.

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Unread post by **lmmomSD** » Mon Aug 05, 2019 1:57 pm

kathpt wrote:Bonnie is the perfect example on how much being online can affect you in a negative way.
Anywhere you go, whatever you do, online or not, there will ALWAYS be people that are going to dislike you. That's just how life is. What you have to do is just keep doing what you're doing, someone's always going to have something to say. And that's ok, it's how the world works.

You're a grown ass woman who makes thousands off of making videos of your family on the internet, and you're crying because someone pointed a finger at how you live your life? Get a grip.

She pretends she has to justify every single behavior because hAteRs R MeAN, but it seems to me she's just justifying those decisions to herself.
Low self esteem shows, low self confidence shows - that's okay, everyone has trouble with those. It's all the sneaking around and lying people have an issue with.

Kacey Musgraves has a song about how you can't be everybody's cup of tea. "Nobody's everybody's favourite".
You can't please everyone all the time, so you have to live for yourself and your family. We've said for a long time here that she is way too thin skinned to be any kind of "public figure". Anyone who even offers constructive criticism gets called a hater. She needs to get off YouTube and/or get a grip.

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Unread post by **Bethypooh51** » Mon Aug 05, 2019 2:32 pm

When Bonnie says her viewers don’t know 1/2 of what she has gotten done...well what in the world did she have done extra??? It looks like to me that she has done a complete Mommy make over with a chin revision... what else could they have done?

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